..hey everyone ..i have this problem of letting go...so then i end up with 10 different guys still wanting to talk to me.....which becomes a big problem ..when they,re all calling at the same time every day..lol...i dont want to flat out tell them to get lost .....any suggestions???
2007-11-04 13:47:45 · 28 answers · asked by cierra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm thinking, leave the 10 guys to themselves. Let them know you have no desire to have a relationship and keep your eye out for the perfect, respectable, thoughtful guy (he may be a little shy) and give him the chance.
2007-11-04 13:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. You don't want to hurt anyones feelings. I am the same way. What I do is just try to avoid some and not answer some calls. I hate hurting their feelings. Eventually they will find someone else or get interested in someone else. HOPEFULLY! Otherwise I would just tell them that you have issues and need to think them out for awhile. So you will give them a call when everything is fine. And if you decide to then it's up to you. I know that some people think that your leading them on and you like it but the truth is, is that you don't want to lead the other person on, but you also don't want to hurt their feelings. Good Luck!
2007-11-04 21:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we can help you. You seem the type to love the attention that your getting and it would be sad to see if your using these guys for your own personal gain.
Just see the ones that you might be into and let the rest move on instead of letting them wonder in limbo.
2007-11-04 21:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Johny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so u want to date 10 at a time....
first think that are 10 not too much.. 2 or 3 still understandable but 10...?
don talk on fon.. chat .. it becomes esy to cover up business.. give different times to call. but then u r busy on fon the whole day..
2007-11-04 21:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by karishma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If too many guys are a problem, then you're going to have to tell them to get lost. Sorry honey, it's the only way.
2007-11-04 21:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys aren't calling you because they want to be friends with you. They want to have a physical relationship with you. Just be clear to let them know that you aren't interested in a relationship with them. They won't bother you as much if they don't think there is a chance they will get in your pants!
2007-11-04 21:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by thedude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know wats funni i have the same problem ive found that just not answering the phone does wonders unless they start showing up at ur house
2007-11-04 21:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date each of them once a day over a 10 day period. After you gone out with all of them, stick with the one you like the most.
Or you could just have a big old orgy.
2007-11-04 21:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
lmao I say take em all to a club whoever grinds the best prolly ****s the best and choose him xD lol I bet i get a lot of bad awnsers for this =D
2007-11-04 23:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just handle it however you would want a guy to reveal to you that you are one of 10 girls that he's been seeing.
2007-11-04 21:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by hoptown 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋