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Have you ever said to yourself "I would really like him/her if he/she was thinner."? Like a crush or something.
I've never said it, but I'm wondering if this someone is thinking that about me.

Answer 1

i might have though it but it never stopped me from pursuing them

Answer 2

EVERY woman has self esteme issues...even models!!!

Yes it happens to many of us...but not all of us. Don't worry if you are a plus sized girl, there is someone just for U

There are so-called "chubby-lovers" out there, usually with chubby parent(s). I know this from personal experience.

In some cultures, chubby bodies are concidered attractive. Perhaps symbolizing "having enough to eat".

Some folks think fat guys are fun! Notice all the fat comics from John Candy to Chris Farley, and Homer Simpson & Jackie Gleason, to "King Ralph" & Rosie.

We would be taken aback by an over-weight Jesus, due to Hollywood's glorification of thin waistlines; but you notice the Buddists have no complaints about a large body.

It is good to eat health, for health's sake. Don't obsess about your weight. Life is what happens along the road to where you think you need to go!!!

Enjoy this day.

Answer 3

Hey, so you are dealing with weight issues huh? Me too, baby girl! Most women are. I have a new song out right now called Baby Phat. It's song to inspire women who may be thicker than others and what not. It's a cool song that all women can feel good about. It's already touched some hearts. We have to love ourselves. If you'd like to hear it, email me!

Here is a bit of the lyrics:

Start from the outside and bring on in,
It helps if you're thick, but you can do it if your thin,
Don't get me wrong, I'mma set the record straight,
This is for the girls that done gained a lil' wieght,
Now move, gone girl show me your thickness,
Now move, gone girl handle your business,
I love who you are,
I love where you're at,
Ain't nothing wrong with a lil' Baby Phat


[e-mail]

Answer 4

You shouldn't be asking yourself these questions because you are subconsiously bringing your self esteem down yourself. Do you really want to do that? If someone is going to like you it should be for the way you are now and not what you could be. If this "somebody" is asking himself that about you then in reality maybe he isn't worth your time no matter how gorgeous he may be. Don't waste away your life trying to be something your not. Because while your doing that your slowly losing site of who you really are.

Answer 5

If you're worrying that this person may be thinking that, you have self esteem issues of your own which may not be warranted.. talk about it with them in a not so direct way and see what vibe you get.. in any case, why would you want to hang out with someone THAT shallow.

Answer 6

I dont really crush on people that I think should be thinner, so no.

Answer 7

trust me i think about that all the time. but if you think about, if if a guy or girl doesn't like someone just because of how they look then they shouldnt be with them. it sucks not knowing what people are thinking about you but you just be yourself and be friendly they may like you back.

Answer 8

No If I like someone it doesn't matter if they are skinney or fat. Yes usually you got for looks first but in the long run it is personality

Answer 9

First, you need to ask yourself do I feel healthy? What is the use in being skinny if you don't feel healthy.

Answer 10

it is kinda shallow. im a girl and i do kind of think that..
but dont go anerexic!! beacuse i tryed that and all it did was get my in the hospital..kay bbydoll?

Answer 11

if someone is thinking that abt u, he is a jerk. i gained 15 kilos in 1year yet i had no problem in relationships and guys flirt me all the time...so i guess that's irrelevant...