so lyke we were at a party and me and my friends were drunk & my friend started getting with this guy but she has a BOYFRIEND so she cheated on her boyfriend with this guy but anyways the next day he called me (I know him from school) and told me that he really wanted to get with ME & I think he's not lying because he was looking at me the whole time and the reason me and him didnt hook up is because I was getting with some other guy so do you think I should tell my friend I'm talking to this guy or is it fuckd up and I should forget about him? keeeep in mind my friend has a boyfriend!! thankkkkkkks! :)
2007-11-06 04:29:12 · 26 answers · asked by RoXsTaRuh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay i've only been talking to him over the phone I've NEVER kissed or slept with him!!!!!!!!
2007-11-06 04:33:43 · update #1
U know what go for it, if your friend gets mad just be like u have a man so why u stressing girl. And well if she gets on your case be like ur not married or anything so back off r u my friend or my enemy because if u r tell cause I don't need another one on the list hater *^-^*
2007-11-06 04:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend cheating on her boyfriend is nothing to do with you - that's for the two of them to sort out.
Otherwise, I think you're asking the wrong questions. These are the questions I think you should ask:
Do you care about your friend? If you have so little love and respect for her that you'll talk about her like this, are you really friends at all?
Do you care about yourself? If you'll go with a guy you don't want at a party, just because the guy you do want is with your friend, maybe you don't.
Does this guy care about you or your friend? He went with her because you were with someone else, then called you next day and told you he'd rather be with you. That shows no respect for your friend, no respect for the friendship between you, and no respect for you.
You just want to have fun and this probably all sounds a bit too heavy, but maybe you should drink a bit less and think a bit more about how you deal with your relationships. You can always get a man, but a real friend is rare.
If your friend is a real one, hang onto her. If not, start behaving in ways that will attract real friends - be loyal, honest, loving. Don't treat yourself so cheaply and don't let anyone else treat you cheaply either. You're worth more than than.
2007-11-06 04:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Helen M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should chill out and stop giving every guy what they want. If he wants you, make him chase you. Don't give it up so easily.
About your friend, you should have a serious talk with her to see how serious she is about these things. She cheated on her boyfriend, so what makes you think she'd be loyal to you, if in a similar situation? Is she really the kind of friend you want to keep around, is she worth your trust?
In the same regard, you must show her that she can trust you. Talk to her before anything happens, and tell her what you honestly think. If she isn't into "allowing" you to date this boy, then don't be so eager- There are plenty of fish in the sea.
And on a side note- This guy is probably not worth it. Sounds like he is hooking up with any girl who shows even a little interest, regardless of her status. It takes a jerk to hook up with another guy's girlfriend.
2007-11-06 04:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by that's right 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about the guy from the party. If he wanted to get with you he would have at least tried. So you were trying to get with another guy--I've been there done that and it didn't stop the other guy from walking over and trying to make a move. First of all never get with anyone your friends did, that's just the ultimate sloppy seconds.
And...you shouldn't tell your friend you're talking to the guy, in fact you should tell your friends boy friend she was with this other guy.
2007-11-06 04:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Britne W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find somebody that didn't have his tongue in your friends mouth. If he liked you so much before, then he should have went after you and ONLY you at that party. If you liked him so much, you should have went after him and ONLY him at that party rather than making out with some other random guy. Yours and his feelings don't sound like anything more than just wanting someone to mess around with and toss in a little drama and you've got an interesting two weeks ahead of you. Move on.
2007-11-06 04:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by ALeoStar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all = i dont see why people give opinions that are just ignorants... and dont answer your question.
well to be honest I think you should tell her.. but I dont think it should bug her because you said you guys were drunk so the hookup was most likely nothing unless she does like him. But I dont think she should considering she has a boyfriend. So anyways just continue talking to him and see where it leads and if she finds out oh well..shell deal with it. But just be careful that hes not trying to put you on a list of girls hes hooked up with like most guys do. Good luck with everything = ]
2007-11-06 04:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST AND FOREMOST-anyone that has been with a friend,or any one in your family-lets use sister as an example-is OFF LIMITS.dont go there.guys come and go,they are a dime a dozen,but good friends and family will be with you your whole life,so dont go there.no guy is worth that.Plus if he's just hooking up with whomever will let him at a party,what happens at the next party that you cant make it to?How long before he's screwing you over too?
2007-11-06 04:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tbh it sounds like this guy isn't too good for either of you. But if you think he is then i guess you better chat to your friend about it. If she's in a relationship she shouldn't really care but perhaps she doesn't think that her relationship is going well so i guess you'll have to start there. Then i guess if you're friend's ok with it you could go for it. But i would think that if this guy just gets off with people constantly he's not good news. But it's your choice hope that helped... xxxxxxx
2007-11-06 04:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little shocked that you want this guy after you know he did your best friend drunk and you didn't stop them. Is he a prince or something? Do you wish her boyfriend was gone?
I'm not feeling any reason why you need a guy who demonstrates what he demonstrated.
2007-11-06 04:34:44 · answer #9 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 11:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋