I just found out i was BI-sexual last week. Is it ok if i have both a gf and a bf?
2007-11-04 12:15:30 · 19 answers · asked by Katniss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Experimenting is Ok, the important thing is honesty, make sure they both know about each other and take it from there. of cause if you boyfriend is also bi-sexual you could start a relationship with all three of you, which could be even more liberating.
Just remember to keep it casual and keep it honest, when you are finding out about yourself it is all acceptable, but when things start to get serious there is a whole world of hurt waiting in multiple partner relationships.
2007-11-05 00:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by ebungle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not really sure to be completly honest. I was dating a guy and a girl at the same time. the guy was DEFINATLY ok with it but the girl was a little jealous, i would probably be jealous to, but ya know. If I were you I would only date one person at a time you dont want to hurt anyone. And you might end up falling in love with both of them (just like i did). And what everyone else is saying about spreading aids and other diseases is true. You just need to be careful and make sure you use protection with both sexes. Then u should be safe. If people treat you like they treated me they will be mean and say **** like "fag". I got used to it, lol. but dont let them get to you.
2007-11-06 01:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by britt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok listen you dont just "find out" your gay. your either born with something wrong with your brain, or you THINK your bi/gay
I have a friend who thought he was bi for awhile. one of the reasons can be an experience when you were younger. another is perhaps all your life you heard that guys were the comforters, but you want someone to comfort YOU. but trust me theres a girl out there for you. and no it is not ok to have both. its still considered cheating. I hope Ive helped some and that I didnt offend you. good luck ^_^
2007-11-04 12:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by ~Sierra~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are honest with both of them and they are both ok with the situation, then sure. It's perfectly fine. If you are lying to either or both, or if they have a problem with it, then no, you should choose one over the other.
2007-11-04 12:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, It's not.
It's cheating, And thats wrong.
I'm guessing your GF dosen't know your BI.
You need to tell her, Because she deserves to know.
I mean you never know, She may be OK with it.
Some girls are just like that.
2007-11-04 12:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by m a r y j a n e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
being in a relationships means that you like that person and want to show that to them.
it would be like you're cheating on both of them since you're sharing those feelings with somebody else.
the gender doesn't matter.
2007-11-04 12:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by poetic tragedy. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stick to 1 relationship at a time
2007-11-04 12:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by bella♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...bi-sexual how did this happen lol chose 1 and the one that ur most attracted to . lol lol eww, srry just freaks me out lol
2007-11-04 12:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by joseph w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as both of them know about each other and are fine with it... yes. But, if you hide it, then it's cheating.
2007-11-04 12:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by cresentrosetat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats cheating.
2007-11-04 12:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by Zach K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋