today he asked me about my past... like when i masterbated , who did i think about. i responded with no one. because i dont actually think about a specific person. i think of the act of having sex, but not a specific person. and he didnt believe me. he said that he only believed 50%. and that its my conscience.
now i feel bad , sad, i just feel like crying. he left my house without saying bye or anything. i didnt even do anything wrong.i tried to talk to him , but he just thinks people HAVE to think of someone to masterbate. i know i dont.
what should i do?
any advice?
ive been with him a year.
2007-09-10 18:43:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He needs to get over it. I don't think of anyone either, just the space I get in when I'm doing it.
2007-09-10 18:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sarina77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he insists a person has to think of someone that must mean he is thinking of someone. Your boyfriend is an idiot and he is treating you like dirt. He wanted to hurt you and he did. What you need to do now is stop crying and let him know youre not going to put up with his infantile crap. If he wants to be miserable fine but do not let him drag you down. Tell him to grow up and be a man or youre gonna find someone else to be with. If he treats you so shabbily over something so petty then he will treat you worse over important issues.
2016-05-17 04:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, sometimes i play with myself because its just a habit that i do when im by myself, because it just feels good to do it or relieves stress; or in bed with my gf. And yes im thinking of her, i really want to go all the way with her, but most of the time its just a fantasy at the time, and i figure out in my mind what all im gonna do.
2007-09-10 18:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by ejostrom07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he make such a big deal out of that? He's got issues. Get out as soon as you can because he's not mature enough for a relationship.
2007-09-10 18:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to feel less bad about when he may think of other girls when he masterbates and thought that if you did it too then iut wouldnt feel as bad in his conscience. he may have ben pissed cuz it didnt make him feel beeter cuz you dont think of anyone else so hes in deniel. its not you its him dont worry he just annoyed.
2007-09-10 18:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lie shamelessly.
Tell him you think of him, or of some famous celebrity.
You shouldn't have to lie.... but if he is going to act like a child, you might as well meet him halfway.
2007-09-10 18:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he used this excuse to get out of the relationship
2007-09-10 18:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by touchdown_rams05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tink get over him...he is just finding excuses to leave u...why dun he ask u the question when u 2 1st started the relationship.why now then he ask.. i find ridiculous...u should get over him dump him n find urself a better bf...
2007-09-10 19:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Chris Chu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really has some growing up to do ...dont worry he will get over it,,you should of said that you think of him...
2007-09-10 19:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by jack jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He is rude and disrespectful. You deserve better.
2007-09-10 18:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋