ok so in my neighbor hood there are a bunch of teens my age and we all hang with each other and such but we are all girls and there is this one boy and he doesn't hang with us anymore. i mean he has totally changed! one time when we were hanging out we decided to go see if he wanted to hang but his mom answered and she said he was vacuming and then he came to the door and said he just started a movie. and now he used this girl for money and told her she was ugly. that is sooo weird of him. he use to be nice and now he is a b**ch and trys to be gangster. maybe you hve an answer to why he is acting sooo weird. he has a lot of friends who are boy but why won't he hang out with us anymore???
2007-11-06 05:03:24 · 27 answers · asked by HUGS NOT DRUGS!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a little thing called masculinity.
2007-11-06 05:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you and your friends are either pre-teens (11-12) or early teens (13-15). This kid sounds shady, and although he may have been your friend before, he is starting to hang with a different crew. Like all of your little clique will be doing soon enough. Trust me, only true friends stick it out. Who knows, he probably has a girlfriend from somewhere else, or just is trying to act hard. This pattern will continue until high school is over, or your early twenties. Prob not the answer you were looking for but questions such as these have complex answers.
2007-11-06 05:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are a teenager, you go from kid to adult and along the way, you try to find who you are. Unfortunately, that can mean kids will idolize people who they think are cool, but are actually not someone they should emulate. Also, peer pressure is very high at this time and if just one of his guy friends says he doesn't like one of the girls, he night stop hanging out. Also, if he starts feeling attracted to some of you it may scare him a little and he'll then push you away instead of dealing with it or possibly getting rejected because he doesn't know how to handle it yet.
2007-11-06 05:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by Well...you wanted an answer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're young there's a fork in the road....we all meet it. Some take the right path and others take the wrong. Some that take the wrong manage their way back, some don't...it's like they feel the need to experiment. A lot of things around us can sway our decisions, but ultimately it's a person's character that makes the final decision on the path to take. Maybe this dude is just experimenting in the wrong direction. All you can do is hope he finds his way back one day. Don't try to follow him, only let him know he's welcome if and when he does return. Other than that theres not much you can do to change things. I'm hoping for his sake he does make his way back to you and your friends....you sound like you've got your head on straight and that's the best company he could choose. :)
2007-11-06 05:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe some guys friends of his are giving him some trouble about the fact that he hangs out with you girls a lot i know that sounds bad but guys are like that, i think you should talk to him cause there are many things that can make people act differently.
2007-11-06 05:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the information you gave, it seems that your one male friend has been influenced by one, or some of the three possibles you mentioned: You and the girls; mom; and/or, the guys. His behavior could be very individualistic. You did not give the age range of your group, but know that all of us go through life phases. Since you all seemed to be very good friends, this will probably last, over time. If he enjoyed the time he spent with you he will return to his friends in due time.
You may have to simply enjoy being with your girls and allow your one male bud to go through whatever he is going through. I hope his attitutude and behavior toward others improves, but if it does not, you need not take responsibility for his thoughts, feelings, and behavior. Sounds like your have
an excellent group of friends to keep you busy. Hope this is helpful.
2007-11-06 05:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably going through puberty...and I'll bet he's in his young teens...and trying to figure out who he is...he probably doesn't want to hang with girls anymore because it's not considered cool....and who knows ....sometimes when a teens personality changes so drastically it could be drugs....he's probably looking up to the wrong type of kids in the neighborhood and is trying to emulate them...he's heading down the wrong path...what a shame...I hope he sees the light before it's too late !!!!!!!!!
2007-11-06 05:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by chessmaster1018 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Peer pressure... you said he has a lot of friends that are boys... maybe they made fun of him really bad for having so many friends that are girls... plus they probably all dress and act a certain way and he wants to fit in and be more like them... people change... you can wish that he would still hang out with you and you can even tell him that you still wish he would hang out but you can't make him... cut your losses.... unless he drastically changes...you lost him
2007-11-06 05:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by Kelsey S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing maybe he might have been made fun of for hanging out with a bunch of girls, and maybe the guys starting calling him gay or something and he didnt like that - so now he's trying to prove he's a so-called "real man"... that happened to one of my friends as well... i'm in my middle 20's now and just in the last couple years he finally told me what happened and that's what he said... he was tired of being made fun of cuz he was hanging with girls all the time so he felt like he had to prove himself... that would be my guess on why your friend is acting like that.
2007-11-06 05:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by cookie_monster_520 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he has reached puberty and is changing. Which is quite normal for a boy to do when he grows up. He probably was getting teased for hanging out with a bunch of girls./
2007-11-06 05:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boys will be boys!!! But maybe he is just to insecure with himself that he thought he needed to fit in with another crowd. that just hanging out with girls might do something to his reputation. Now adays society is more harsh where it can make people change for the worst or for the best. Maybe he will come around after he explores those other areas. Just give him time you just never know!
2007-11-06 05:08:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋