In my case, my girlfriend of almost 2 years had a 2 month affair with my roommate behind my back. I found out recently and am very hurt, as is she. This all stopped a few months ago, and she claimed that she felt extremely pushed away by me and she got the attention from him she needed at the time, but realized what she was doing and stopped it.
For me, I'm outraged and disgusted by the details, and how she lied to me about it so many times...but at the same time, I know that I was very cold and uncaring to her for the past 6 months or so. I would always brush her off to be with my friends, and never called her or told her I loved her unless she said it first.
This is bad, but the situation has shown me that she really does mean a lot to me, and that I really took her for granted...but I also do not know if this is something I can live with. I know she would never do this to me again, especially if I treat her better. What do you think?
2007-10-13
11:00:16
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bada_bing2k4
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