how do i break the ice with him?

Question

theres a guy that i think is super cute, but weve only talked like once.....and that was with a group of people around. i think he's super cute, and i wanna get to know him better. i always see him in the halls, but i dont know what to say cuz i dont know him very well? any flirting tips or ideas on what i could do to get him interested and open up to me?

Answer 1

this may seem to easy, but just talk to him. smile at him in the hallway. maybe sit with him @ lunch. eventually you'll have a friendly relationship going, and then start from there. that usually works.

Answer 2

Ok! Listen up! The best way to hook this guy is to make good friends with one of his female - friends. Soon, you'll find your self sitting in a restaurant together , going to movies together, hanging out, and become very close. Here, you can make your move, just simply tell him! This process works, i know it does, i just went through it , and i am telling you ,an everyone else that is reading this, this is sure fire! The only thins you have to be careful is that you don't want to hurt this friend that you are using to get to him, you should actually make friends with her and stay friends, even if it doesn't work out!

Answer 3

Being definitely specific is the nice strategy to holiday the ice. Remember each and every people are very detailed in our possess proper, and that implies we do not have got to faux to be any individual however our actual selves. Also being respectful to the opposite character, and permitting them the time to inform you approximately themselves is principal. Sometimes we're so serious about ourselves and growing the proper snapshot, we placed the opposite character down - they very one we're supposedly impressing! - consider two ears - one mouth - so concentrate two times up to you speak, and you can move simply excellent!

Answer 4

dont like push to hard to get into a relation ship get a strong friend ship first like asking him how is day was or weeking ... and ya then after u build a strong relationship and u like his personality then see if he has any intrest other wise if u do it know he will feel like he is being backed into a cornor by knowing u like him make u seem like ur unavalible and like twirril ur hair and find out his intrest cuz most of the time u like someone so much and then u get with em and u hate their personality it happens all the time

Answer 5

i used to have that kind of situation with guys because i almost always get a shy, elusive, or loner type of guy. these are just some things i did before:
1. during a group date, i would usually not sit beside him but would talk to everyone in general about something we can talk about in common. guys wouldn't really talk much unless he is already friends with you. when everyone has shared whatever they want to share, i would tease that guy a bit by telling him that he hasn't shared yet or said something the whole time. i would usually joke around but i never humiliate anyone just to make others laugh. i usually make fun of myself in a cute way and most of the time. when everyone's busy talking about other things, i would walk around a bit and come close to him and ask if he got offended by me in anyway.....and tell him that i noticed that he was silent. i would tell him i got a little worried that i might have made him angry or something...ofcourse he would say i didnt offend him at all....and then i would act that i am so relieved... and i would initiate talking with him about things we both can discuss further... :)
2. usually, what i choose as a topic to discuss are: where he is studying (if we are not schoolmates), where he is working, what course he took up (if he is a graduate already) or what he plans to take up in college, what places are nice to hang out it nowadays and if he ever hangs out somewhere...
3. flirting only comes when we are already a bit close or i know more about him already. i would ask him to accompany me somewhere...because i need a pal...something like that...or i would ask him to give me an idea what to do with my boy problem.....
and i usually make him believe that i am starting to feel comfortable with him like a 'best friend'....
this gives me opportunity to be sweet to him like bring snack for two and i'd send it to him or give him a hug like a pal. i make him think i am not attracted to him but i am only treating him like my 'teddy bear best friend'..all cuddly and huggable...
and ofcourse hugs or leaning on his shoulders when you are sitting beside each other or when i am feeling sleepy or dizzy of alcohol (hehehe) or when we would commute together sometimes give guys a different feeling...so in a way, he kinda gets confused if he likes me as a friend or if he is attracted to me or something....but i would most of the time pretend that i dont notice...
i cant think of more than that right now but i hope these helps.this is i guess what you call manipulation of some sort.... anyway, dont use this to the extreme and please always think of other people's feelings and if doing this sort of thing would do you any good at all in the long run. because in my case, it didnt' do me any good to manipulate a guy because i was physically attracted to him. he fell in love with me alright but i realized in the long run that there was no point in having a relationship with someone who does not have the same perspective in life as me.:)
good luck!

Answer 6

When you see him next time in the hallway... 'bump' into him rather accidentally. Then fall down with your books. He'll obviously help you up and give you your books. Then be like 'OMG I've seen you somewhere before.' He'll start walking with you. Then, work it.

Answer 7

thats my kinda situation!! Lol

well, if youre friends know him, hang out as a group a lot of more times...

then eventually you will know eachother more, and you can talk more privately. or you can "coincidently" walk past his locker when hes there and be like heyy! and walk by!

Answer 8

say hey, what's up? what have you been up to lately? Tell him that you guys should hang out and tell him about a party or something cool that's going on

Answer 9

if yousee him with someone you know talk to him....and then after you talk to him 3 or 4 times ask for his #...then call him...but not that day or the next day...give him ur # too and see if he calls you first

Answer 10

Get to know him!
Start it off this way:
'Heeyy! I betchu don't remember me'
And if he does, YESS.
If he doesn't, KINDLY remind him of how you guys met.
And then get his number from a mutual friend.
Start calling!