I'm always hearing how great it is and blablabla...
but do people ever get bored of it??
2007-11-06 04:35:23 · 43 answers · asked by bumblebees666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends of the situation but yes...
If its become so regular that you feel its a chor then try spending more qualitiy time with the person, make it more interesting (games etc), or just find a partner you wants to take it steady so that sex becomes more than just sex (for the hormones etc...) but instead love making where sparks fly...
anyway talk to your partner, it should help
2007-11-06 04:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a few factors that you need to consider, that you didn't mention here. Are you with the same person all the time? Have you been together for a while? And how often, how long does it last? Chances are, while you know you're bored, obviously, it probably just feels like the same thing every night, maybe try and get him to focus on you alittle bit more, or mess with the lighting or music or even the location!? Yes, people get bored with sex, but that's when they end up cheating or the other person ends up cheating. Sit down and think about why exactly are you bored? Is it quick, is it one position? Good luck, and don't worry, sex all the time isn't for everybody!
2007-11-06 04:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Missy the Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is possible to become bored with it. Look at it this way. You have a favorite food, right? Well what if the only thing you ate day in and day out, for every meal, was that favorite food. Eventually you'd get bored with it or sick of it. It's the same with sex. If you do the same thing each and every time, you will eventually get bored. If you change things up from time to time (different position, different location, etc.) there's something new to look forward to and you won't get bored.
2007-11-06 04:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES!
I'll quote the great Chris Rock for yet another answer:
"Show me the hottest piece of @ss on the planet, and I'll show you a dude who's TIRED of tappin' it"
Basically, I think it's all about both people making an effort to keep it fresh. Routine kills the spice. You gotta find to things to try, places, ways, toys.
Guys forget the wining and dining part after a while too, which makes her not as into it. And guys forget the 4-play (or don't take enough time to get the engine started and warmed up)after a while too sometimes, which is all important.
But yes, it is possible to get bored with it.
2007-11-06 04:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by WiggumRalph 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, it can get boring if it's the same partner, same place, same pace, etc. You gotta mix it up to keep it interesting.
It can also be boring doing the one night stand thing, because even if it's fun, it is never as good as if you were in a relationship. The person doesn't know what you like and visa-versa, and it gets boring to have sex with ppl who just don't know how to do it right.
So in a nutshell: yes!
2007-11-06 04:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by that's right 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are getting bored then you are not exploring each other I have been with my hubby for 18yrs I have been with him since i was 16 and have been married for 17yrs and the key is to keep reinventing your sex life keep it fresh an not let it go stale because of sane old same old. It's not about just the sex but about the connection about 2 people
2007-11-06 04:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by amanda148 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you can really get tried of it. No mater how good the partner. If you are tired and have worked an 8 hour day, picked up groceries form the market, picked up the kids from day care, made dinner, checked homework, took the kids a bath and got them ready for bed, washed a load of clothes, and then discussed bills with your husband; Tell me would you be in the mood for sex? I don't think so!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-06 04:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes... It can get boring. But why does it get boring? One position, once a week. It feels like a chore that anything else? OR is it that people put too much emphesis on sex. OR they watch too many porno to find ordinary sex with spouse unexciting?
2007-11-06 04:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by Traveler 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i get bored very often during sex. it maybe the person and how long i been with them or it can be that it's the same thing over and over again no fun in the bedroom. i have no idea what it is all i know i s that sex sucks
2007-11-06 04:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by shy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I get bored while I'm on the job then I ring up my wife to see if shes done the shopping
2007-11-06 04:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋