Singles & Dating - 4 November 2007

sorry if the title makes me sound pathetic. there's this girl in my science class who i really like. she's friends with a friend of mine, and sometimes i catch her and her friend and i want to talk to her (the girl i like) but i can never think of anything to say. anytime i ever try to talk to a girl i like, one of three things seem to happen: i don't say anything at all (because i can't think of anything); i say something, but it's either really stupid or obnoxious (whatever is the first thing to come to mind) even though i don't mean to be that way; or i say something and i choke on the words or my throat goes dry (usually happens when i plan beforehand what to say to someone).

i really like this girl, but i don't really know her too much. i don't know any hobbies or anything about her that could possibly start a conservsation, other than that she's in a class with me (and i don't want to talk about that because it sounds stupid).

any tips / suggestions?

2007-11-04 14:35:28 · 14 answers · asked by chanology 1

guys if you had an option between two girls which would you choose

1. - 5'7'' athletic build, long wavy brown hair, green eyes and pretty face...likes cheerleading+dance, shy, funny/outgoing as you become friends, nice

2- 4'9, skinny, medium straight hair, brown eyes and pretty face...likes theatre and piano, outgoingg/funny, speaks her mind(good/bad)


just wonderinggg :)

2007-11-04 14:35:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

first off i am 14

ok so i have been going out with this guy for about two months
he has asked me if i wanted to kiss him and i said yes but we never did. he also ask me if i wanted to make out. i have never kissed someone before and i really really want to kiss him. thhe next time i can is on wednesday. what should i do? should i ask him or just go for it? i am so scared but if i dont kiss him soon i am going to go crazy!

2007-11-04 14:24:47 · 25 answers · asked by baby_girl. 3

2007-11-04 14:23:11 · 16 answers · asked by kilay2007 1

2007-11-04 14:00:46 · 10 answers · asked by thatoneblackchic22 1

So when you date, you just go out usually to the movies with a guy?
But you guys like each other, you're just not boyfriend and girlfriend.
Kay.
So lets say you know this guy.
He asks you to be his girlfriend.
You accept.
And go on dates.

But if a guy asks you out.
And you accept.
You guys just go out on dates?
Does this involve kissing?
If it does, are you officially bf & gf?

Or is it something totally different?
And does it mean bf & gf is someone says "I'm dating this guy?"

I'm just confused.
So if you could, help me to have a better understanding of this.

2007-11-04 14:00:39 · 3 answers · asked by Peace Love and Bubblegum 2

I'm about ready to give up. I've been rejected by about 15 different girls. My confidence is in the toilet. I'm a nice guy, and I don't understand why no one will even give me a chance. Girls have laughed at me, lied to me, and just flat out rejected me when I've asked them out, and these were girls that I thought I was friends with. I am good looking, even though I'm somewhat on the chubby side. I've fallen in love and had my heart broken many times. Some say they just want to be friends, but I have friends, and I'm not looking for more. There's a void in my life I need to fill, I need to be in a relationship. I need someone to think I'm number one, to be excited to see me, to feel for me what I feel for them. I've been through a suicidal phase, and the only thing that got me through it was the thought that I have a very bright future ahead of me. I've never kissed, never gone on a date, never had a girlfriend. I just want to know, what's wrong with me? What am I supposed to do?

2007-11-04 13:58:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi theres this girl i like and she might like me (im guessin she does)

she asked a favour of me this saturday but i couldnt do it and she was upset i didnt text back quickly. i explained i couldnt do it.

later in the evening i did feel quite bad for not doing the thing for her but she said it was ok and got someone else to do it for her. then later she got drunk at 10pm, she rang me but i missed her call. im curious to know why she called especially coz we hardly know eachother.

should i call her back?? im useless at calling as i dont know what to say in a phone conversation. were used to texting eachother.

and if she does like me will she sound nervous/quiet over the phone?

thanks!

2007-11-04 13:55:08 · 15 answers · asked by CoolD 3

..hey everyone ..i have this problem of letting go...so then i end up with 10 different guys still wanting to talk to me.....which becomes a big problem ..when they,re all calling at the same time every day..lol...i dont want to flat out tell them to get lost .....any suggestions???

2007-11-04 13:47:45 · 28 answers · asked by cierra 1

It's the same 'ol, same 'ol story - meet, sleep together by the 1st few dates, move in quickly, then discover that there are things you don't know or found out about the person. Why don't people bother to get to know others before plunging into relationships without any thought?

2007-11-04 13:39:58 · 32 answers · asked by ♥ Shell ♥ 3

I saw my crush the other day for the 1st time in like five months. When I saw him he kept staring at me and blushing. It was like he was in a trance when he staring. He was acting all flustered and stuff and yet he was with some other girl. It looked like he didn't care he was with her because I was there.

2007-11-04 13:37:51 · 1 answers · asked by shanta 1

http://www.myspace.com/emo_boyz_rock

idk i think i am in a way and sum ppl think im gorgeous and then sum ppl think i look like the backside of a barn. either way guys dont seem to like me. could u tell me wat u like and wat u dont like plz?? o and plz dont give me that "like the way u look" lecture. o and u have 2 look @ more than 1 picture. cuz i dont rly like my default
mucho luv

2007-11-04 13:37:34 · 17 answers · asked by chelsey c 2

Hey everyone. I'm raquel. And my boyfriend has broken up with me after 6 month relationship and it seems like hell has broken loose ever since. My ex acts like he doesn't kno me at all and doesn't speak to me but to my sisters and my friends. I try to speak to him but he ignores me and keeps on walking. Does that mean he's not over me? Or that he blames me for everything? I'm just so lost because I wanna talk to him as just friends but it seems like he doesn't even wanna be that. And another question to go along with that. Now his really close friend likes me and I like him to..Is it wrong to date hime or is that just an unwritten rule made by others?? Someone please help me!! I would really appreciate the help. Simcerely,

Raquel

2007-11-04 13:35:23 · 15 answers · asked by lilballagurl16 1

ok, i just got a boyfriend. but he is my first boyfriend. at school it is kind of akward because i don't know when to hold his hand, and when not to because i dont want to seem clingy. can girls, or guys please give me some tips on having a boyfriend. i am 13 if that helps

2007-11-04 13:30:50 · 8 answers · asked by daanggirl 1

2007-11-04 13:29:40 · 7 answers · asked by southwest 3

Would you rather........
1. go out with a dumb but pretty girl
2. go out with a smart ugly girl
3. go out with a funny ugly girl
4. go out with a very boring pretty girl

Also What kind of personality do you want in a girl?????
(This is coming from someone who dosent have a b/f)

2007-11-04 13:29:22 · 9 answers · asked by Cantxdancexenough 3

2007-11-04 13:28:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl but i'm not completly sure if she likes me. how can i tell if she does or not?

2007-11-04 13:25:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

What turns u on like jw what u like or dislike about girls, or what you would like or would not like 4 a girl 2 do or say to u???

2007-11-04 13:23:50 · 13 answers · asked by Kelsey 2

A few years ago i was force to have sex and made me feel guilty to have sex with him anyway i really want a relationship but im very scared for many reasons. and i just ment a new guys that i like a lot and he thinks that im a virgine just because i dint do any thing with him its not cause i dint want to its cause im scared that what he would think i juste need advice....

2007-11-04 13:18:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is rebounding usually intentinal or do you usaully think its real?
Once you know its a rebound but your still having fun how long should it last?

2007-11-04 13:17:27 · 1 answers · asked by Her 2

There is this girl I have known for around 9 years that I really like. She lives in the next town over and we both go to a summer camp where we met. Now we both work there. We are both 17 and I have liked her for along time. She is the easiest person to talk to. We talk on the phone for hours. I'm just not sure if she likes me. How should i tell her I like her and still be friends with her afterward if she says she doesn't like me?

2007-11-04 13:09:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

adults only, and please be honest. i was giving a guy a bj.. it was great and everything, he was fine. he decides he wants to have intercourse. we get ready and he looses his hardon. we tryed getting it back up but it didnt work out. was it me? theres an age gap between us about maybe 10 years.. hes in his thirties. does that happen often? my first time with an older guy.

2007-11-04 13:08:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy and he is 19 and i am 15 what age do i have to be to go out with him???

2007-11-04 13:04:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-04 13:02:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is ur perfect girl?
hair color, actions, what kinda personality. what kinda person in general. fat skinny pretty dont matter?
anything
just put exactly what ur perfect girl would be.

2007-11-04 13:01:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been going out with my boyfriend for 1 year and 5 months
& after going out for 3 months we started hanging out everyday. as much as we can, we just dont get sick of eachother. but theres always someone that says "you shouldnt do that its bad for the realtionship" or "you might just get sick of eachother". I know not hanging out everyday makes me more happy to see him the next day and i appreciate seeing him. more then i regular do, is it bad seeing eachother everyday? could it ruin a relationship?

2007-11-04 12:56:36 · 37 answers · asked by Sam 1

Me and this guy, have dated before. I was in like 6th grade,and he was in 8th, and it was at the LAST day of school. We only went out for one day, and we're still friends and stuff. Now I'm in the 8th grade, going to high school next year, and He's in 10th going to 11th next year. He asked me if we could date when I got to high school, because He thought i was too young before. I told him i'm awfully impatient. And he said I know, I am too, but I just don't want to ruin this, you know?
and I don't know if i should take it a good way because he wants to wait, or a bad thing as an excuse not to date me?
I don't know how to take it but I kind of take it as a bad thing.
But i told him i'd wait till next year and we're really good friends and stuff.
But when he said that, "I don't want to ruin this, you know?"
was that good or bad?
please help me
i'm so confused and freaked.

2007-11-04 12:54:13 · 2 answers · asked by Itsallaboutmehunni 2

I love my money too much and have been paying for companionship when needed, which is about twice a week. I'm not really cheap either because I always get what I want for myself. I just find that every time I had a girl in my life she would want this and that and then i would feel guilty if I bought her it and guilty if I didn't buy her it, etc. It's like you can't win. Am I crazy?

2007-11-04 12:53:46 · 5 answers · asked by Scorpio 1

Im looking for a good movie to watch with my gf an action/adventure thats not too intense or a comdey thats not perverted, any suggestions are greatly appreciated also i wud like the movie to not be too old like 2 yrs at the most thanks

2007-11-04 12:45:26 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous