I met a guy in February, started talking to him just as friends. We thought that we liked each other a little, but I knew that a relationship would not work because he is such an asshole (I even changed his name on my cell phone so when he calls it reads "Jack *** calling" hahaha). During the summer months, we had sex, it was great. But he is still such an asshole. So much of an asshole that I stopped calling him or talking to him. But, he calls occasionally telling me he misses our friendship. Whatever!! I could never talk to him again and would be just fine. There are no feelings for him, but when I get horny, I want to call him and have sex with him. Is this wrong? He knows that we can't be in a relationship because we really don't get along. So, it is not as if I am leading him on. Can I just call him for sex?
2007-11-04 02:15:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This specifically for KK and Stephen L....if I had an issue with self respect, I would not have to ask if I should just use him for sex. I would think that things were okay with me. Don't get bent out of shape because I have the guts to verbalize what people do all the time and call it a relationship. I know the difference. I am smart enough and strong enough to know that we don't get along. Maybe we like each other somewhat, but we dont' get along. I'm okay with that.
2007-11-04 03:15:13 · update #1
Seriously, get a life. You know this guy's a jerk yet you're being dumb enough to want to be his whore. Yea, that's intelligent. Here's a better idea: close your legs and find a guy who treats you with respect. At least your dignity remains intact that way.
2007-11-04 02:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You would have sex with him even though you don't like him? Perhaps you should learn something about self-respect.
Edit: I have no problem with your having an intimate relationship as long as you're old enough. But I don't get giving yourself in this way to someone you don't like. Is this something you would be proud or ashamed of? Would you tell your friends about it? (I'm sure you're not saying anything to your parents). Whether one's a guy or a girl, I still believe that sleeping with someone on a fairly regular basis that you don't have strong feelings for is, not only a bad idea, but comes down to a problem with one's self -respect. It's not the same as if he were your boyfriend and you had doubts about your future.
2007-11-04 02:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Stephen L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in the beginning enable me say, you're no longer by myself. you're no longer the only one available feeling like this, and additionally you should in no way be embarrassed approximately it. there is help available, and additionally you isn't estimated to circulate by issues by myself. do on no account think of that's all your fault, nor are you a undesirable daughter. I agree which you will possibly be able to desire to speak approximately it with somebody. So, you do no longer choose to speak approximately it along with your boyfriend. Thats ok! (yet, If he's a superb boyfriend he might actually assist you ang help you artwork it out) attempt speaking to an extensive buddy, failing that a counselling provider. Yeah, that would sound frightening, or sh!t, yet ultimatley thats what they do. thier job is to hearken to and help you. If it;s attainable, in line with danger take it sluggish removed from domicile, and your mum. Spend each and every week at a acquaintances, or a grandparent's or soemthing. area can consistently help. different than that, i certainly rigidity that Counselling is an magnificent & private provider, in case you decide on it, that's there. good success & all the suited The Ninja.
2016-10-15 00:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by ludlum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's pointless. This guy isn't going to treat you with any respect if you ask such a thing from him, and you're going to end up feeling shallow. I think you should move on to finding a better guy who you won't name Jack*** on your phone and can have amazing sex with.
2007-11-04 02:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by watermelonpopsicles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that's a good idea. You should really only have sex with someone you really love, not just any random guy! You need to get out of this "relationship." Hope you find the best answer for yourself though.
2007-11-04 02:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by lily allen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's really a jack *** then he deserves to be used lol. It sounds as if he's not completly smitten by you so don't worry about hurting him. But I'm concerned about you? It's harder for women to just have a completely physical relationship, but if you think u can handle it n won't get attached then I say enjoy the sexy time! lol. But be careful YOU don't get hurt.
2007-11-04 02:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm...interesting. I say use him for sex, guys do it and if ur not getting it any other way so be it. Just stay PROTECTED!! but otha than that why not, he's probably calling you for sex too! sayin he misses you and all that Bull Shyt. Wateva! he know whats he's doin. just make sure u Rap it Up..lmao
2007-11-04 02:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you both feel the same and knows that it cant be a relationship because you don't get along, and the sex is okay and you both aren't seeing no one then i feel its alright. thats not whorish your sticking to things you know.
2007-11-04 02:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by sheena 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl i say go for it.I cant stand assholes.they r the ones who break hearts.dont get urs involved!
2007-11-04 02:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by Blessed21 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Y not! just have to say that guy is one lucky son of a ***** lol
2007-11-04 02:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by o0griff0o 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋