Ok, so...My girlfriend Heather dumped me for a guy, so now I have this crush on this guy in my new school. He's so totally awesome and he pokes me all the time. He makes me laugh alot, but he's not her. I miss my girl. She put my life in to perspective for me when everything was going down hill. I honestly don't know what to do. I know she still cares but she's trying to forget....I'd do absolutely anything for her, die, kill, steal, absolutely anything. I just need to know what exactly she needs so I can give it to her. Hell, on the phone last tuesday, I told her if she wanted me to come home to ask me to and I'd walk all the way home. Thats 400 miles from her, but I'd do it, even if it was snowong out like it is now. I'd freeze to death trying to get to her. I didn't even get the chance to leave when she told me that she no longer wanted to be with me, because her mom said no. I always thought that you should follow your heart no matter what. Am I wrong to think this?
2007-11-06 04:27:22 · 13 answers · asked by Ripsi W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Am I wrong to want to get her back? Am I wrong for believing And knowing that this girl is the one and I mean "The One" ? Or am I just wasting my heart and Time? Anything you guys can do to help, or just plain advice on what you would do to get your girl or boy back, lemme know. I'd appreciate it. If it don't work, then I geuss...Hell I dunno......
2007-11-06 04:29:19 · update #1
Okay, 1) I don't have parents.
2) I live alone.
3)SummerBlu...your awesome!
Lol.
2007-11-06 05:54:25 · update #2
4) I work 5 days a week, and I live in another state then Heather, nut that was my own fault =[
2007-11-06 05:55:09 · update #3
Hmm Damn Girl sounds like you have a big problem on your hands... She Dumped you for a guy? Then She's a ***** you shouldn't be in love with her if she dumped you for a guy....hun you deserve wayyy better than that! Go for the guy your talking about! Now thats a lil crazy Die for her? No girl... see you have to think on the bright side be happy if she's happy. Do you think she's happy liking this other guy? Maybe she needs something that only he can give her... Have you ever thought of that? Walk all the way home? No thats just crazy too. Maybe, it's just that her mom is watching out for her... You know she can't choose love over family... I definitely wouldn't... Well the love of my life is like my family. Hunni i think that you should go your own way sounds best...
2007-11-06 07:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by ford_girl<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, no one will replace your Heather. I think that you should give her some space and you should take this time to do something for yourself. It doesn't mean you have to start dating again. Trust me if its meant to be she will come back. You can maybe send her a nice card or email after you have given her some space. But, she may not come back. Trust me though from what I have learned. Being with someone that you would do anything for die, kill, steal etc is not healthy. Because people can take advantage of you and you will be the one in jail and alone. Just give things some time.
2007-11-06 12:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it feels like she's "the one" right now, but I think you should just let it go. It's going to hurt, but it seems like you are pretty young (still in school, living with mom, etc.) so I think you should see what is out there. Give it 6 months or a year. If you still feel the same then go for it, but chances are, you won't. Just have fun, go out with friends, enjoy life. If you are truly meant to be, it will figure itself out and bring her back to you. If its not meant to be, then you will not have wasted all your time on something that only ended in more heartache. Sorry if my advice doesn't go in the direction you were hoping. I'm just trying to be realistic so you don't end up getting hurt even more. Trust me I've been there.
2007-11-06 12:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. If she left you, she has reasons that you might not even understand, so just be there for her without expecting things and leave her free, if it is really meant to be together in this life, then it will happen. Make sure and take the best care of yourself as you can so you have the best you to offer to her if she does come back....
2007-11-06 12:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It'll hurt like hell, but i suggest you try to let it go. It seems sometimes like you literally can't live without someone, but it's a bit like getting your sea-legs- it'll take time, and make you feel like you've been run over by a truck- but in the end, you'll be standing on your own. If she left you for a guy, then she's not worth destroying yourself over. Find a creative outlet, write letters (but don't send them!) and work her out of your system. It'll get better. In the meantime, go out with other people, find new people to connect with, and find a new adventure. Follow your heart, but don't let it get trod on, like Heather sounds like she will. Find someone who'll appreciate you, and feel fantastic!
2007-11-06 12:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by brat_princess87 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she has told you that she does not want you. that is why i would not try. its like would you really like to be around someone that does not care for you? yes, i realize that you care for her and that you love her. but you know there are so many in this world and you will find out there is someone out there for you other then her. shes stated she does not want you. i thnnk you would be hard trying to see her again. i mean she may see you again for a minute and then realize her heart isn't with you then what a nother break up that isn't fun to go trhough. i know you are hurt but there is so much to live and i know you will find someone that will really love you just take time out and get a new lease on life. take care.
2007-11-06 19:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe, give it time. if she is with a guy then you cant be with her. let her miss you. if it is meant to be, then she will realize how much she wants you and dump him.
otherwise, you will have to move on. it hurts, i know. ive been there. dumped for someone else. but time will heal you.
private message me if you want more advice or thoughts or anything :)
2007-11-06 12:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ripsi. omg ur girl is crazy for leaving u ur so totally nice. but i would say hang in there. tell her how you feel. tell her everything that it says in this note. im serious. jus spill it out and let everything move along. and as for this guy. you gotta choose who you wanna be with.
2007-11-06 17:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by r.i.p. kristian. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying set her free and if she comes back then it was meant to be
2007-11-06 12:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by melissa n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-19 12:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋