Singles & Dating - 14 September 2007

I know he doesn't like me and no one told him to do it. He even got in trouble for me today. We both are in 7th grade and the consequences are very harsh at our school. Why would he do something like that? Does he like me? And yes, we do talk a lot and play around after school.

2007-09-14 13:34:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alrighty, here's the story.
I met this guy named joshua. He's so sweet and really cute. Im so shy and don't really know how to start up a conversation. Today he asked me if me and my friend to sit with him at lunch, because we both know him. I can't tell if he likes me or my friend. my friend is more experienced with guys but insists she can tell he likes me not her, but i think otherwise because i personally don't think im that pretty even though they always tell me i am. a guy called me ugly a few months ago. i mean i never really thought i was that pretty, and other guys have called me ugly before and it really hurts my self esteem. ( i have medium blonde hair and bluish eyes, freckles. ) He is also a bit shy i think, but it also seems he approaches me more when my friend is around, but he talks to me more than he talks to her. Help anyone? im confused.
( PS ) I really want to him to ask me to homecoming but he's shy and my self esteem is still low, and im afraid he won't ask

2007-09-14 13:26:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

And I'm feeling angry, betrayed and ashamed. Not because I felt like I was cheated on, but I was made the "other girl" without my f***ing KNOWLEDGE. I'd gladly beat the crap out of this guy if I could find him at the moment.

I don't think his girlfriend knows right now. Should I explain to her myself of what's been going on, or should I let her find out on her own- which I DON'T want to do? I also want to know how to save face during this VERY embarassing and trying time of my life, since I might be villified even though I didn't know anything until it was too late.

2007-09-14 13:17:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is through his stomach? LOL

I know that sounds corny, but does it hold any water? If I made my crush something yummy, would he appreciate it or just think I'm weird?

2007-09-14 13:14:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so don't judge me here, if thats what your here to do then GET THE HELL OUT NOW! Ok now that thats over with i need some help. I'm 15 in my sophomore year of high school and theres a guy in my class thats amazing. But hes very touchy, i mean like he always has to be touching me, in one of the two classes i have with him its only like sitting next to me and harmless stuff like that but in the other class its like grabbing my *** kind of stuff. I mean it doesn't bug me terribly because hes always messing around with me, and he doesn't go farther then that, but Ive had a few ppl tell me that it makes me look like a , does it? And how do i get him to stop if it does?

2007-09-14 13:06:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

There this guy I really like he has a girlfriend but he always looks at me. He is mean when it comes to sports and mean when I say something to him. But the first day of school he was just plain staring. I really really like him it might even be love he is just so hot!!!! He lives 3 doors down. He is a goofy guy. Smart. Has sorta longish hair. Short but that's okay. THe bad thing is is that he is popular and I'm not. SO I"m just curios do u ppl think that he lives me or not please help me I have been strugling with this for 2 years know. Thanks and please if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it at all.

2007-09-14 13:04:21 · 3 answers · asked by sweetsweetsweetie 2

When you start to date a girl do you feel like talking to her like....24/7 or do ya just like to say hi every once in a while?I've been dating this guy for 2 days and I'm trying not to be to clingy.

2007-09-14 13:02:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend Andy is super super nice. I know him from church, and I hang out with him at church softball practices. I see him at school every day, and whenever I see him he waves at me or gives me a hug. Usually I see him in the choir room and he gives me a big hug. Today, I gave him a side hug, and he moved me and put his hands on my shoulders and said, "No way, I want a big front hug!" And he gave me a HUGEEE hug.

I really really like him, but I always see him with some other chicks and friends. I've known him for about 2 years and his brother [who doesn't remember me >:|] for around 8. He usually tries to randomly start a conversation, and twice he's jacked my fone [once he gave me his number :)]. He's always touching me or playing with my hair. Do you think he likes me?

2007-09-14 12:59:34 · 12 answers · asked by Kim 2

I have been dating this guy who I love very much and he asked me to be his gf just last Friday and three days later he broke it off with me. We were getting pretty serious and both very much into each other. I am crushed and don't understand why this is happening. He said it is nothing I did he just wants to re-think things....so sad

2007-09-14 12:46:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

and i feel that shes tryin 2 break us up by tell him that she saw me all over this boy which is such a lie!! he said hes not trippin over it but i can c that hes upset about it i dnt knw wat 2 say 2 my boyfriend 4 him 2 believe me help! plz!

2007-09-14 12:45:16 · 15 answers · asked by jody r 1

a guy camr in to my store and bought a phone. he was very nice but i didnt find him a attractive. he would call my store once a week and we would talk he asked me out on a date for tonight. the only thing is i feel like im doing something wrong by getting his hopes up. what do you think? how would you feel if you where told after a date i just want to be friends?

2007-09-14 12:45:08 · 10 answers · asked by esther h 2

im in high school an i been a freshman for about 3 weeks but what is homecomin [i heard its a dance an a football game] but wut is it tho......
like whats the point of it or wut cuz i dont know

2007-09-14 12:40:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are guys attracted to all women with big breasts- even if they are ugly? (I mean- if the girl has an ugly or plain face but has DD cup breasts- will the guy be attracted to her?) Or what if the girl has a waist that is not much smaller than her hips and boobs- will the guy still be attracted to her if she has big breasts?

2007-09-14 12:34:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i feel like im in such a hard place right now. idk if im even dating this guys but anyways....he treats me like im his personal assitant...like, calling me and asking me to look up a # or something ridiculous like that. i like him and all and in school we're definite really good friends and him and i have no problem talking. now im going to sound like idc about what i just said and say that i want to date him, but idk how especially since idk if he feels the same way!!! please help me!!! :)

2007-09-14 12:34:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your 6 mth pregnant and engaged and live apart. You only see him 2-3 nights/mornings a week cause he works as a care worker with night schedules and since Fri morn you saw him Tuesday 9pm till 1pm following day then not at all (he doesn't text or phone as he says he's skint so you have to) then next time he's free is Thursday but he goes to mates cos he says no money for petrol for you. Then next free nigt is Saturday and Fri night can't even tell you if he's free. He says has to go see his cousin then maybe after I can travel and stay at his. He then says we can def see each other Sun...he can come about 4 straight after work if I cook sunday dinner as he's got three offers, sunday dinner at work, siunday dinner at pub or mine...how would you feel?

2007-09-14 12:33:16 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom caught my boyfriend and I having sex. I'm not allowed to see him and neither is he. I love him and I'm not sure what to do. Help! I don't want this to be the end....

2007-09-14 12:32:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 3 years is losing interest in me. What do that mean he found somebody else? Someone please get back at me or email.

2007-09-14 12:29:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok theres this dude he chats a lot with me on ms but i notice he chats with othe girls too

im starting to like him but idk if he likes me or he just likes to hang out with girls i like him but idk what the hell to do im just friggen bord and nead help

2007-09-14 12:19:08 · 1 answers · asked by $$$ 2

I really like a man who's about 15 years older than I am. (I'm in my mid-30s.) I'm afraid that flirting techniques that were successful with men around my age won't fly with this guy. He's highly successful and very smart (very nice too), but we're in a rather awkward work situation, and I don't think he'll make the first move. I'd like to let him know it's OK to make a move, but I don't want him to feel uncomfortable. I'm really at a loss as to how to go about this. :) Any tips? What should I do???

2007-09-14 12:19:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

everytime me and my bf go to have sex,,,, it KILLS and hes not really even in me.... is there any way to losen up or prepare to make it less painful??

we've tried like 3 times... we havent gone thru with it yet...

2007-09-14 12:16:09 · 9 answers · asked by Mia S 2

2007-09-14 12:12:34 · 7 answers · asked by just bees and things and flowers 2

Why is it when you treat a guy really good, He ends up screwing you over it's happened to me a lot lately. My last bfeven said I treated him batter than all of his ex girlfriends but he ended up hitting on my best friend while I was under the same roof...mostly I wind up getting cheated on....I've never cheated on any guy before in my life in I'm never going to. But I'm tried of being THE Nice girl who they mess with just for the fun of it.
I mean do you guys like girls who cheat on you in treat you bad? Cause I'm really starting to wounder.

I'm 17, 5'3. I have brown curly hair, hazel eyes, In I weigh 105 I am also curvy....IS there something wrong with that I need to changed. I'm also still a Virgin which I'm trying to stay true at least till I graduate, So No I'm not easy!

I've been told I'm fun to be around and I have a good pleasantly all by guys...yet the **** me over in the long hall...IS it something I'm doing? I mean do I need to start being a *****? To guys?

2007-09-14 12:03:10 · 9 answers · asked by Sara D 3

My best friend is home for the weekend from college the same weekend that I am home. The last time I was home I hung out with her!

I tried to call her 3 times today to see if she wanted to hang out and catch a movie before 9. She never picked up and i left her 3 voice mails!

I'm staying at my boyfriends tonight and tomorrow night hence the reason I asked to see her before nine. She FINALLY called me back at 6:00 P.M. and asked if we could hang out at 8. I explained to her how I tried to call her and how I'm seeing my boyfriend!

She got VERY ANGRY and told me I could just spend tomorrow with him and how she was insulted that I wasn't spending time with her and How I wouldn't be able to see her again until the beginning of October!

WHY IS SHE GETTING SO UPSET??

2007-09-14 12:02:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I reeli lyk this guy, we hav been reeli guiis friends 4 sum tym nuw, and get on reeli well whn in eachuthas company! We r reeli flirty when 2getha and can tok 2 eachotha buwt anithing! I reeli lyk him and think he feels the same way, we wurk 2getha and he woks me home everynyt, even tho its miles away from his house! Shud I make the 1st move or him? im scared incase he doesnt feel the same way! help!!! i reeli lyk him...

2007-09-14 11:56:10 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I become super turned on if an attractive woman starts groping my face or gives my cheeks a playful tug.. I don't know why that is..but the few times that has happened, let's say I "pitched a tent" right away! I don't know if most guys share this reaction when a woman does this to them.

2007-09-14 11:52:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay...I'm 22 years old, and I'm just getting back from Iraq. When I get back, I plan to get together with a girl I use to work with before I joined the service. I knew her for about a year, and then I left. I haven't seen her in about 3 years...but we've been chatting quite frequently. Anyway, she seems really experienced, judging by her blogs...she is pretty excited that I'm coming back. I don't even know if anything is going to happen between her and I...but if it does, I think I'm doomed. I'm a virgin, and I'm wondering if I should let her know before the "relationship" goes any further, or even starts. I want to tell her, but again, she seems more experienced and would probably not be interested in me then. What should I do?

2007-09-14 11:45:07 · 24 answers · asked by PianoMan 1

Ive had some sex experience and Im 18, but no matter how many time me & my man have sex, I cant seem to have an orgasm. Ive tried the positions and extercises in cosmo, but they dont seem to work!! What are some ideas that can help me. ????

2007-09-14 11:36:22 · 6 answers · asked by Aness 2

Most people I know have a lot of drama in their relationships, which baffles me in my 30's. Is it the excitement and heightened emotions? What is it? I am very laid back and very little gets to me. I feel boring in comparison. I think people should be free to be themselves and if you click, great. If not, move on. Life isn't that serious, so what is up with all the drama, seriously? I see it all the time. Fights out of nothing, crazy insecurities...you name it. Is it just our society today? I am really curious.

2007-09-14 11:30:33 · 1 answers · asked by shoegal0675 2

My boyfriend is in the marines. I met him threw my older brother because they were stationed togeather. Well me and him been going out for 5 months now. I fell in love with him so fast because of we have alot in common and in fact hes the one who said he loved me first. I never really felt this way about a guy and never thought i could fall in love so fast and have love for someone this much in 5 months. Hes comming to visit me in a month because hes stationed out out of the country and is stayin with me for 5 days and is going back for another 2 years. I would go and visit him but u have a huge fear of flying. I think about this every night on whats gonna happen with me and him because i wont be able to see him for 2 years and hes 3 years older then me and it really hurts because i love him so much...I just need an opinon on what to do or advice on that. Because im really hurting from thinking about that

2007-09-14 11:23:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-14 11:15:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous