Singles & Dating - 6 November 2007

want to do it to this FAT MAN. He's 6"4 and weighs about 250 almost 300.

I am 4"11 and weight 140.

We've been chillin and talkin for a minute....and i want to do something, but i am scared.

Of course, I do not want him to get on TOP....he's pretty big and i am afraid he might suffocate me. (don't laugh)

I never done it to a FAT man before....and i am not sure if it's going to work out.

Any suggestions.....help a sista out!

2007-11-06 06:51:15 · 20 answers · asked by twdy412 2

i told the guy im casually dating (aka NOT my bf) that im going away for the weekend with my best friend (who is a guy) and he suddenly announced at his work that he wants to go to the casino (which is where we are going!) 1 of my friends works with him and just called and said that hes planning on going down saturday which is when i am going but when i texted him and asked what his plans were for this weekend he said he was gunna work all weekend so hes obv trying to come down and crash my weekend. hes upset cuz my best friend is 1. a guy and 2. my ex boyfriend. he doesnt get that me and my ex broke up for a reason and that if i wanted to be with him then i would be. he has thrown fits about it before and we ended all contact in the summer over it. he wants to "work things out" but this is not the way to go about it..what do i do? should i tell him i kno about his plans or what? i dont want to be spied on when im doing nothing wrong!!

2007-11-06 06:51:14 · 17 answers · asked by jennybean7985 5

I need my space:

I love you:

I miss you:

Please leave me alone:

I want you:

You're too good for me:

I think your cute:

2007-11-06 06:49:08 · 36 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3

ok so he had this fling with a girl and he would mess around with her and after a couple times she would just be a mind trip like tellin him she was pregnate to get attention from him and just being a total a$$ she was my friend untill all this happened.
Last night she wrote me saying tell your bro that i would pay to be his friend again(he had told her he didnt want anything to do with her) so what should i do? question her about why she felt the need to lie about all that stuff or convience my bro to be friends with her again?

2007-11-06 06:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by Lauren M 1

Everytime we talk the first thing he says is "Hows the divorce going, not gonna get back together?", and then he drops it... in person he'll do this thing with his eyes where he's looking at me in the face but he darts his eyes down to my chest & back up in my eyes, plus lots of "joking" sexual comments.... is he wanting me to persue him, whats the deal??

P.S. Thought i'd throw this in to....
We hug goodbye ( always have), his hugs are soooo much tighter now than before I got married; nothing like groping, but just a real loving feeling

2007-11-06 06:45:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

this boyfriend of mind wants to have kids get married and other things im not ready hes 23 and im 19 wow getting married we havent seen each other in 3 years whats his problem is he desperate i want to see other men before i get tied down NO im not a hore i have hore intendisys i want to experience life not love ive been hurt 3 times already im confused wahts the deal with me

2007-11-06 06:43:42 · 6 answers · asked by DIVA 2

Please read and help me understand this.

We played a pool game and my boyfriend got in a fight with this guy. I tried to push the other guy off of him on the ground and then when they started to fight again I came in between them and stopped it. Well then he got kicked out of the bar and 2 of his friends took him back home.
He says I didn't stick up for him cause i didn't leave with him when he did.
I did what I could, and i don't know what else I couldv'e did. I couldn't just leave the bar, I had a tab to pay. I told him that and everything buy he still doesn't understand and now he has moved out saying we need a break.

2007-11-06 06:43:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Especially if you've been trying, without any success, to find "that special person" for a while?

2007-11-06 06:40:33 · 12 answers · asked by PRH1 3

I am in love with my ex girlfriend but I broke up with her because she deserves better which I honestly mean. I dont have the time for a relationship now and I feel terrible. Not just a line. She said she understood but she loves me and she thinks I do deserve her. But she still understands where I'm coming from. I could tell she was really hurt...Did I even do the right thing?

2007-11-06 06:39:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Met a guy a couple of weeks ago. Had first date this past Friday (4 days ago). It was amazing. Supposed to be only meeting for drinks after work. That led to dinner, which led to dessert at another restaurant. Great conversation, lots of flirting, laughing and fun. The evening ended several hours later. We said goodbye with no mention of getting together again. We've emailed back and forth this week, during which we talked about our first date and I expressed interest in getting together again. He hasn't said anything either way. What's the next step? I'm assuming that HE should initiate requesting the second date. If he doesn't, should I assume he's not interested in me? Do you agree?

2007-11-06 06:39:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the "short version" of the story. I just moved to NY this April to be with my family. I met my boyfriend in May. Turns out I got pregnant around July 4th with his baby. He has 2 boys from a previous relationship that he RARELY even gets to see. He used to pay his child support (off & on) but recently he quit his job so I have a feeling he might end up going to jail since he's gonna miss at least one payment. Our relationship started going downhill about 2 months ago so I moved out and back to my family's house. I recently found out that shortly after I moved out he met another girl through some friends of his (I don't like many of his friends at all) and the 3rd time hanging out with her, they slept together. She's the one who told me the whole story (although she says it wasn't worth it and didn't know about me and doesn't want to even speak to him again). So of course he denied it at first but eventually fessed up. Now he's saying that it won't ever happen again and he wants

2007-11-06 06:35:30 · 23 answers · asked by Lexus 2

he will be gone for another five days...I love him so much but shouldn't I feel like I miss him

2007-11-06 06:35:07 · 16 answers · asked by MissLady 3

They are like a tennis match hurling insults and ugly words. What's worse is they drag the children into their disfunctional games. I am not jealous, just fed up with the drama. I love him and have talked tro him about this numerous times. I don't know if I should leave and protect myself or stay and be by his side and support him through this hard time. Suggestions please.

2007-11-06 06:32:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

would u date me?....
http://s236.photobucket.com/albums/ff187/emoprincess0014/?action=view¤t=mememe016.jpg

haha dont ask what i was doing i have no idea

2007-11-06 06:25:01 · 35 answers · asked by in_L-O-V-E_w/daniel 3

My question is in the context of direct enjoyment, pleasure or excitement, not the indirect enjoyment, pleasure, or excitement one may derive, from pleasing their partner.

Ideally, I am seeking a published study or other scholarly work. However, I would also, like to hear the personal opinions of women.

2007-11-06 06:23:31 · 17 answers · asked by Larry 4

i want my bf to basically rape me every time we do it. is that completely messed up of me? I love the feeling of his strong arms holding me down, him telling me to shut up and take it, and him forcing himself into me.

2007-11-06 06:21:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My current boyfriend is 24, I'm 21. We just started dating, he asked me out officially about a week ago. Back when I was 17 him and I were really good friends although I was very promiscuous as the time. His family knew me as "that promiscuous girl" who came over sometimes.
Yesterday he informed me he didn't want to tell his family about us yet and he would in due time. I understand why they'd be concerned, I wasn't a good girl back then but why won't he just tell them now? He's already talking about the future with me. Could he just be saying he doesn't want to tell his family because he's cheating or something? Why would he do this? My friends told me to not sleep with him until he is ready to make our relationship public and not keep me a "secret". I agree I think. What do you think about all this? help please!! :(

2007-11-06 06:20:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

All he's been doing lately is playing video games.
I even tried pausing the controller, and climbing ontop of him and kissing him.
When he finally caught his breath all he said was, "Look, you made me die!"

What should I do... I seem to want it more than him. Any suggestions?
Thank you! :)

2007-11-06 06:20:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years goin on 5 years ...from age 15-20.
he was my only love the only boy i have ever known..
nyhoo i am quite shy and dealing with overcoming this fear!! and i think i have overcome it but still have a few shy tendancies i dont dance in public for instants ..my boyfriend on the other hand is so outgoing, a fantastic dancer etc and he loves being in the middle of a club part takeing in a dance off... u can see the difference right, so recently i think this whole difference in charecter has affected him and he now says he has a problem..he loves me but hates me, he wants to be able to dance with me not other girls, go out and get drunk (i prefer not to do this!) try different foods, be more sexually outgoing
nyways things along thoose lines... is it ok for someone to say i wish u were different?, or shod i stick it out and try and change even more, what do u think of him
thanks for ur help

2007-11-06 06:18:41 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-06 06:18:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

if my boyfriend of 10 months teases me sometimes saying i should dump him and find someone who will marry me? He says it jokingly like he is too independant to settle down, but then when he was drunk he said he wanted to be with me forever, marry me and have kids? He is totally sweet to me and tells me he loves me all the time.

2007-11-06 06:15:37 · 36 answers · asked by kat 2

my answer has never been accepted as the best why?

2007-11-06 06:14:33 · 8 answers · asked by Apple Buttom 1

i have five girls that like me. and i am not sure which one i want to date. i like at least two and well the others i think of as freinds. the ones i consider freinds i told them so.
i am thinking about just going on dates with the rest to see which one i really like.
do you think that is right?
P.S i am going to tell the girls i want to date that i am not just dating her and that if she does not like that then she can just move on. so is this a good idea?

2007-11-06 06:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-06 06:13:54 · 17 answers · asked by dan b 1

2007-11-06 06:11:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like Seal and Heidi Klum, or Jay-Z and Beyonce? What about Ugly women with men? I hate ugly women with men even more because if an ugly woman can get a handsome man(who most likely treats her like garbage) than average looking woman expect can to handsome man who treats her right, and a good looking woman will expect to get a handsome guy, who is rich.

2007-11-06 06:07:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here it goes…I was seeing a guy who instantly I felt chemistry with. We were together almost everyday and text at least 50 times or more per day. Well, back in January I broke up with him because I caught him going threw my purse to look at my phone (he is very jealous) so I broke up with him there and then. I cried and fell into a depression (weight loss and crying spells) because of it, it left me devastated. Well after 5 months of being a hermit and not having the strength to meet anybody I went out and meet wonderful man. He has treated me to trips to Paris and Thailand and even got me a brand new BMW. He’s a dream, but there is a catch he doesn’t believe in marriage and gave up having kids (never been married and doesn’t have kids). So 9 months go by and my ex who broke my heart wants to give it another try. He said he wants to take things slow and see what happens. My question is do people really change? It’s almost been a year since the break up does he want something serious like marriage with me? I’m not sure if I should, when we were dating we did break up for one month and decided to give it a try so this would be our third attempt!!

2007-11-06 06:03:49 · 34 answers · asked by evangelina1980 2

Hi

I dated a girl for about a month, broke up up with her, we stayed friends, she met someone else and I've slowly fallen in love with her. She's been seeing this guy for about 5 months and she still see's me as a friend (although I haven't contacted her in months).

Now I want her back and I'm going to confront her.

I need advice from females - please.

Thanks

2007-11-06 06:02:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

she's my best friend. she has been for years. but i've secretly loved her almost as long as known her. and i didn't think i was good enough. so i worked my @ss off over the summer. i lost 58 lbs in two months (and gained fourty back as pure muscle), i stood up straighter to fix my posture (and gained 6 in., bringing me to 6'2") i fixed my hair (no one liked my hair in my eyes. i looked like a mushroom). im at the age where my face is finally clearing up too, and i thought i stood a chance. but since she joined the wrestling team last year, and lost 39 lbs, her standards are higher. i was there when her boyfriends dumped her, and when they were cheating, and when she thought she was pregnant. still im not good enough. now i just want her to feel how she made me feel. i dont care what you think of me. i want to be netter. too good for her. and i need help. what can i do?

2007-11-06 06:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by Grimace 2

I am only a18 and my breasts are already this large. I hope they aren't still growing! I dont get it. Large breasts do not run in my family! Women on both sides are known to have small breasts. I dont understand why my are so large. I have heard it's the hormones in the food people prepare this day in age. That can't possibly be the only reason. I am not overweight at all, in fact, the rest of my body is very tiny. I am seriously considering a reduction. but what I want to know is how they got so big?

2007-11-06 05:59:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous