Singles & Dating - 4 November 2007

theres a guy that i think is super cute, but weve only talked like once.....and that was with a group of people around. i think he's super cute, and i wanna get to know him better. i always see him in the halls, but i dont know what to say cuz i dont know him very well? any flirting tips or ideas on what i could do to get him interested and open up to me?

2007-11-04 12:42:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anna T 1

2007-11-04 12:41:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can a boy become a man?

2007-11-04 12:38:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night I had a date with a man I have had a crush on since my freshman year of high school. We have seen each other around from time to time but after seeing him a few weeks ago I contacted him on MySpace. He gave me his number and we chatted a few times last week along with exchanging text messages. The date was amazing. I was afraid I was going to be dissapointed after having built this guy up in my head for 15 years. He is so handsome and outgoing, but so shy. We talked. We laughed. He touched me a few times. He initiated a hug good night. What throws me for a loop is he told me to call him if I ever wanted to do it again. I sent him a text today telling him I had so much fun last night and would love to see him again soon. He hasn't responded. I don't know how to read this shy guy. Should I call him in a few days? I can't wait to see him again, but don't know how to read how he felt about the date. I can't just come out and ask him. Help!

2007-11-04 12:31:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay me and my boyfriend tend to get in many fights. mainly because i am the type of person that likes bein with him alot and he on the otherhand enjoys doing his own thing. Alot of times it makes me feel like he dsnt even want to be with me anymore but he swears that is not the case. How much time do you think that a couple of two years should spend together?

2007-11-04 12:27:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to meet a good looking but decent guy, but so far, of the guys I have met, the good looking ones are full of themselves, and the other ones that seem to be interested in me I'm not interested in them, they are either way too short, or I have nothing in common with them.

2007-11-04 12:24:34 · 18 answers · asked by funky_lady 1

i know that sound slame but i realy need help =[

2007-11-04 12:22:59 · 18 answers · asked by asheyyyy 1

Hey there! Lately Ive hit a financial rut but I still want to take this girl out. She's very low maintenance but I need help deciding on where I should take her and what we can do with using little or no money! Can you give me any ideas??

2007-11-04 12:18:21 · 14 answers · asked by icpropertysolutions 1

2007-11-04 12:16:26 · 5 answers · asked by HaweeSaurus 2

I just found out i was BI-sexual last week. Is it ok if i have both a gf and a bf?

2007-11-04 12:15:30 · 19 answers · asked by Katniss 2

2007-11-04 12:14:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, the last past weeks, I've been harassed by other guys who was in this class. I got a note with really gross, intimidating, sexual content, and I'm only 14. I'm semi-religious.
I was so sad, I almost cried when I saw my best guy friend. He comforted me, and I felt really.. its hard to explain.. happy.
Later that day, I got an email from my guy friend (he never checks his emails, hes pretty much an unsocial boy who's very nerdy) saying really sweet things. I was so happy because he was the first one who emailed me about that. He's like the first friend who cares about me deeply, even in the inside. (most of my friends care about me just on the outside.)

I used to have a crush on my guy freind last year, and now all I want is him to be there for me the whole time, well, he is right now, but I want to be more than freinds with him.

What do I do? He's a nerd, and he was never ready for going out or anything.
BTW on the harrassment, I'm telling on my counselor.

2007-11-04 12:13:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-04 12:08:52 · 8 answers · asked by jaime s 1

ok I've known this girl for about 3 years, and we've always had atleast one class. I liked her sophomore year, when she broke up with a guy, but then after a while she started to date another guy, one of the ppl i got to know later on and becoming really good friends with. then she would always get into trouble with him and I would have to help them out ( talking to them, trying to convince them that they still love each other, even though i still had a lil crush on her, I just wanted to see them, mostly her, happy. Now its senior year and she broke up with that guy ( i think?) and i have found out that I am just falling in love with her after i took her to homecoming, it was the best night of my life we just danced the night away. But i don't know if she likes me? we talk but sometimes i just don't know? I just get a gut feeling sometimes that she doesnt like me, or am i just doubting myself?

2007-11-04 12:08:01 · 22 answers · asked by SCHWAA 2

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2007-11-04 12:05:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to get over him and I think maybe a rebound will help...Or is that a bad idea?

2007-11-04 12:00:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this girl for about 5 months. I have caught her twice lying to me about hanging out with "guy friends" as she calls them. Blatent, well constructed lies. She doesnt know that I have caught her. We recently broke up, she accused me of not trusting her and told me how horrible it is to be with someone like me. Should i tell her the truth, so she can face the reality. Or should i just let her continue to live in a fantasy world? I

guess i still care about her and her daughter. I have known her for over 6 years, and she ruined her marriage by cheating on her husband, multiple times. I know i should have known better. But i couldnt help but to see the good in her, i guess i was blinded. ...

2007-11-04 12:00:37 · 3 answers · asked by slabside 1

Help....Is it possible to actually get pregnant from pre-cu*? Or is that unheard of?

2007-11-04 12:00:28 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've never had a boyfriend before,that's why i'm asking for help.
this guy is cute,funny,smart even i called him the perfect guy but i can't do anything to impress him,i relly like him.
please help!!!

2007-11-04 11:59:20 · 6 answers · asked by suhana 1

I'm 18, got my GED at age 16, I attended a small medical community college and met a teacher ,whom is 26, whom was for sure interested [flirting, he asked me to be his girlfriend but only AFTER I graduate or no longer attend the same college, since it is unethical, I TOTALLY UNDERSTOOD THAT & RESPECTED IT ]..

I was known as a social butterfly, EVERYONE knew me, since I supposedly was known as the "pretty funny girl" [not in a conceited way, don't misunderstand me ! ]
well, i withdrew from the college last month [career interest changed], I gave my professor my number [ he asked for it]
on my last day, and this was on September 17, he hasn't called since.
His personality traits: shy, withdrawn, introverted

do you think he changed interest because he KNOWS i have friends that still attend the small college, and would feel uncomfortable knowing that ?!
because girls really do gossip alot nowadays, or what do you think about this ?

2007-11-04 11:53:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what going through your mind when your kissing someone? ;]

2007-11-04 11:33:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

To be more specific, do you like girls who are hardcore or girly?

2007-11-04 11:32:18 · 5 answers · asked by Emma 3

2007-11-04 11:21:34 · 3 answers · asked by jay dee 1

2007-11-04 11:18:43 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-04 11:17:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy who's i like that's been donig the whold "i like her, i don't like her, i don't know if i like her" thing and on friday he did something really weird: i just sat down w/ all my friends and one of my frineds told me he kept looking over to me and smiling, i looked over at him and he would start blushing than look back down. well a couple min. later i moved a couple seats down to see if he was really looking @ me. well i only sat down for a couple mins. and one of he's friends came over to my table and told me he wanted to go out w/ me. right away he said "what!?! i'd never go out w/ HER! well i told him to shut the hell up and one of my bff's flipped him off. he left really mad. well i don't know what i'm going to do tmrw when i see him in frist hr. i don't want to go up and talk to him. also one of my bff's told me they heard him call me a ***** and if he says it again to me i'm gonna back hand him. what should i do? i really need some help!
thanks!

2007-11-04 11:15:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

he asked me out, and i, like always i said no. now i have been asked out by 3 guys, and turned them down! i dont know why i do this. i really like him. he is my neighbor, i am a junior in high school, and he is a freshman in college, he asked me to go out with him, and i asked if he was serious, or if he was joking. but i really like him, and now its the next day, but i really want to be with him. what can i do?

2007-11-04 11:08:29 · 34 answers · asked by sunny 4

2007-11-04 11:03:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this guy we exchange numbers he sent text messages everday straight for two months we didnt meet up again because i made excuses not to but he never gave up he kept texting or sometimes calling. I asked him if he ever dated or had sex with a black girl he said no but he had always wanted to. do you think this is the only reason he is trying to talk to me? i asked him was that the reason and he said no he said he would like to eventually but that wasnt the reason.. He tells me constantly that im beautiful and sexy. I asked him what he wanted for his birthday he said me to be his girlfriend. how can i be sure that he really likes me for me and not because he was to experience being with someone black

2007-11-04 10:52:27 · 9 answers · asked by curious kay 1

2007-11-04 10:50:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous