we have been together for 9 months now and when he does say i love you i dont feel it. and the only time he say it is after i say it. he never say it fisrt. and i don't no how to tell him how i feel about it cuz when we got together we were not looking for love and well here it is and he is not the type of guy to say how is feels.
2007-09-21 12:54:44 · 12 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok well i only tell him once aw eek if that
2007-09-21 13:12:55 · update #1
i'm not all up in his face about anything if anything i give him all the time and space he needs cuz i love him and dont want to loose him. and it is just how do you no if he mens it or not
2007-09-21 13:17:06 · update #2
Does he SHOW you that he loves you at least?
Too many couples out there still together out of habit or convenience.
2007-09-29 12:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by I don't know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 9 months of dating, you guys must at least have some conversation if only about when you plan on seeing each other.You said he is not the type of guy to express his feelings. Did you know this when you started dating or not.if you did , then he may be one of those people who can't say I love you.But if you didn't , then a little talk may be in order.However, I will say to you that who utters the words first is not as important as the depth of their feelings and emotion for you.If you are sure of your guys love for you, then accept this as the part of the imperfection of humans and enjoy what you have.Evidently, since you guys have been together for nine months, you must have some deep feelings for each other.Unless there is more than what you have written, I will ask you to just accept the fact that your guy is not the romantic or the expressive type .
2007-09-21 13:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good that you're giving him space because a guy likes space and it's hard for them to show their feelings. After you guys say you love eachother ask him if he really means it and you'll be able to tell if he's being honest or just faking just by looking at his eyes.
2007-09-28 18:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by dAyLiTe_DaNcEr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why it is hard for him to say the word I LOVE YOU. Some guys are like that. They can't show affection. You will need to bring it out of him. It will take time.
2007-09-21 13:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea same here, i have been with this guy for almost a year now, and for the first time he said it to me first, but i didnt feel like he really meant it. somedays i think they only say it to make u feel good and i hate that kuz u most likely really do love him and he only says it to not hurt ur feelings....its just that thats how guys are
2007-09-21 13:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by emilyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop saying it so much and then it will get him to thinking .. sometimes men are stupid and dont have a clue.. so stop tryin to get him to do something that he dotn even really understaand..
justed say it once in awhile and then he will come around .. dont be all up in his face give him some space and then he will sart thinking does she love me .. aam i losing her .. then he will pull his head out of his *** and start saying it and showing it more..
2007-09-21 13:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel loved its time to go, whether its because you're insecure or he doesn't love you. if its insecurity you need to work on yourself before you can committ. if its him you need to move on.
You can't make someone love you and who wants someone who is so immature he can't express his feelings? Good luck to you.
2007-09-21 13:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Dawnmarie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Women have intuition and gut instincts for a reason. If you don't feel like he loves you, he doesn't.
Good luck!
2007-09-21 12:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him this question. But if you dont want to, just talk it out with him.
2007-09-21 12:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by WHO-DEY!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's hard to tell you if he love's you or not or how he feels so your gonna have to add detail !
then i'll send u a message on what he's doing to you !
2007-09-21 13:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋