Singles & Dating - 4 November 2007

My fiance is 30 years old and his sex drive is not as great as it used to be. While we still have good sex, he never seems to want to do it on his own. We enjoy it while we are doing it, but getting to that point can be challenging. I always have to initiate it and I'm getting tired of that. We both are fairly certain that he has a low sex drive... does anyone have any ideas on what we can do to improve the situation? We both find each other attractive. Any ideas would be great.

2007-11-04 04:56:46 · 12 answers · asked by Cochy 6

2007-11-04 04:24:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex used to love it but my current g/f wants it only on her body!

2007-11-04 04:23:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Try keep it clean lads!!!!!!!

2007-11-04 04:20:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you like most about a man's body? And keep it clean please!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-04 04:19:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need an Irish lady of age between 20-35 to fallin love with?

2007-11-04 04:11:08 · 19 answers · asked by weconngr 1

(the following question is not so much a naughty question, as it is an instant curiousity upon thinking of it? hope you find my interest as positive)

For those of you who shave that area that we men always seem to be after, do you shave it when you aren't consistently engaging in? And, how frequent (that is,whether it is different when consistently active or not)

Also, feel free to give whatever detail you like (reasons why, feelings about)...and, if you are a particular origin background (for thickness of hair background of course), etc etc :)

Thanks for your enlightening words in advance!

2007-11-04 04:07:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a great date with a man I met through an online-dating site 2 weeks ago. As I had other plans later that day, we only chatted for an hour in a cafe, but the impressions he gave me were all positive. I recieved a text message from him that eventing saying that he had a great time and would like to see me again when he is visiting my town again, although he also said that he was not sure if I was interested in staying in touch with him. So, then I replied, "I was just a bit nervous but I too had a great time meeting you". I got another message from him 3 days later by email which said, "I am home now but just wanted to drop you a quick line to say I had a very good time meeting you. I am sorry you were nervous... but I hope we can meet up again." That was ten days ago, and have not heard from him since. His work brings him to my town often, and I am anxious to know when we can meet again. So, should wait for him to get in touch with me or what should I do otherwise?

2007-11-04 04:00:26 · 3 answers · asked by pinetreegirl 1

There is an extremely gay guy in my university that alot of guys hate and despise. There is a type of dance in one of our famous off campus clubs in which women go down low to the ground and shake their butt. This same gay did it and some guy kickedd him right in his butt in front of people and some of these people laughed.

2007-11-04 03:56:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why are there so many people in the world today that are focused on looks than on personality and all the things that matter. Why is it there has has to be so much "perfection" in the dating world and "perfection" in the sex industry ect... I'm not sure why it's so important. I don't understand. I mean I think i'm handsome, but there are times when I do feel a little blue when I look at myself. I'm not sure if i'm fat or just being a little too self-conscious. I'm 5'3" 185 lbs. and male. Is this fat to you? I mean I know that I don't have a "six pack", but dang is it really that important. I do have a belly on me but I am trying to lose weight the best way I can. anyways, I'm not sure what this world is coming too nowadays but It really bothers me. I see all the websites where people are "perfect" or want "perfection" or near close to it. I mean is it so much to ask why this happens and why people just can't see the good in others and not just go by the outer appearance?!

2007-11-04 03:55:44 · 2 answers · asked by S A 3

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we're really close. He's told me that he'll only go as far as I want, and he's stuck to that, although of course he does try, but stops if I don't let him. He's never been anything but amazing. Recently, he's started trying to get down my pants. I never let him, and he always stops until we see each other again [different schools, only see each other on the weekends...it sucks]. The thing is, I want it really bad. I have to force myself to move his hands. No, he doesn't get far at all, but it still feels good. We've gone kinda far in other ways, but I can't let him do this. I'm not ready, legally, I'm too young, and I have a really good relationship with my parents. If they found out, I would lose their trust. But I can see myself losing my virginity to him. He's my first love, and I wouldn't regret it being him at all. I just can't, as much as I want to because of my morals. I'm waiting till I'm legal and emotionally ready.

2007-11-04 03:52:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I stop getting so jealous? I know I like this boy, but I'm really not ready to let him know. How can I stop getting so jealous of every girl he talks to?

2007-11-04 03:43:19 · 1 answers · asked by blondesweetie88 1

i think she has but i dont no how to say it.

2007-11-04 03:41:30 · 30 answers · asked by imhiya 2

2007-11-04 03:26:25 · 13 answers · asked by jolene.knott@btinternet.com 1

2007-11-04 03:25:57 · 4 answers · asked by blondee 2

my boyfriend uses way too much tongue throughout a whole kiss. how can i curb his kissing style?

2007-11-04 03:24:41 · 3 answers · asked by Macy 2

My boyfriend of 3 years and i bought a house together in august and weve always had differences concerning our finances he is very irresponsiblewith money and would rather buy a xbox 360 than pay bills. We constantly fought over it. well he moved out on friday. i really didnt think he would he didnt really say anything to me. I saw him online and i said hey to him and asked him if he loved me and he said he does hes just not in love with me but he still cares. and i told him i cant believe hes done this to me when he knows my grandfather was just put into hospice on friday and he was basically like whatever later and signed off. this house seems so cold and empty im so alone i cant do anything i cant even sleep maybe 4 hours a day is all i cant eat i just break down crying my 21rst b day is nov 29th (we had a trip to vegas planned and paid for) its the holidays and this house my heart cant handle it i just want him to come home our cats lay by the door waiting for daddy to come home

2007-11-04 03:22:25 · 11 answers · asked by Angel 2

I saw my crush the other day for the 1st time in like five months. When I saw him he kept staring at me and blushing. It was like he was in a trance when he staring. He was acting all flustered and stuff and yet he was with some other girl. It looked like he didn't care he was with her because I was there. Then as he was leaving the place he stared at me for a couple of minutes but the girl he was with already left without him. It was like he wasn't concerned that she was their. Do you think this is weird? What does this mean?

2007-11-04 03:10:14 · 2 answers · asked by shanta 1

I hate it when men won't ask a nice girl out because of fear of rejection. Do they honeslty think women don't fear rejection as well?
So instead they go for boring girls. is it because they want to be 'safe'? I dont get it.
why do men fear rejection so much? can't they just move on.
It annoys me because I bet most of the time, they lose out on a really good chance because they are too wussy.

2007-11-04 03:07:43 · 12 answers · asked by g♥nym3d3 2

If you are only with one guy, and he happens to be 'on the small side' then it wouldn't matter would it? You would adjust to his size and it would feel the same, right?


I know if you are with alot of different men it takes more to satisfy you, because they are all different sizes... but what if you only plan on being with one?

2007-11-04 02:48:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-04 02:47:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

we were friends for 2 years. One year ago I told him, I'm intertested in him. His response "thank you."Afterward he acted strange around me, when I was around. But when I send him emails, he seem to be fine. I'm his hang on. this issue doesn't really have any sign, but a lot oof confusion.

2007-11-04 02:46:04 · 2 answers · asked by michelle j 2

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2007-11-04 02:41:54 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean serious love. I've cut myself and I'm scared to take a shower. I went to the pool yesterday and I had 2 force myself 2 come out of the water (like out from the bottom of the pool) Help. He doesn't love me back and I don't know what the hell is wrong with me. I have a great life, but the suicide thoughts are real. I need help. What do I do?

2007-11-04 02:33:22 · 6 answers · asked by Aqua 1

please star if you like the question. thanks!

2007-11-04 02:27:35 · 6 answers · asked by Rhythm of the Falling Rain 7

In my mind, a beautiful girl is someone who is dignified, gracious, has a classically beautiful face, and a nice, healthy figure (be is slim or curvaceous).

A hot girl is only hot because she has a good body and wears a lot of makeup, and not that much in the way of clothes.

Do other people see it that way

2007-11-04 02:23:24 · 28 answers · asked by Cybele 1

Me && My Boyfriend..
Borris Have Tried To Have Sex 4 Times
I'm A Virgin And He Has Recently Lost His Virginity
Everytime We Try It Gets So Far Like Less Than An Inch && It Starts To Get Really Painful && I Can't Handle The Pain
I've Even Tried Using Lube && Not Even That Helps
Is There Something Wrong With Me && It Hurts THERE The Day After For Almost All Day

2007-11-04 02:22:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ppl!!!!!!!! i and my guy r havin lot of misunderstandings!!!!!!
he is three yrs elder to me and workin in wipro.......... i want him to spend time with me bt he doesnt!!!!!!! i call him during his workin hours he attends my call bt aat times he doesnt!!!!!!!so durin those times i keep on callling him he gets tensd and says tat he hates me and doesnt want to continue this relation bt afterwards when he is normal he feels for tat i dnt want to miss him wat shall i do?????????
tell me some ways hw shall i control myself r wat shall i do???????? help me!!!!!!!

2007-11-04 02:21:44 · 17 answers · asked by saran 1

This is for the guys out there;)!
If a girls likes you and you are in the same class..
How do you want her to act, what makes you turned on and how should a girl behave around you if she really likes you? What are we supposed to do?
I like this guy in my class and I'm sitting beside him..
I do make eyecontact, smile, talk, talk to his friends.. so.. what more can a girl do.. Give up or..?

2007-11-04 02:16:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy in February, started talking to him just as friends. We thought that we liked each other a little, but I knew that a relationship would not work because he is such an asshole (I even changed his name on my cell phone so when he calls it reads "Jack *** calling" hahaha). During the summer months, we had sex, it was great. But he is still such an asshole. So much of an asshole that I stopped calling him or talking to him. But, he calls occasionally telling me he misses our friendship. Whatever!! I could never talk to him again and would be just fine. There are no feelings for him, but when I get horny, I want to call him and have sex with him. Is this wrong? He knows that we can't be in a relationship because we really don't get along. So, it is not as if I am leading him on. Can I just call him for sex?

2007-11-04 02:15:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous