Is it bad to hang out everyday with the person your dating?

Question

I've been going out with my boyfriend for 1 year and 5 months
& after going out for 3 months we started hanging out everyday. as much as we can, we just dont get sick of eachother. but theres always someone that says "you shouldnt do that its bad for the realtionship" or "you might just get sick of eachother". I know not hanging out everyday makes me more happy to see him the next day and i appreciate seeing him. more then i regular do, is it bad seeing eachother everyday? could it ruin a relationship?

Answer 1

I have been in really great relationships and that's all we wanted to do was hang out with eachother, I think you know if you need a breather. And when you do, take one

Answer 2

well, although technically it is not "unhealthy" for your relationship, you should skip some days or two. Even if you dont get sick of him, this can actually lead to separation from your real world. Suppose something bad happens between the two of you ( which i hope never happens btw) then because you were with him on the daily basis, you will think that he needs to be there for a part of your day. Because you accumulated a pattern and got accustomed to him, if you are away form him for awhile, it might drive you nuts because you cant see him etc. So, my suggestion is to see him maybe every other day to get a break form him to spend time with friends and such.

Answer 3

Interesting question!!!! My Son is 23 and has been in relationship and has given his girlfriend a promise ring. They work together, live together and she is so insecure she won't let him out of her sight. She even has problems with him hanging out with me alone!!!
He's dealt with it really well but called me a couple of times in the past few weeks and said he is getting to feel like he has no freedom to see any of his friends or even go to the store alone. He is feeling cramped and doesn't know what to do. I knew a while ago that their being together all the time was going to be trouble. My Son rarely drinks and doesn't do any drugs or isn't into any other women. I do agree that he needs his space. I'd hate to see them break up over this.
He wants me to talk to her and I don't think that would work because she thinks he loves me too much and is a Mommas boy.
This one he has to handle for himself.
But, point in case I understand what you said how not seeing him everyday makes you even happier to see him when you do. I would take that statement and turn it into a fact if I were you. Everyone needs their own time and space, it's healthy and helps us to grow and learn to depend on ourselves.
It is up to you and your boyfriend but your comment on how not seeing him everyday makes you appreciate him more suggests strongly that you need some space to be by yourself or with others (not guys). I suggest you talk to him about it and work it out together. Too much of anything isn't good for anyone!!

Answer 4

It isnt "bad" for a relationship just make sure you both spend some time with your other friends and dont push them away because you want to see eachother everyday. It can be bad if you are skiping work or not making plans with your friends to skip and go out to see your boyfriend.
So just make sure you have time in your week for friends and family and your relation should be just fine, Have fun dating

Answer 5

Well, i couldnt get enough of my bf for about 1 year and 3 months, then he started getting annoying sometimes, but it was still cool. I say hang with him all you can, cuz eventually you probly wont be able to see him as much, like if he doesnt already have a job, when he gets one. Then youll miss the $hit out of him. Soak it up.

Answer 6

Seeing a guy everyday is great if you truly do enjoy each other's company and I don't think it'll ruin your relationship with him, however, it could ruin your relationship with your friends. You should still spend time with your friends, otherwise you will lose them. Try cutting down your boyfriend time a little bit to spend it with your other friends, because if you don't and your relationship doesn't work out, then you have no one to help you get back on your feet.

Answer 7

No, it's not bad. If you aren't sick of each other after doing this for that long, that's a good thing. When you're married, you "hang out" with your spouse every day, pretty much, right?!

Answer 8

No, not now, but at some point one or both of you will decide you 'need some space'. I think it's best that you each decide on a day of "me time" or girls/boys nights.

Short times away can prevent the nitpicking and bickering that may emerge after continuously being in each others presence.

Answer 9

I don't think so, as long as you'r enot getting sick of eachother or ditching your other friends. If you start getting sick of eachother I would suggest taking a break but otherwise I don't see a problem with it.

Answer 10

People who are married hang out with each other everyday, at least my husband and I do and we have been together for over 31 years. It has not ruined our relationship yet and we still enjoy hanging out. =)