I messed up things with a man, big time. We weren't friends first, we met pretty randomly. It started off pretty normally I guess , two people getting to know each other...I fell hard. I felt he liked me back. The problem is we are both very shy. The bigger problem is, I'm very insecure with myself. As time progressed I convinced myself I wasn't pretty enough, good enough, smart enough...I was way too shy and I let some good opportunities pass. I think he got tired of waiting and being unsure of my intentions, and got fed up with me.
Here's where it gets more complicated. We aren't close and we haven't spoken in about 3 months. But we see each other ALL the time. I think we both feel like there is this big unfinished business between us...we don't avoid each other, but there seems to be hurt and anger between us. I hate it.
With any other man I would have moved on. But I really like this man. I feel so bad about it all. How can a broken crush between strangers be fixed?
2007-09-21
12:51:50
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