I am a single, staright, 28 year old male and I have not yet experienced having a girlfriend or my first kiss. There is nothing wrong with me or my life, I just have not had the time with work and school to meet someone. Anyone else like me??
2007-11-06 04:33:53 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, all the other gay males your age are just like you.
2007-11-06 04:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 14⤋
So....you're saying...in 28 years of your life so far....you have not had any time what so ever to experience a kiss or love? It's a little strange but not totally crazy I guess. I think I can safely say that there is not many out there like you. You say there is nothing wrong with you but I'm betting that you are a pretty shy guy....and that would be what's wrong. Most girls like a take charge guy. They want to feel safe to know that the guy will protect her if something happens. And that doesn't mean you have to be a jerk. That's why they say nice guys always finish last. You have to make the time and put yourself out there...you're 28...you don't want to be one of those old dads that are too old to play ball with the kids do you? I'm not dowing you, I'm just saying it's time to make the time and go get you a girlfriend because you're going to need the practice to meet the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. Don't be afraid or embarassed if you get turned down just walk away and move on to the next girl. There's plenty out there....so go.
2007-11-06 04:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel bad about it... I'm in the same boat too and I'm 28 years old. I never had a serious relationship in my life... But people have told me over the years you don't go searching for love, you let it come to you! The best advice is just be yourself and learn how to be happy being single... The worst scenario is take on someone who will DO the job of making you happy, it doesnt work that way.
Just go on about your life and do the activities you're passionate about. Sooner or later, you might bump into someone who will share the same values and beliefs in life.
2007-11-06 04:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are certainly people out there like you, but it is rare. At 28 to not have ever had a girlfriend of any kind isn't run of the mill. There is nothing wrong with it, but you should definitely explore what you can do to change the situation. A healthy relationship, and more importantly a healthy social balance would almost certainly enrich your life.
2007-11-06 04:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by Gary A 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes about 90% have. However, My husband was in his mid twenties before he kissed anyone. He is still awsome and very good in bed now! lol We are married going on two years married and have kids. Don't worry. He got annoyed with it and just went out to a club and kissed someone. That gave him more confidence. I wouldn't however, when you get a girl tell her until you are dating a while. This is where white lies are good. Women love to think about all the girls that wanted her man. lol You will be fine it doesn't make you gay... I am sure you know that. You have to make time for intimacy in your life it is a big part of finding your identity.
2007-11-06 04:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a normal guy, and it will hap pend one day. Don't worry about a thing. You are not the only one, I know guys your age who feel fine, and same thing going on in their life's. You won't be the first or the last it's fine. When I say I know guys in the same situation, I mean, my husband was your age when I met him and he was still a virgin. We sarted living together for one year. We later joined a wonderful church, got married and now I am a mother of three. I've been married for 24 years with the same man. You are fine , I am so thankful to God who let me meet this wonderful man I'm with for as long as we die... Don't let anyone get to you by putting you down, who ever judge you or criticized you , don't respect real feelings and really are ignorant people.. I respect your life and your decisions and hope all will work great as it did for my husband and I...
I send you a wonderful hug and a shiny star!!!!
2007-11-06 04:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by Esther 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In case you can't get a date easily, there are many ways to find someone. Try the internet, there are many sites that can help you.
Most 28 yr olds have done everything -normal for the age.
You say there is nothing wrong with you; are you sure you are talking about appearance, or social life? Are you attractive -not necessarily with the irresistibly hot meaning? Don't you have any friends that can take you out???
2007-11-06 04:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by moulin.rouge 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think most 28 year old men have.
But I do know a 30 year old, and quite a few men who are in their early 20s who are in the same situation as you.
2007-11-06 04:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think theres a lot wrong with it. by 28 u didnt have time to kiss a girl? what about high school? college? are you really unattractive or insecure? have you had any dates? arent you lonely? ithink u should go out more and stop working and studying so hard. you're gonna get burned out with no life.
2007-11-06 05:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by simcha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww!! That is so sweet.......I actually believe that guys like you know what they want in life (i see you said that you work and go to school) and that is just amazinlgly wonderful. You are not "wrong", and i personally think its a good idea to save yourself til marraige!....You seem to have your head in a good direction towards life and i wish you the best in whatever career you are pursuing! Have a great day and May God Bless You. Good for you!
2007-11-06 04:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by SaberToothCali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most 28 year old males have had girlfriends already, kissed, made out and gone all the way with them. Some are even married to them by now. You are definetely in the minority but you are not the only one in your situation.
2007-11-06 04:36:50 · answer #11 · answered by sillywhiz32 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋