Singles & Dating - 10 September 2007

today he asked me about my past... like when i masterbated , who did i think about. i responded with no one. because i dont actually think about a specific person. i think of the act of having sex, but not a specific person. and he didnt believe me. he said that he only believed 50%. and that its my conscience.
now i feel bad , sad, i just feel like crying. he left my house without saying bye or anything. i didnt even do anything wrong.i tried to talk to him , but he just thinks people HAVE to think of someone to masterbate. i know i dont.
what should i do?
any advice?

ive been with him a year.

2007-09-10 18:43:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been intimate with a really good guy friend of mine for the past few weeks... it was never agreed on as friends with benefits, but thats what i thot it was. now... i'm really starting to fall for him. he is the sweetest, nicest, funniest, most down-to-earth guy i've ever met, and i think i'm really interested in him.

his ma knows how much i like him and says that i should just say something to him. but i'm so scard that i'll tell him how much i like him and that i'd rather date him then just be "extra special friends".

should i tell him and risk him rejecting me all together and then i won't have anything to do with him anymore (although it could be that he shares those feelings and that he likes me too). i'm just not sure...

should i say something? would u (as a guy) want a girl to tell u how she feels? and how should i bring it up?

2007-09-10 18:28:20 · 7 answers · asked by Proud mommy of Logan! <3 3

2007-09-10 18:13:25 · 3 answers · asked by EVY 1

i had 3 sex partners: 1: female ex girlfriend, 2: onenight stand w/ femal stripper, 3. recieved oral from a transexual. I also been with other females and just did kissing and touching, no sex: oral nor vaginal. i also been addicted to hardcore porn, but havent watched in months.

if i ever meet special female in life, and want to married her and be faithful, should i tell her about my past??
or maybe, i should not try to find real love in my life, since im so ashamed about my past, there is no way i can tell anyone, except God.

2007-09-10 17:52:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently started college, and I don't get along with girls very well, so I've mostly been trying to make friends with guys. I don't want to go out with them, I simply find guys more easygoing and much easier to deal with on a daily basis (no offense to the other girls out there).

However, my boyfriend is still in highschool. When we talk about our day, I usually have some funny stories about my guy friends. He doesn't *seem* to get jealous, but I don't act jealous when *he* talks to other girls either, and really I'm like churning inside. So I know how it makes me feel... should I stop talking about them? We're pretty serious, and I don't want to cause him pain if I don't need to.

What do you think? If this is something I should do, I'd have no problem doing it if it would help our relationship. Should I talk to him about it?

2007-09-10 17:52:31 · 15 answers · asked by avacado pie 4

One of my guy friends told me recently to ask him anything. So, I asked him a rather personal thing about his past which ended up being very hurtful to him. He told me what happened in great detail. Since telling me this he has been pushing me away and acting funny towards me. We were just starting to get to know each other pretty well before I asked him about it. What do you think of me emailing him this?

By the way, is everything else okay (yep it's the standard girl talk)? You've seemed quiet lately despite my efforts to make you smile (even at my own expense). If the question thing bugged you, I'm sorry if it was too much, sometimes curiousity really does kill the cat. If you haven't noticed, I'm the type of person who likes to hear about other people's experiences good or bad, it's not my job to judge anyone and I have no intentions of sharing it with anyone. What is said stays between us. If anything, I'd hope that it makes us better friends because of it.

2007-09-10 17:52:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend who I've been with for 4 years is out of the country at the moment. While he's been away he has been spending a lot of time with a female friend of his. We got into an argument about it because I thought he was spending entirely too much time with her. He said I had no reason to worry. So I called his friend and asked her what the deal was and she told me she didn't think I was good enough for him and she just wanted what was best for him. (she's known him 2 months) She said that he told her he was only with me because he was afraid I would kill myself if he left me. He admitted to saying that but he said it was only because she was filling his head with bullshit. Should I leave him for what he said and being an egotistical jerk or should I stay with him because he says he loves me? I do love him. I am very confused.

2007-09-10 17:49:31 · 7 answers · asked by ღFreakin Fantasticღ 3

2007-09-10 17:44:17 · 20 answers · asked by electrode e 2

a girl was on the phone talking to a boy.. the boy had to go and he said "good night, i love u"
girl: "me too"
boy:ok bye
girl:bye
***********************************************************************

boy calls again
girl:hello?
boy:"i love u"
girl:"i love u too"
boy:"bye
girl:''bye"

2007-09-10 17:37:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My honest opinion is , very rarely do I find glasses attractive on someone.

That is just my honest opinion. (Sorry)

2007-09-10 17:36:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I FEEL SO DEPRESSED! i have never had a real boyfriend. where he calls me his woman or his girlfriend you no? but ive had 3 long time relationships and few short ones where the man would take me out places & flaunt me like a diamond ring as if i was a prize hed won, bragging to all his friends & making me meet them. i do everythin for him. i wash his clothes iron his work clothes make his drinks cook him food play with his hair scratch his back massage him have sex w. him sleep in his bed night after night, & if i wasnt working i was with him. but heres the catch, i am never there "girlfriend" just a home girl! why do all men treat me like this? am i not good enough to be there woman? & they always try to spend money on my & buy me things as if to justify it. & im always their main chic but i no they mess around with other woman, i guess thats y they like to not have me as their girlfriend so they can be with many woman. i feel so used y cant i find a good man to treat me right? :(

2007-09-10 17:35:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I guess it is not the Automatic Teller Machine. lol

2007-09-10 17:30:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-10 17:21:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together for about a year. I've been pressing the issue of him telling his wife that he's unhappy and leaving...He keeps telling me 'soon, soon, soon'. But that "soon"date, or tomorrow, never comes. I love him deeply and am beginning to think all I ever meant to him was a sexual fantasy. Am I just a fool? Please help! Opinions from married men themselves, greatly appreciated too.

2007-09-10 17:19:55 · 16 answers · asked by 2much_luvin' 1

Will you always make time (or at least a conscious effort), to talk to/see/be with a "potential girlfriend" or someone that you are interested in, even when you're swamped with work/school/responsibilities?
If you only contact her every so often, does it necessarily mean you are stringing her along and have no desire to be with her?

2007-09-10 17:18:31 · 5 answers · asked by Princess_LOLA 2

get married or anything like that, I am just looking for us to spend more time together". And he said, "MARRIAGE ISN'T NECESSARILY A BAD THING". What does this mean? Could this mean he is interested in marrying me? We have been together for about 8 months and are very close. We are in our late 20's.
What do you think???

2007-09-10 17:06:42 · 8 answers · asked by J 1

2007-09-10 17:06:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister and her boyfriend broke up recently. and my sisters boyfriend told me a bunch of stuff about why they broke up and who he dumped her for. Anyhow should I tell my sis about this stuff I know?

on one hand he told me not to tell, but on the other she should know about this stuff.

What should I do?

2007-09-10 16:53:27 · 24 answers · asked by Jeff J 1

some women agree to sex., but after starting they whisper softly "no "..some of them really mean it " they firmly state :STOP ! or NO ! ..but what about those who say "no honey hehehe" or - baby stop it tickles maybe im not ready yet ".....

dont we all know a girl /woman who says 'no' while we kiss-touch-caress. and she gets 'dis-appointed if we stop ? Ive even had a girl ask" why did u stop ? when i replied .."coz u said no ' ...she answered back.... I didn't really mean NO!

IS "NO" just a clever way to have a defense later if she gets busted by spouse or a bf..she'll be able to say " i told him no- but he keept going.."

Should the Law be changed ? once 2 ppl agree to sex - done deal ! no rape charges-if 1 partner has a change of mind'..

2007-09-10 16:48:19 · 8 answers · asked by billybadazz 3

Do u guys like it when a girl goes up to u and asks u out or do u like it when someone comes up and asks for them OR would u rather go up and ask the girl urself?

2007-09-10 16:47:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

not just 'goodnight' or 'sweet dreams' whats somethin really sweet to say?

2007-09-10 16:43:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you came early from school but forgot to tell your mom that today was an early day and as soon as you walk in the livingroom you find your mom in the bed with another guy and another girl kissing and making out what would you do? PLEASE BE HONEST!!!

2007-09-10 16:21:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been really shy & have had some slight depression/social anxiety forever...comes from a history of overbearing, perfectionist parents who are highly accomplished & nearly impossible to live up to.

All that aside, I don't think I'm beautiful, but don't think I'm ugly. I've never had a b/f & I'm 21. Given that I've always been shy (& have recently been putting A LOT of effort into breaking out of the metaphorical "shell"), I still don't have a lot of friends and I'm obviously not the "clubbing" type (I'm pre-med).

How do I meet worthwhile guys? How about just good-looking guys who can be in a casual relationship (no, I don't mean sex)? Guys NEVER approach me...ok, well some do but they're usually *under* my league/the kind of guys who would never dream of approaching even ave-looking girls, yet think they have a chance w/ me b/c I'm shy. It kills my confidence...
I wanna meet a great guy, but I have like 5 friends or something....plus I don't wanna be the one to ask...

2007-09-10 16:13:58 · 7 answers · asked by abby j 5

ok, this may seem shallow, but im actually doing this to save a few girls' feelings. i really like all three of them actually but they all have their pros and cons. i selected the one i like best. what do i tell the other girls? i would still be interested in going out with them if this relationship doesn't last.

2007-09-10 16:12:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-10 16:02:06 · 22 answers · asked by 2qt4u 2

I know you shouldn't if you can help it but at what point does it become acceptable for you?

This is meant to be subjective to those that answer.

2007-09-10 16:00:28 · 6 answers · asked by seventhyearfalling 2

My girlfriend messed pretty bad up in the past. I found out from a friend and confronted her at the time. She fessed up, appologised, wishes she could take it back, and wants to move on.

I'd like to move on but I keep hearing inconsistant details about what she did and I'll ask her about it and she'll lie, deny it, or dodge it. She doesn't want to tell me everything... she wants me to accept the general nature of it and move on.

I want her to be completely 100% honest about everything that happened. I do love her but I need to trust her to continue with the relationship.

Months later It bothers me to think that there's still more to the story. It feels unfinshed. Everytime I bring it up, she gets mad and tells me to just move on. If I don't drop it starts a fight.

Do I accept it that it's been dealt with and move on? Or is my need for closure justified? I don't want it to happen again but I don't want to drive her away either. Any opinions?

2007-09-10 15:56:24 · 14 answers · asked by dia0s 2

So i was gonna ask this girl to hang out but what would i follow-up with if she said "yes"? (also, she has a boyfriend so is this kind of cheating?)

2007-09-10 15:54:09 · 11 answers · asked by John 1

If guys think she's pretty w/make-up....And I think she's pretty in the morning w/out make-up....Who is right? Me or the guys...Remember this question is from my guy...not me

2007-09-10 15:42:01 · 19 answers · asked by karens lovinlife 6

Everytime i smoke some pot she goes crazy as if i cheated on her. come on i'm addicted to the street, what can i do? i love her but why do she care about what i'm doing and my health and shizz?

2007-09-10 15:40:05 · 12 answers · asked by Jonathon R 1