ok, i just got a boyfriend. but he is my first boyfriend. at school it is kind of akward because i don't know when to hold his hand, and when not to because i dont want to seem clingy. can girls, or guys please give me some tips on having a boyfriend. i am 13 if that helps
2007-11-04 13:30:50 · 8 answers · asked by daanggirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it's been quite a while since I was 13 but I remember the feeling you're talking about. Just be yourself. Don't try be or not be something you aren't like clingy. He's your boyfriend and it's normal to want to hold hands, doesn't make you clingy (he doesn't know anymore about this than you do). Think about what you're comfortable with and go with it and don't do anything that you aren't comfortable with. Hope I didn't sound too much like your mom. ;o) Take care.
2007-11-04 13:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by BrutalBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very early to have a boyfriend. Why not wait until later? However, I good rule of thumb is not concentrate more on the relationship and less on the physical aspect. In other words, do not worry about holding hands or kissing but simply on how to develop good social skills. Learn to communicate.
2007-11-04 13:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can hold his hand n e time that's not really clingy its possibly because of your age i don't entirely understand your worry here but just don't be all over him all the time unless he is really into u just go with the flow and u will be fine good luck and congrats with the new boy friend
2007-11-04 13:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really it will all come naturally...
dont try and push it tho because then it will be really akward :/
just try and get used to things a little...
really be ur self... dont change for him... he likes u because he likes u... not what he wanted u to be... therefore if he wants u to change... he not worth ur time
2007-11-04 13:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty_Kouture 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be chill
and seriously
to hell with other ppls thoughts
if oyu want to hold his hand
then go right ahead
2007-11-04 13:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by radhika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre just 13.. so why not take it slow and easy. dont rush into things. it will come naturally to you.
2007-11-04 13:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by -pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you feel like to hold his hand, when he compliments you, says something funny, wants you to get close to him,
2007-11-04 13:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be calm and take it slowly. don't care what others think. just be happy
2007-11-04 13:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by atatfordroxursox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋