Singles & Dating - 21 September 2007

i am 18 years old and i am not a model. my boyfriend says im beautiful and he wouldn't trade me for any girl in the world. but i wonder do guys really want real women or do they always truly desire the model look alikes????????

2007-09-21 11:22:09 · 14 answers · asked by Amanda G 2

when guys says idk when you ask them if they would ever go out with you what does this mean ?

2007-09-21 11:15:38 · 3 answers · asked by valeri ann 3

ok i like this girl in school named Ale so wrote her this letter that she loved but now shes ignoring me ............it makes me sad.

2007-09-21 11:12:39 · 33 answers · asked by Johnny3682 2

i want to ask her to do something but i can't take her out to eat cuz she's fasting for ramadan and i don't think she drinks so party wouldn't be a good idea either

2007-09-21 10:59:39 · 9 answers · asked by wafflehouse 4

Hi, I realise that online dating still has a lot of stigma attached - that's its for freaks, desperate people, it's unsafe, etc. But I have had a positive experience dating online (I met my current boyfriend through RSVP.com.au) . We've been together almost a year. I found online dating to be a lot easier than normal - you can search for exactly the kind of person you want. It's simpler and faster than hoping against hope that your soul mate happens to be in the bar you are at on any given night. Of course, there is always being safe - my man and I chatted for a couple of months before we met, and had our dates in public places, told other people where we were going etc. RSVP actually gives you safety guidelines for meeting people in the real world - so it was nice to have some tips. Turned out my man was just like I though he was from his profile ... we're very happy together. Does anyone else have some positive or negative online dating experiences they want to share?

2007-09-21 10:55:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy ALOT. He always comes to my locker and flirts with me but I always freeze. What do I do?

2007-09-21 10:46:54 · 2 answers · asked by purplechic494 1

He tells me this as we were watching a reality show and I'm a bit disturbed by this statement. Should I watch out for his behavior or is this a bluff?

2007-09-21 10:46:33 · 30 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

Mine was the day I found out I didn't like cream.

This was AFTER putting a can of whipped cream to good use.
All the fun of putting it on, followed by me gagging.

2007-09-21 10:23:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been together for 4 years,i love him so much and i have never looked at another guy 'that way' since i've been with him,but he gets jealous,he ignores me for hours afterwards.it got bad once he attacked a friend of mine just because he put his arm around my shoulder in a friendly way.

2007-09-21 10:12:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm considering asking my boyfriend to shave his "hair" would you do it for your girl?

2007-09-21 10:10:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

just asking

2007-09-21 10:01:23 · 12 answers · asked by Harsh 6

We have been together for two years now and things are great we use to fuss along time ago by me being scared to do anything. He use to watch porno's and do all that stuff I hated. Now he has me wanting it and he won't touch me. He is always too tired, doesn't feel like it or not in the mood. He use to want it every day now he can go weeks w/o wanting it and turing it down. He barely even lets me touch him b/c he doesn't want me starting ne thing. He has taken a big and sudden change. He claims he wants no one but me but why is he no longer attrative to me, it bothers me to think im not good enough for him especially since before we do nething like that together he has to have something else. It makes me made b/c i hear how people say he was all over his exes doing this to them that and the other. When he has done something for me 3 x's in 2 years then all of sudden won't have ne thing to do with me. He'd rather watch tv then look at me. Why is this please, HELP!!!??????

2007-09-21 09:58:17 · 7 answers · asked by trixieland 1

Well theres this boy in my Personal Fitness class.
He's kinda cute, smart (and doesn't get weirded out when I start debating about things like religion but joins in!), has the same interests, and has the same wacky sense of humor that I have.
We've become friends because I noticed he had nobody to talk to in that class so made a point to get to know him.
We're freshmen. Just started high school. We're comfortable around each other and it's all good but theres on problem:
In personal fitness, we have to wear gym clothes, yeah well hard to look pretty and feminine in boy clothes and a ponytail. Yeah I know that there is cute workout clothes, but I don't feel comfortable in them.
Every thursday, we have classroom day and on those days, I make sure to dress extra-feminine and cute so that he sees that side of me too,
but thats still four days of I'm looking gross because I'm hot, sweaty and tired.
What do I do?
I don't see him at any other time during the day,

2007-09-21 09:51:02 · 10 answers · asked by cambrexia 4

i REALLY REALLY like this guy, and im about 80% sure he likes me back. ok so today in social studies, we had to write down a paragraph and i finished and so did my crush, but he finished before me and was just staring at me. when i finished, i looked up and caught him staring at me and he blushed and smiled but was still looking at me. i looked away and about 10 seconds later looked again and he was still looking at me and i looked too for about 3 seconds and he blushed and this happened a 3rd time too. does he like me? he does alot of things that shows he likes me too.

2007-09-21 09:48:59 · 7 answers · asked by Megg 2

ok well ive been dating this guy for almost 2 years, we love each other and stuff but right now ive had to move for educational reasons to another city ( 7 hour drive) we been having trouble dealing wit the long distance. Im ok with things but he not. He doesnt like the fact that im out n meeting new ppl and stuff. I talk to him alot ( couple of hours a day) but i chill wit people as well. But anyways so he just told me that he doesnt want me to wear these jeans i have cuz they are too tight and that i can only wear thm when im out with him. The pants r tight but not hoe-ish tight. They jus make my ass look good and he thinks that guys r gonna look n stuff n he doesnt like it . I dun think its right for him to tell me what to wear but at the same time im trying to be fair . i dont dress skanky at all i jus wear fitted clothing and the fact that my body is curvy sorta makes guys look. I always dressed like that tho...

2007-09-21 09:44:08 · 12 answers · asked by moooona1987 2

okay. i REALLY, REALLY like this boy. He's smart. funny. nice. and HOTT!!!!! but like, i dont know if he likes me... boys r so confusing! boys, what do u like in girls... im not gonna change 4 any1 but i wanna know!!!!xoxo!!!! be specifuc thanks

2007-09-21 09:42:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a new girl that works with my bf. I am so jealous of her and I don't even understand why. She doesn't look anything like his type. And I've even been feeling extra good about myself lately, so I don't know why I'm jealous of her. I just keep looking for any reason I can to be jealous. Like, if anyone else did/said the same things she does/says to my bf, I wouldn't even think twice. How do I stop being so jealous of her?

2007-09-21 09:39:29 · 14 answers · asked by phlemo 1

I love my gf so much.She doesnt want the same things as me though and our dreams are completely different.She doesnt ever want to marry or have kids and i do.I want to live in China and she wants to stay in the US.We are completely different and we want different things but i love her.I need opinions from unbiased people.

By the way when i say break up i mean drop all contact and move on.

2007-09-21 09:33:06 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 14 and my exgirlfriends 12 and she dumped me about 3-2months ago because she thinks I'm too old for her and I've only just realised but i've been trying to make all my friends around me miserable without realising it. I've been doing it to all of my friends and they're all beginning to finally say what they think and it hasn't been nice. I've lost a few friends thanx to it and one was a really good friend. I've been using my exgirlfriend's friends to try and get over her. I even well not acted on it but even thought about dragging her 11year old sister into it to help me get over my ex and I've also been taking all my jealousy out on my exgirlfriend's boyfriend(well now exboyfriend) and even though I've done all this my ex has stuck beside me and never complained and is the only one of two who haven't and I feel she should complain because I've been a real jerk and haven't even noticed it until I started losing my friends.

2007-09-21 09:21:54 · 8 answers · asked by Lily R 6

*once agian i kno this is the wrong section.... but i get the best answers here!!!*

what is your passion?? im 19 and i still dont kno what im passionate about? i dont even kno what gives my life meaning! is that weird??

2007-09-21 09:21:53 · 8 answers · asked by lizzylou859 3

I never found this to be an attrative character trait in someone.
That's my gift to that for that special woman when I meet her is that I could have had lots of casual sex, great sex and sexual relationships with many women but I chose not to because I don't thinks it's an attractive character trait in myself or someone else. I've always told this to most every girl I've been with. There were a few times I did engage in sexual activity, but not a reguar behavior. I've always encouraged women to refrain from sexual relations because it's not an attractive character trait, it's not a healthy behavior, i.e., unwanted pregnancy and STD risk, and if the the guy doesn't already love her and want to marry her, she is just being ****** (if he does it right, she enjoys being ****** more than he enjoys ******* her).
How many of you women agree. That this is a good thing???

2007-09-21 09:18:50 · 2 answers · asked by T99D 3

Why is the legal age to have sex 16?

2007-09-21 09:16:06 · 11 answers · asked by juicyx 1

my boss and I are really close. so i can tell her anything, well almost anything. but it turns out that i met her son and we liked each other. we went out and we slept together, for some reason i doubt she'll approve of it. its not serious between me and him we just go out whenever we have some time, i DO have a bf though and she knows about it and he knows too. the thing about it is that I feel really guilty keeping it from her. i just want to tell her because she trusts me a lot and i dont want her to think bad of me if she finds out some other way. so my question is, should i tell her? or should i just keep this as a secret? thanks!

2007-09-21 09:12:11 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i work in a family business and this is located near other places. few weeks back a shop near us caught fire (sad yeh) and i spoke to the owner (asked if she wanted help or anything in the future).. and i also met one of her assistants (the place was a beauty salon).. and made smal talk.. and since that day i didnt see her again, until today, across the road from me in a cafe, she was getting lunch, so i pretended i wanted some food (which i bought and didnt want) made small talk again, this girl now has a new premissis where she works now (same beauty salon, different place.

she is the sort of lady that makes me go "wow" and out of breath. i really really want to get know her more, but how? i know where she works, but just cant go into a womens beauty salon (for obvious reason : me being a guy). sad thing is i start uni again this week and i wont be at work alot, only one day (thats if i have time). so i was thinking to somehow talk to her tommorow, and the only way to do that is...

2007-09-21 09:10:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We aren't very good friends. I met him this year and hes a year older than me, and we are in one class together. We sometimes talk...
But what if people talk about us? Cause we would be kind of a random couple....

should i ask him?
and how?

2007-09-21 09:08:53 · 2 answers · asked by carsmithol 2

Okayyy...here are the facts:
I'm in highschool, I met this guy that's a couple years older than me, about a year ago (he's in highschool too).
We've hung out in the same group a couple times. The first time we went skiing and he helped me out the whole day 8). He's very gentlemen-like (holds doors open, etc).
I'm not cocky in the least, but have told that I'm extremely attractice, and am hit on by guys all the time...Although, I am UBER conservative, and have never even held hands with a guy before. The guy I'm talking about I like ALOT...he's kind of quiet, and from what I hear doesn't have much luck with girls. We talk on-line occasionally (intiated by him alot of the time)...He commented a picture of mine on-line saying that I was "beautiful".

BUTTTT, when I see him at school (which is rarely) it's super hard to tell if he's interested...He's really quiet, and I have to do the initiating in person. If he liked me back, wouldn't he put forth more effort?

2007-09-21 09:07:59 · 2 answers · asked by roo 1

BULLCRAP! he came back 3 yrs later and now its not working out!

2007-09-21 09:07:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

wouldnt life be easier if everyone told the truth in realtionships. Why does everyone think they have to find a way to let them down gently? It take less time to tell the truth and for them to get over it, than to find a way to let some one down gently. I personaly have wasted probably months maybe a total of a year going after girls to find out that they dont feel the same. Then when they do tell me the reason i get mad is that i have wasted my time on nothing.

2007-09-21 09:06:11 · 1 answers · asked by Jon G 7

but he likes me and every day he walks me to my bus and stuff and asks for a hug and when i'm like "uhhhh" he hugs me anyway every day and now people are starting to think we're going out and i reallly don't want that. how can i get him to back off without being mean?

2007-09-21 08:42:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would certainly not appreciate any responses of "move on" or anything of that sort. My ex treated me like crap when we were together. Now that he's in a new relationship he said that he's learned from a lot of his mistakes with me since I talked about it a lot after we broke up and has matured a lot, treating her better. Did he just not care when we were together? Or was relationship stuff quite new to him? He's in his early 20's by the way....

2007-09-21 08:40:55 · 18 answers · asked by g 3