ppl!!!!!!!! i and my guy r havin lot of misunderstandings!!!!!!
he is three yrs elder to me and workin in wipro.......... i want him to spend time with me bt he doesnt!!!!!!! i call him during his workin hours he attends my call bt aat times he doesnt!!!!!!!so durin those times i keep on callling him he gets tensd and says tat he hates me and doesnt want to continue this relation bt afterwards when he is normal he feels for tat i dnt want to miss him wat shall i do?????????
tell me some ways hw shall i control myself r wat shall i do???????? help me!!!!!!!
2007-11-04 02:21:44 · 17 answers · asked by saran 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pls tel me wat shall i do?????? i dnt want to miss him i do love him a lottttttttttttt
2007-11-04 02:30:43 · update #1
now tell me how shall i confess and tell him that i have realised my mistake???????
2007-11-04 02:52:31 · update #2
well it may be because you're annoying him at his work...
2007-11-04 02:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Pkizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him at work! Do you realize he could get fired for that? Why do you do that??? STOP NOW.
You are being a very selfish person when you keep on calling . I absolutely hate that when a man does that to me.
I do not understand why you do not stop and realize this guy can not talk to you everytime you call. If I were him, I would change my phone number so you couldn't call, that is called harrasment and you could be in serious trouble.
Then I would break up with you. I would have nothing to do with someone who does this to me. You just need to control yourself, realize the world and the people in it do not revolve around you and your insecurities.
If you "EVER" and I mean ever want to have a real relationship with anyone, stop that calling over and over again stuff now. Leave someone alone until they can or will get back to you. Too bad if you don't always get immediate gradification..LOOK IT UP.
I guess people like you do this because you have some insecurity issues with yourself. Why don't you go and get some counseling honestly. I've dumped any guy who does that to me even the first time because it seems to never stop.
You won't keep him for long if you don't stop picking up that phone and dialing. Leave the phone alone and don't go over to his house without him inviting you.
2007-11-04 02:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, you need to move on. You sound as if you tend to smother the guys you are into and it looks as if it is almost to the point of stalking them. You need to back off. He said he doesn't want to continue the relationship...it is over. Pick up the pieces and move on.
People need space from time to time. Don't try so hard. You don't have to spend every waking moment with someone. Get a hobby or focus on what you want for yourself out of life. Don't try to find someone else to fulfill your life for you.
2007-11-04 02:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by mamabee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like a real good relationship to me, unless you are calling him at work like 20 times a day. I can see how that could be annoying. Just try not to call him so much and find something to do to keep your mind busy. Good luck.
2007-11-04 02:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are not attracted to 'needy' girls. Don't call him so often and don't call him at work. Make time for talk after work or on weekends where he doesn't feel both the pressures of work and your relationship.
If he avoids you after work or on weekends - then you may have to realize that you need to move on. Life is too short to be tied up over someone who doesn't feel the same way about you.
2007-11-04 02:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by sagegranny 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's at WORK ya moron. Stop calling him before he gets fired.
Damn, at least he's responsible enough to have a job. With a psycho like you, I'd be hiding out too. Stop harassing him and get a life. He is not obligated to spend every waking moment with you.
2007-11-04 02:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop calling him at work unless it is an emergency! He is there to work not chat it up with you all day!
In fact, if I were in your shoes and felt largely ignored by my girlfriend, I would just stop calling her altogether!
And please for the love of GOD, start using the "check spelling" feature when you post a question!
2007-11-04 02:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by bender_xr217 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
Just understand something, no guy likes to be disturbed when he is working.. dont worry he will not leave you .. just relax and speak to him frankly and say you need to be with him.. though he is busy he will definitely understand and somehow manage to spend time with you...
Cheers
2007-11-04 02:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by Prince 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont call him at work
thats a big no no
just wait for him to call you and back off
if he wants he'll call you on his break or whatever
2007-11-04 02:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're calling while he works...he's probably busy and getting annoyed at you. So just be patient.
2007-11-04 02:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are way too immature to be dating this guy. You are obsessive, controlling, stalker, freak girl and he should dump you.
2007-11-04 02:23:56 · answer #11 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋