One of my guy friends told me recently to ask him anything. So, I asked him a rather personal thing about his past which ended up being very hurtful to him. He told me what happened in great detail. Since telling me this he has been pushing me away and acting funny towards me. We were just starting to get to know each other pretty well before I asked him about it. What do you think of me emailing him this?
By the way, is everything else okay (yep it's the standard girl talk)? You've seemed quiet lately despite my efforts to make you smile (even at my own expense). If the question thing bugged you, I'm sorry if it was too much, sometimes curiousity really does kill the cat. If you haven't noticed, I'm the type of person who likes to hear about other people's experiences good or bad, it's not my job to judge anyone and I have no intentions of sharing it with anyone. What is said stays between us. If anything, I'd hope that it makes us better friends because of it.
2007-09-10 17:52:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cont'd:
Your brudda told me a long time ago that you like to keep to yourself so if I ever step outside the boundaries, don't be afaid to say so.
Please tell me if I should just drop it or take out something or send it as is?
2007-09-10 17:52:53 · update #1
If you can, stop mentioning it again and just stay as if you never heard that. He probably don't want to talk about it if it hurt him very much. Good luck!
2007-09-10 18:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is a jerk. if he says to ask you anything he shouldnt have treated you like that i think you shouldnt hang around him like that because he must be going through something and he doesnt want you involved i guess.
2007-09-11 01:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by D'M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have done what you can. It will be up to him to get past whatever you both talked about.
2007-09-11 00:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋