Singles & Dating - 13 October 2007

To make it brief. He made my life to be like a beautiful dream. All lovely words are mine, actions were accompanied hence, he turned out a professional cheater. Anyways, He thought he'd be playing me a fool for long but may be am lucky to discover earlier b4 getting serious with this b a s t a r d. I rarely chat btw, but I knew his nick name there so once i was too bored so i logged in & found him. I thought to ve some fun with him b4 telling him its me. Got so excited to know am a chick & started to ask to meet him after a long intimate chat 4 sex. Before bursting in his face telling him the truth - I met him next day (as he thought to be the chick) it was his fatal mistake! yeah, that chick was me and I slapped him coz he was dorky b4 being a liar & a cheater. Now, I am so hurt and need no man in my life. Just am so tired of liars & cheaters. What do I do to overcome my coming days?

2007-10-13 07:55:58 · 13 answers · asked by Sara007 5

2007-10-13 07:52:12 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Flowers or not?
Should I try for a kiss if things end well?
Do I need to walk her to her front door when I drop her off?

2007-10-13 07:52:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The one man I loved….

He was a man that I never should have ever thought of in that way… I should never have went
for a drink with him.
I didn’t realise it would cause so much heart ace and pain for what was about to happen.

I was 17 yrs old at the time and was very young and naive like most young girls..
I thought that if a man looked at me or spoke to me or even asked me for a drink I was special I was beautiful and he didn’t want any other girl…

I was wrong I was just many of his girl he want to play around with and treat us like where toys.
Why did he bother with me.. A young vulnerable girl.. I don’t think I was vulnerable maybe I was I still don’t really think I was.

I saw him as a man of absolute beauty I did.. I thought he was gods gift sent down on this earth for me!
He is 31
Married with a child

Shocked from inside that this fool of a married man would even bother!
His wife is absolutely beautiful!

He loved his wife to bits, I can see it in his eyes, I can see he would never LEAVE HER!

90% of married men never leave their wife for a affair they had a ‘FLING’

He had passion like I did… I would love people with passion and music!

I would think of sex as a emotional attachment, I would make LOVE… I would never **** anyone…

See with a married man sex with his wife is love making
Sex with the toy is just a **** to get some sexual frustration out…

See when your 17 yrs old you don’t think like that, You think wow he choose me out of all of these girls I feel so beautiful and wow..

But no silly young girl sex is sex… men are fools for sex they live on sex!!
If they don’t get sex they become moody and miserable and frustrated!!

He made me feel alive he made me feel so good about myself…
After wards I put on weight became very depressed it messed me up!

No one can hate me for what I did really… because I was young I didn’t realise and
I was just another one of his victims!!

After it happened a few months went buy and I would see him chatting up every girl there.. I was shocked I felt sick I just felt used…
Like a sex object, a piece of meat!

I saw his wife and she looked at me for a while and I just carried on.
I felt like crying my eyes out after I saw her.
I said to him Your wife is beautiful he said….. I now..
Which made me want to say STOP THIS AND LOVE HER RIGHT

Love a women how she needs to be loved

If your going to cheat just break up!!

If your going to look at another women and want to **** her go and see a doctor

If your really that sex obsessed you need help!

I lost myself in his looks.. I found him amazing and of course I dreamt I was his wife!

I think its one of these thing I have to write down to make me feel better about it…

I can’t never not see him because just watching him is enough for now!


I will find someone to love me for me..
He didn’t love me for me no no no
He loved me for sex that it…..

But I was a fool for falling for it!

2007-10-13 07:44:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

It starts with an M. and is only 4 letters. 10 points for the first one who guesses.

2007-10-13 07:42:18 · 9 answers · asked by Is that your final answer? 3

how 2 massage my galfriend's c cup breast which can make her feel high???

2007-10-13 07:39:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just recently started dating a guy and I'm 99% positive he believes in God. The problem is my mother. She doesn't want me to end up with a non-christian christian. She herself married a man who was questionable and says that she regrets it but they have been married over 20 years. I know this relationship is still new and fresh, but I am already getting pressure to find out where he stands. My problem is that I am not sure where I stand. So how can I dump him for not being christian "enough". I don't want to. He is a sweet guy, caring, and says that he won't pressure me to do anything I don't want. That is fantastic, because even though I am unsure of where I stand with god right now, I still have morals. I won't cheat, steal, lie, and I plan on waiting for sex until marriage. How do I accept, or at the least understand where my family is coming from and let myself explore the possibilities in this relationship? Can I? Does anyone have experience with this? All help is appreciated.

2007-10-13 07:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by overmaggies 2

is it better than in person

2007-10-13 07:35:42 · 16 answers · asked by Adrian O 1

anybody on here from morecambe /heysham ?

2007-10-13 07:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

you see a girl suckign on a lolli pop,
or a girl adjusting her bra,
or twirlign her hair,
or does it turn ou on if you see her underwear

2007-10-13 07:10:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok we've all seen how girls post chainletters on bullitens on myspace and other websites about what a girls wants but doesn't say or what a girl wants a guy to do for her.
ex) hold her HAND, or talk to her under the stars, kiss her in front of other girls u know , etc.

Now for all you guys out there, as a girl, i'd like to know what a guy wants a girl to do for them but never asks.
thanx for anyone who gives a good try.

p.s keep it on a clean level (don't say b_j or anything stupid)

2007-10-13 07:09:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you think?

2007-10-13 07:05:58 · 31 answers · asked by gottalublilgiggles 1

There is this really annoying and creepy kid that likes me at my HS, he is trying to find out everything about me, gets near me, stares at me, etc.

How can I get him to leave me alone?

2007-10-13 07:05:35 · 7 answers · asked by Katie 3

This might sound like a joke but I’m serious. This is a question for girls, I am 18 and sometimes I wear a diaper. I don't use it, when I use the restroom I take it off and use the restroom just like underwear, but it is like a security blanket it me, nothing sexual it's not a fetish eww, it’s totally innocent, it's just emotional, I have seen help and they tell me if it's not hurting anyone then there is nothing wrong with it. It’s easy for most people to say it’s weird and judge me harshly, because most people got the affection they should have when they were that age, but I really didn’t and that’s something we talked about. He thought that someday if I got security from someone else I might not have the need to wear them anymore. I’m not a bad person, but for now it does my heart good, I mean some woman like certain fabrics, some guys prefer boxers, some briefs, I prefer warm soft cushy diapers, which are much more comfortable especially when sitting, to me it's just another piece of clothing, and I only wear one once in a while, and not out in public, so would any girl still be my friend, if she liked me and got to know me before she found out? I mean it’s just a diaper.

2007-10-13 06:57:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with her for about 9 years, since we were 8. she is a senior and I am a junior. today she is filling out college applications,(we plan on going to the same college but I donno when Ill be there) Im afraid that she is gonna forget all about me. I love her and don't want to be with anyone else. What should I do? You should probably know Im apostolic pentecostal.
She says she loves me and won't forget me. The Bible College is only about a half hour away from where I live. I know it is love because the feeling of infatuation has worn down and God has made it clear through scriptures and dreams(dreams about my future with her, scriptures about true love and marriage) that this is the real thing, I have faith that she won't forget about me, but how can I stop worrying about it?

2007-10-13 06:49:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell yesterday,

And I felt my knee pop..It hurt SO bad I was screaming.

Yesterday I couldnt walk on it AT ALL.

But today I can stand on it...It doesnt hurt when im sitting.

But when I stand on it..It feels loose and unstable and like its about to pop! Did I TEAR A LIGAMENT?

2007-10-13 06:45:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your partner wants to break up with you but is afraid to do so in person or by telephone. Is it okay for him/her to send an e-mail saying s/he is breaking up with you, and will never see you again, but doesn't say what the circumstances or reasons are for the breakup thus leaving you without a clue and with the definite impression that you will never be allowed to know why he/she left?

Explain your answer.

2007-10-13 06:29:55 · 19 answers · asked by Softtouchmale 7

My boyfriend has never complimented me and i feel he always degrades me to feel better in himself. He also asks me often in a joking way whether i have cheated on him. I compliment him and have never given him any reason to think that i've cheated on him. He admitted to me once that he used to be a cheat. When he was drunk he also said that he dosen't think were gonna last very long cos were too different.
Good things is that we have an active sex life and i don't think he is cheating on me. We also get on very well and are able to laugh and communicate freely. I spend about six days of a week with him and we get along usually fine. I think i like him more than he likes me but then agin why does he want to be with me all the time? Is the way he treats me insecurity or because he dosen't really like me?
Thanks

2007-10-13 06:29:54 · 11 answers · asked by ckerr90 2

for example gossip girl...tv show...shes 14 and is kissing a guy that is in his 20s!! is it wrong or is it okay cuz its just acting?

2007-10-13 06:02:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-13 05:59:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-13 05:56:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like a girl a lot
she doesnt feel the same way
i still have hope for her

sometimes i try to find other girls, but they dont compare to her

the other girls i find are prettier than her, but i want her

if feel like if i get a gf i will just think about my crush

i dont think ill ever find another girl like her

she is so nice and i feel like other guys will be unfaithful to her

2007-10-13 05:25:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-13 05:08:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-13 05:01:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy I met online is sending me mix signals so I told him I have no plan meeting him anymore. I think mix signals meaning not interested. His response makes me wonder: he said no plan meeting him anymore is fine (if that makes me happy), and he seriously wishes me luck. I feel using the word "seriously" sound sarcastic. I also noticed that he deleted my contact information all together. You think? If he is upset, why? Isn't he the one showed not interested?

2007-10-13 04:54:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been a rotten boyfriend, admittedly, and not faithful several times in the past. I've been trying to muster up the courage to ask her if she would marry me, but I'm afraid she would use it as an opportunity to turn me down--pay me back for some of the hurt. This has been an awful year for us, and I'm uncertain if proposing marriage would be considered by her as a sweet gesture, or terribly ironic--maybe even insulting. I don't want to ask if I'm just going to end up with my feelings hurt.

If you were in her shoes, what would your response be? Am I better off leaving this unsaid, or should I try to be bold and propose anyway, despite the risk to my feelings?

2007-10-13 04:52:30 · 18 answers · asked by Jack B, goodbye, Yahoo! 6

Me and my girlfriend of one year just moved across country for her job. It has been one month and I have been working on the house and looking for a job and finally landed a great one. After one month of living together she says that she needs a break and wants me to move out. She gave me a bunch of reasons like I don't respect her stuff, she feels like she has lost her independence, and that she is just generally unhappy. So I moved out into her best friend's finance's place and find myself in a new town with a new job and am only here because of her, otherwise I would be elsewhere. I want to give her time to figure things out but at the same time don't want to lose contact with her and end the relationship if a break is really what she wants, but again she says that she doesn't know what she wants. So what is a guy to do? She still texts me about my new job and place and little things like that. Is there anything I can do to help salvage this relationship or just move on?

2007-10-13 04:47:43 · 5 answers · asked by poeticbbq 3

This guy was caught by the teacher sending a note to her gf and he read it outloud, then he posted it on this bulliten so that anyone can come and read it!!! i hope he doesnt do that with MY note cause i will seriously CRY!!!

2007-10-13 04:47:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a huge fan and love Criss Angel soooo much. I want to marry him so badly. When ever hes in my dream, He doesn't really care about me or like me. He sort of ignores me. Why are my dreams like this? thanks

2007-10-13 04:42:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

... with a boy that is a friend when you don't have a regular boyfriend?

2007-10-13 04:37:58 · 20 answers · asked by MaRikA 2