Well, i've liked this girl for a while now, i met her 2 years ago. She is my bestiest friend. She is the most prettiest, nicest, funniest girl i've ever met. I think i am actually in love with her. I love talking to her and i talk to her a lot everyday. minutes turn to hours. I just cant express how much i like her. Only one person knows that i like her. That person is one of her best friends but she is also one of the most trustworthy people so she wont tell. She is also one of my best friends. I think she likes one of my friends (i hope not) but yea. I go to sleep thinking about her i dream about her i wake up, thinking about her. Should i tell her!? Before someone else gets her?! Telling people that is not that easy so please tell how! PLEASE I WILL DO ANYTHING! I don't want to ruin our friendship. She is one of the best people i've ever met, and i don't want to ruin that! should i just like never tell her!? or tell her soon?!
2007-09-21 12:50:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol sry i just wann figure this out quickly!
2007-09-21 12:56:34 · update #1
my best friend says a letter
2007-09-21 13:04:18 · update #2
Definitely tell her. If she likes you, then it will be all good. If she doesn't like you as a boyfriend (she obviously is your friend already), then it will be ackward and you may feel bad for a little while, but in the long run it will be better to know rather than to wonder what could have been.
Also, once you tell a girl your feelings and get over the intial anxiety, it will be SO MUCH EASIER the next time you need to do it (major confidence builder).
Good luck.
2007-09-21 12:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by JG 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down with her and tell her how much your friendship means to you. I don't know your ages, so My advice will not really be specific. If you are still in school, then I would tell her that you really appreciate her. Tell her you would like to do more things together. IF you are out of school, then ask her out on a date.
I believe that honesty and communication are the best things in any relationship. She may have the same feelings for you. If she doesn't, are you prepared to handle it? I would tell her that you consider her your best friend and you really appreciate her. See where it takes you from there. I wouldn't tell others to tell her. It is best to come from you. Talk to her and see how she feels. Be friends first for a while and see if it takes you to the next level. God Bless you.
2007-09-21 13:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are pretty hung up on this girl huh?
If she is a true friend then telling her how you feel won't ruin the friendship. If she feels the same then great. If she doesn't then it may be uncomfortable for a little while but you can get past it & stay friends.
2007-09-21 13:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step out of your comfort zone and tell her. There's nothing to fear. Life goes one. And you could end up on cloud 9 with a very special lady.
Go. Go now. Tell her.
2007-09-21 13:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by LindaLou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her. its one of those things that are very hard, so just do it!!! take the plunge. if she is as good of a friend as you say she is, then it wont ruin your friendship if you tell her you like her. and the liklyness taht she likes you back is pretty great since she is already a really close friend of yours!
2007-09-21 12:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by book worm 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ahh, that is really nice, i wish a guy would like me like that!
well, i think you should tell her even though its going to be hard for you, write her a letter telling her that, and express your feelings, but don't let everything out, and i hope she likes u back, i bet you are a great guy!
2007-09-21 12:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her. Right away! She may feel the same way as you do.
2007-09-21 12:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by penney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel about her and be real with her do not
play mind trick with her because lots of women see right thru
you.
2007-09-21 13:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, haven't u heard? redbull gives u wings
no. maybe u should tell her. but say this.
"i really like you, but if you don't feel that way, then we could still be friends."
but don't blow it up. remember redbull gives u wings
- mIsS ThAnG
DoIn' hEr ThAnG
2007-09-21 13:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its ur call....u still will probably be friends if u break up...but things might be awkward if she doesnt feel the same way....but after a while she will forget
2007-09-21 12:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋