Singles & Dating - 14 September 2007

ok well, i am a junior in high school. my question is, is there any certain way to i guess catch a guys attention and get him to talk to you? for example, at the movies, a party, the gym, a football game, school or any place? I just want to know how to meet a new guy and actually get him to talk to you...is there any way? Because I get looks from guys, but they never just walk up and talk to me why is that and how can i get them too because i really would like to meet a new guy!
**oh is it possible to randomly meet someone you dont know at all, you just see them, and if so how!? because ive been introduced to people but that is the only way i know of meeting someone. i know i am the girl so i cant walk up to a guy and start randomly talking...

2007-09-14 17:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend broke up with me about 3 months ago and wanted to stay friends. She's over me and likes someone else now. I try to be a good friend and listen to her talk about him and give her advice, but it's just so hard. I'm just tired of everything; tired of overanalyzing what she says and does, tired of constantly worrying about her liking others, tired of always thinking that I have a chance to get her back. It just seems so impossible. What if they start going out and their relationship will last 'til marriage and I'll never get a chance? I love her so much and I don't want to get all corny with cliche lines lines but I don't know. No simlie nor metaphor could ever come close as to describing her. She's just that wonderful. I'm only 15 and my grades are slipping. I don't want to be like this forever but apart of me just doesn't want to let go. In the end, if I stay by her side and comfort her during heartbreaks, will I eventually get her back?

2007-09-14 17:13:56 · 3 answers · asked by Damon C 1

A friend i consoled in while going through a divorce likes me now,but i see her as friend to me...What can i tell her that there are no real feelings for her or me?

2007-09-14 17:13:38 · 1 answers · asked by evrcdalite 2

I liked this guy named Brandon last year and he knew it but he was already going out with someone. He broke up with her over the summer but I never got the chance to go up and talk to him. Now they are back together but he acts like he likes me. Throwing grass im my hair at football games, talking to me more often than usual, sitting behind or beside me at the theatre, and staring at me. But the girl that he is going out with is kinda my friend now, so should I just ignore him or what? I'm not sure if I still like him like I use to and I don't want to ruin my friendship with the girl. So what should I do or am i worrying over nothing?

2007-09-14 17:12:18 · 11 answers · asked by BlAkElY_818 2

i hooked up with this guy twice and it turns out he had a gf and had lied to me. i ended things immediately and asked him why he cheated on his gf with me if he really likes her and he said "b/c i really wanted to hook up with you soo bad"

when i say hook up i mean make out intensely by the way,

so what exactly does that mean?

2007-09-14 17:09:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

google yourself? Just to see what comes up when you type in your own name?

2007-09-14 17:06:38 · 21 answers · asked by ? 6

his name was like :
you = MY hero, so i asked who his hero was, and he said a special someone.
-he asked me if there were any guys im my life.
-he said if i think really hard, i will figure out who he likes.
-he said their name starts with the same letter as mine does, and he also said i know them.
-everyday he comes on msn and says i saw you today..

i think its me, but it cant be, because i know them..but i dont technically know me..

HELP

2007-09-14 17:06:19 · 7 answers · asked by ain't nobody but me.. 2

Am I weird because, Im 19 and I have friends but most of the time I just want to stay home,I go out every once and a while ..but all my friends love to go out every night and party..Im just not into that scene...I dream of meeting a mature guy and getting married and having a home life...you know doing the laundry ,cooking,cleaning,grocery shopping going out to eat with my husband etc...just having a quiet married life and all my friends and family think im weird because of this...Do You..????

2007-09-14 17:03:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has already cheated on me. We are trying to work things out, but they keep chating with each other. I tried to explain to him that talking to her could lead to other things since they use to date.

2007-09-14 17:00:10 · 9 answers · asked by mary B 1

HELP! SHES SO HOT

2007-09-14 16:59:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

we had been dating for almost 4 years now, in the beginning he cheated on me really badly with a slut in china. this slut basically sleeps with anybody available to her in clubs and pubs regardless of their skin color. anyways, the whole situation drags along back and forth for almost 2 years. My bf finally get rid of her because that slut cheated on him and has been dating a Mexican for 4 months but lied that she has been going out and traveling with her "cousin".

after so many hazels, i found out that he had been checking other girls out on friendster by bookmarking a whole bunches of them and he added a few more each time he log into it.

further more, he won't talk to me in front of his family even it was just on the phone. he can't even call my name and it makes me feel like he is so ashamed to let others to know that he is with me. He told me that he is on my side and will be with me even though his family hated me so much. His sister even sent emails to threaten me!!!

2007-09-14 16:59:10 · 12 answers · asked by Shandi 1

would it bother u?would u be quicker to cheat?would u break up with her because of her past?

2007-09-14 16:47:09 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

How old would someone have to be to be classified as ugly if they didn't get asked out by that time.

2007-09-14 16:34:59 · 34 answers · asked by i_like_dinosaurs 2

theres this guy i like and he said he liked no one.
so what do i do to get him to go out with me!!
HHHHeellppp!!

2007-09-14 16:14:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

How would you comfort him, and what would you say to him?

2007-09-14 15:51:29 · 28 answers · asked by Elle . 2

i got my first part time job ever and i like this guy...he was being really nice to me at first cuz i was new..now i think its more than that..everytime i pass by he tickles or pokes me and he always asks me for hugs when he leaves and we talk a lot and he always smiles at me..does he like me? oooh ye we are both 17

2007-09-14 15:39:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wanna know what the best way to flirt with guys (in junior high)? i haven't had a bf that really counts for anything, so that's why i'm sort of clueless. i'm a shy person so don't say go up and hug him or anything random and weird like that. and before u say focus on school or something, i just want to say that i am a straight a student. plz help!

2007-09-14 15:25:27 · 5 answers · asked by puffinsbeak 2

There is a new boy in my class that i think is hot. I want to ask him out, but I'm not sure if he is gay or bi. What should I do.
btw neither me or him act like a stereotype girly gay guy.

Help. and answer me please!

2007-09-14 15:25:22 · 1 answers · asked by Geeky Lizzard King Fish 1

Wow...you sound quite busy, eh? I enjoyed your letter and love to share my time with you even though I am crazy busy with some homework everyday if I am available. It is interesting to find out you're a sort of writer. I like writing while I do not have skills of writing a novel, haha... I have a friend of mine, who is from French and she is my best friend here. I am not a huge pal for chocolate, but love to taste chocolate croissants that I have never tasted if you take me to the place you like. Who knows if I will be addicted to it. I can appreciate cappuccino there if I don't like your favourite chocolates/chocolate. Plus, we can pretend to look like French couple kissing the chocolates, lol...

The job you are doing now sounds very interesting to me, I think, as I have never done those things in my life. I look forward to seeing you and some pictures of your work. Take it easy imagining of kissing me when you are free

2007-09-14 15:19:24 · 5 answers · asked by Sky 2

Cuz damn I'm allways thinking about it (horny 14 year old), but I'm worried that I'm gonna be spending all my time looking forward to it but then when it actually happens I'll be dissapointed.. Is it better than masterbation or what? I know it's a bad question but who else am I gonna ask.

2007-09-14 15:07:27 · 28 answers · asked by Alex S 1

2007-09-14 15:03:52 · 20 answers · asked by Lazarus 1

i was thinking if i did build a bear and put a special message in it b/c i like my best guy friend and his friends say he likes me. would that be too unmanly? (i would drop it off at his house so none of his friends would know) or would you rather something else???

2007-09-14 14:55:06 · 1 answers · asked by rave_runner 2

My bf was rediculously accused of child abuse back in April. He was accused of child abuse and arrested, now he is facing court trial. The kids, he can only see under professional supervision. I know that all this is a bad, traumatic thing. But since then, he has lost his job and just sits around feeling sorry for himself. It effects our relationship as he never wants to go anywhere, or even be with me because he is too depressed. He won't even go to church with me. I know I should be supportive and I have been, but it's been 5 months! I just feel so lost and hurt because I take it personal that he won't spend time with me, or as much time as I want to spend with him. I don't know how to help him, and have pretty much decided that I can't continue like this as I have needs and desires and they have been on hold this whole time. Is this wrong of me? I love him and we planned on getting married some day. What should I do. He knows how I feel, but he says, if I can't deal, then oh wel

2007-09-14 14:54:47 · 17 answers · asked by nursejuley 1

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She's not a best friend, but we see each other often and I've been invited to hang out with her a couple times. I've had a crush on this guy for a while, but for various reasons, I haven't totally acted on it besides talking to him when I see him. A few weeks ago, I got a hunch they like each other, but a few days ago, it was pretty clear to me that she likes him. I was told that they had been out two times. At parties and activities that we as a group of friends do, I noticed that the sit by each other and talk to each other a lot. I don't know the extent of the relationship, cause I didn't want to ask yet. I thought it would be a little weird to go straight to one of them and ask just in case one of them kinda has figured out that I like him. Is it all right to straight up and ask one of t

2007-09-14 14:49:04 · 6 answers · asked by gem2477 3

I've tried talking to my boyfriend and I get no where. I asked him if it's me and he says no. We dont have sex that often but it's not that i wount put out i guess we just dont have sex. Maybe once or twice a week. I have been catching him looking at porn on the internet and dvd's. I dont mind if he masturbates. I just dont like that he does it to porn. I tried the password thing on my computer, but he gets threw that. And taken his porn away is like hell it's self. I just want him to quit masturbating to porn. It makes me feel like I'm not what he wants nor likes. He says that isn't ture, but for some reason I feel like there is still something he doesn't like about me. We use to have sex everyday and that slowly died which i exspected, but now we rarely have it and he's always masterbating. Even on the days we have sex, and I know he goes when we have sex. So how do I get him to stop? He knows how I feel about it. And it's anal porn, we use to do that but it hurts.

2007-09-14 14:47:35 · 20 answers · asked by kayla e 1

I cant help it. I even have the evil intention to try and win them over sometimes but I force myself to back off.

2007-09-14 14:06:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

The lights are out, did you here that !?????

2007-09-14 13:57:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was just wondering to see if there is a normal ammount!

2007-09-14 13:45:50 · 13 answers · asked by Maddy 2

but i'm afriad he'll be a maniac and will harrass, but any guy can do that. He said he loves me and he seems really nice. Should I meet him??

2007-09-14 13:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by softball26 1

2007-09-14 13:36:26 · 27 answers · asked by whodeene 1