Why do girls look for Bad Boys who don't give a damn? I mean, I'm a Good Guy who don't give a damn. Does that count? What does a bad boy have that no other guy appears to have?
2007-11-06 04:57:59 · 30 answers · asked by Jerrius T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually im not so turned on by "bad boys" id rather have someone that's nice and caring. not someone i know is always gonna be in trouble.
2007-11-06 05:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Daiseee 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I see this over and over, its a challenge, exciting, its something good girls are not suppose to do but do it for the fun of it. I have 2 sons who are nice guys, I have a bad boy boyfriend of 15 years , I see this in my salon every day with the college girls. Even good guys can appear allittle bad, be a challenge, dont wait on them hand and foot, don't call all the time
Here is a clipping from many articles on bad boys
For one thing, a bad boy knows how to make a woman
feel good. He learned at an early age to question authority, especially when authority seemed bent on convincing him that whatever felt good had to be bad. This applied equally to fast cars, tall drinks, and long, slow lovemaking. As a result, when the well-behaved kids were at Student Council meetings, our bad boy hero was out behind the bleachers trying to persuade the captain of the cheer leading squad to say “yes.” In order to get what he wanted, he taught himself every little trick to winning female compliance. All those years of experience – from the moment he discovered the pleasures of the flesh right up until he encounters the heroine in the boardroom or the crowded roadhouse – makes him the consummate lover. The kind of man who can melt a woman with a look and then take her to heaven with his hands
Good Luck
2007-11-06 13:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kim M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women like a man who acts like a man. That is, someone who is strong, brave, bold, and adventurous. It's hard to find "nice" guys who have these attributes. The problem is, guys take it too far, and turn into ******* who are strong, brave, bold, and adventurous. Most men don't know how to be manly without being a brute. "Nice" guys are just like "nice" girls. They get ignored. Men ignore the "nice" girls just as often, and go for the hotties with mental issues. It goes both ways, I'm afraid.
Fortunately, if you know who you are, and what sort of person you are compatible with, you can avoid all this crap altogether. But most people don't bother to grow up and figure out really WHO they are to begin with. The smartest thing in the world is to STAY SINGLE until you have it all together, you know who you are, you know your strengths, you know your weaknesses, you know what you have to offer someone, you know your own beliefs and convictions, etc. That takes time, and most people in general just don't have the patience and maturity to get a clue.
Forget the girls who want anyone but WHO YOU ARE. Don't change yourself to please a girl. Be you. If you like a girl, and she doesn't want you, get over it, forget her, and move on, and keep your eyes open for the girl who DOES want you just the way you are.
2007-11-06 13:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by lil_sprite_77 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nice guys are always the better choice, but with bad boys there is no predictable behavior, they always keep us on edge (in a good way) and that's something girls need sometimes. Be spontaneous, yet sweet, and you'll have her for sure!
2007-11-06 13:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by Alyssa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some (not all) women are attracted to bad boys. They want to be able to help them, to change them, make them better. It is in most women's natures to want to do that. Once their hearts are broken enough times, those women (like the women who always liked the nice guys) will see what they have been missing.
2007-11-06 13:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Irish Darling 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think it is the fact that they are a bad boy most of the time it the fact that the guy is charming . Anyone who likesa badboys for the sake of bad boy is a person who is missing some marbles.
2007-11-06 13:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bad boys don't care what people think. It's hard to get the bad boy to fall in love with you, but when he does you are the envy of all girls.
2007-11-06 13:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have know idea an I'm a girl. In some cases I think its need for authority (in other words i think they need some one who they can rely on to wear the pants in the relationship; take care of them; bring home the bacon)
2007-11-06 13:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by Love child 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I married the bad boy and he turned out to be good. The good boys were always boring and tried to hard.
2007-11-06 13:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i dont know why but thats all i date (well i stay away from the ones who dont care about me that would just be pointless) but i think it has something to do with feeling protected or maybe like a closer friend b/c with nice guys girls have to censor themselves more... so... try letting loose a little maybe you dont have to be a "bad" boy but just a little more relaxed...
2007-11-06 13:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by trustmeimaliar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My hubby was a bad boy but not to me. I felt like he could get us out of ANY situation like McGeyver or something. I felt safe that he would keep me safe and he knew the streets and it was fun hanging out with him. A little danger is HOT!
2007-11-06 13:01:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋