Last night I had a date with a man I have had a crush on since my freshman year of high school. We have seen each other around from time to time but after seeing him a few weeks ago I contacted him on MySpace. He gave me his number and we chatted a few times last week along with exchanging text messages. The date was amazing. I was afraid I was going to be dissapointed after having built this guy up in my head for 15 years. He is so handsome and outgoing, but so shy. We talked. We laughed. He touched me a few times. He initiated a hug good night. What throws me for a loop is he told me to call him if I ever wanted to do it again. I sent him a text today telling him I had so much fun last night and would love to see him again soon. He hasn't responded. I don't know how to read this shy guy. Should I call him in a few days? I can't wait to see him again, but don't know how to read how he felt about the date. I can't just come out and ask him. Help!
2007-11-04 12:31:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call him
2007-11-04 12:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by crasher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't gotten in touch with you, he's likely just not that into you. Maybe you thought it was a great date, but he only thought it was an ok one. I'd try calling him (not texting) one more time. Then leave the ball in his court. If you don't get any response, you have your answer. In the meantime, don't close yourself off. Stay open to the possibility of dating others.
2007-11-04 20:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋