Singles & Dating - 3 September 2007

Tell me your thoughts for and against, and experiences....

2007-09-03 10:37:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so theres this guy and he is 17. i really really like him but im only about to turn 16. i specifically told him i will not have sex with him at least till im 18 or if i was ever to marry him and he is okay with that. He is a very decent person and understands me really well. He does have and past and he did drop out of school but he went back and got his GED, and now he is going to college to be a nurse. Im willin to give him a chance but my parents dont want to give him a chance. I do understand their side and agree with them in a lot of ways, but i still want them to give him a chance. tell me what u think? i am being completely honest cause i need answers. i make strait a's in school, i plan to be a neonatal nurse, i dont like to lie, i have never snuck out, and i have morals that i follow. i am not who i am cause anybody wants me to be this way. I am the way i am because i choose to be this way. I dont understand why my parents dont trust me with this guy and it breaks my heart that they dont cause they have no reason not to. i really want to be with this guy. he treats me right and makes me feel important. someone tell what to say to my parents????

2007-09-03 10:28:32 · 3 answers · asked by rare but true 1

Okay, before I ask this, I'm not bragging, I'm no sex god and I certainly don't think I'm god's gift to womankind. This is not an ego thing. But...

I think I'm a fairly average looking guy, with a reasonable personality, and I'm not rich. For some reason though I always find that it's easier to hook up with women who are better looking and more attractive than me. The ones who I think are about my level are never interested in me, as they always seem to have incredibly high standards.

I'm certainly not complaining, but what the hell is going on here?

My theory is that the gorgeous girls are used to arrogant meatheads hitting on them, they've seen it all before and aren't impressed, so they like it when a more honest, down to earth guy has the courage to approach them. The average looking girls on the other hand want great looking guys because they have a more rose-tinted idea of what they're going to get.

What does anyone else think?

No abuse please!

2007-09-03 10:16:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-03 10:10:53 · 23 answers · asked by lala 1

2007-09-03 09:59:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy online over a year ago. We didn't meet in person until a couple months of chatting on the phone due to various reasons. When we met, it was perfect. We weren't like strangers. It was as if we knew eachother for years because of all of the phone calls. Our first date was perfect and it ended with a 20 minute kiss. A week later we got together again, and lets just say that for the 5 hours that we were together, 4 of those hours our faces were pressed against eachothers. Perfect.
but it all went downhill from there. His ex started reading our emails to one another and started some probs. My best friend, whom I don't talk to anymore, started emailing him rudely. These ppl really caused probs for us and we haven't seen eachoter since our 2nd date 7 mths ago. but we still talk now 7 then. he wants to gived it another try, and i did too, but come to find out his 2 best friends of 20 years, whom i've never met, are against us gettin 2gether and talk crap about me. it will never

2007-09-03 09:57:17 · 10 answers · asked by sephia 1

i met this guy but since then we have only talked on myspace, i kno he likes me because i told him and he told me he liked me too, but afterwards i had no idea what to say that i completely changed the subject and hes shy with the girls he likes, which is me is there anything i can do to make him talk more or so he can express his feelings for me...any tips

2007-09-03 09:46:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I didn't think she was going to find out but she did. She is willing to give me another chance though. Should I let her give me another chance?

2007-09-03 09:35:16 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous

but had no idea it would seriously upset, how do Imake it up to this guy , eg if Id known we were serious.I would have called ...........this guy seriously rocks my whole world .Iwant to live with him again ,how do you make up to a guy?

2007-09-03 09:31:55 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-09-03 09:30:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i sent this guy a mesage on myspace asking him to get together sometime, he replied that same day with "yeah, lets get together sometime" a couple days later i sent him another message asking him when, he replied with "well,i have to work thrus, fri, and sat, and I have softball tonight but I will be out after call me if you want"and left his number.so i called him left a message and two days later he replied with a myspace message apologizing for missing my call and said we would plan something for later in the week.am I being played?

2007-09-03 09:21:35 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1

Im male, 18 and really skinny. It makes me feel really self conscious :(

2007-09-03 09:16:27 · 5 answers · asked by Answerer 1

I have known this guy for 4 years, he said he always wanted to ask me out. we went away for the weekend together. the thing is i wanna know if it just means sex to him.

the thing is i know that he is romantic, just he wasn't particularly with me. not in words anyway. in actions, he bought me a little present, he's trying to get me to do things with his friends more, he lent me his jacket, cuddled up with me. but most of what he says now is like 'you shagged me out. i need to recover! thanks for a great weekend babe' i was just hoping that he'd give just a tiny bit more, like 'i'm so excited' or 'your sweet' or something. i guess the fact that he's texted me a bit after counts for something, but... it sounds funny, we had a good time, i'm not sure why i'm thinking on it so much. i'm not trying to marry the guy, just would like to be more than friends who have sex.

2007-09-03 09:14:57 · 18 answers · asked by maria h 1

How do I get to meet decent men without going to clubs/pubs or online? Is it true that it is easier for an 80 yr old to meet men than a 40 yr old?

2007-09-03 09:14:29 · 19 answers · asked by Shady Cat 1

besides the free drinks and casual flirting, (he is a bartender)what are the other signals he would show that he likes you more than a 'bar fly'?

2007-09-03 09:14:14 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1

i'm 5 foot 5 inches and 14. i'm still growing, but i'm not completely flat chested. i have thick red hair that i straighten, and a lil bit of acne, but u'd never notice. i hav clear green eyes. do u think i'm pretty?

2007-09-03 09:08:36 · 15 answers · asked by red_head423 2

2007-09-03 09:05:18 · 13 answers · asked by Dirtypool 1

I think I still love him and I've never felt that way about anyone else. Is that normal or am I going insane?

2007-09-03 09:01:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

honest to god opinion what wrong with me anthing I could change?
im 15 cant even seem to get a date?


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2007-09-03 08:58:08 · 33 answers · asked by Tyler 2

Also what does it mean when a guy says a girl has a "really cute sneeze"?

Thanks everybody you rock!

2007-09-03 08:51:13 · 31 answers · asked by full_of_questions 3

are no commitments of staying to gether between us.Now a days I am obsessed as i frequently call him up knowing he is at his workplace or at home.He doesnt reply always but just once a while.We often had physical relations and he comes to see me often at my place.Though physically i dont expect much from him i feel like seeing him often which he fears as he knows ill be leaving to settle in US within few years .He says its painful to part so with this reason he wants to avoid getting close to me.I love him a lot and i want to help him without any expectations as he works with the bank and he hails from a middle class family.I am confused as i am too attached to him and i dont want t him to avoid seeing me or talking to me.I have two kids a daughter who is 22 and a son who is 15 and i am a divorcee

2007-09-03 08:33:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, today I was walking around the Air Force Base swimming pool in my bikini. It's orange with white polka dots. Hot, but 3 guys came up behind me and my best friend Sierra and they squeezed out asses. I took it as a compliment. Say what you want I don't care. But would you take it as a compliment or an insult?

2007-09-03 08:28:20 · 12 answers · asked by ..jennyluvz.. 2

well, i think that it is just an excitement...most young people dont know how cruel the world is and what is the reality...they think that everythin is wonderfull .they cant...

2007-09-03 08:23:43 · 13 answers · asked by y m 2

goodlooking but dumb or smart but average-looking?

2007-09-03 08:22:50 · 5 answers · asked by TwentyGuy 1

a lot of dark, really curly hair? it's long, but really thick. female.

2007-09-03 08:20:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi my boyfriend of 3 months is 19 and I'm 17. I'm about to visit him at college in a few weeks with my sister, and I know we're going to have alone time and make out like we usually do but I know he's had sex before. He knows I'm waiting to have sex with HIM but I don't think he knows I'm very much a virgin. Like I've never even touched one lol. He finds me really attractive and I think he's in for a surprise. I'm freaked out I'll freak him out. What do I tell him? Will it turn him off?

2007-09-03 08:15:23 · 27 answers · asked by caliblonde100 1

if I guy could sit with you and play "hey there Delilah" on his guitar and sing it looking into your eyes

2007-09-03 08:12:30 · 31 answers · asked by T 2

Okay so me and my ex were seriously together for over two years. When we first met everything seemed to be going okay. I admit sometimes I acted like a child and gave in too much. I gave everything I had into this relationship, and so did she. But after over a year things seemed to change for my ex-gf. (Broke up with me once, shame on me) She started telling me how to run things, what to do (like I was a child), pressuring me to get her a promise/committment ring. I gave everything she wanted all the love and support, but at the same time, she didn't know what she wanted in life and didnt seem to return all the feelings. (Broke up with me twice, shame on her) During that last year she had denied me as a bf, while she was on a solo trip to Vegas, always begged for me to come over to her place when she knew I was working, tried to change who I was as a person. She is the type of person that argues a lot, and is afraid to get criticized when someone criticizes her. So I got tired one day, about 4 weeks ago, chewed her out a little bit for telling me how to run my life, left my car in tears. Before that I give her the option of breaking up w/ me. So then, two weeks later, she calls me up twice in one week, one for something different another day she needed help with something, in which I think she was setting me up for something and she says shes just checking on me. But I told her I couldnt help her since I was busy with a friend that day. So then a week later, my best friend tells me she has a new boyfriend, which we and our neighbors know this is a rebound bf. I have told her that I don't want any contact from her til she grows up. Sometimes, I feel this is my fault completely, and that I gave in too much throughout the last year, and for standing up to her like that on that very last day. And again, last night she called to check up on me and asked me if I was ready to be friends w/ her. This is the third time in four weeks that she has called to check up on me, and she kept saying to me she thought I was going to call her. I dont wanna be rude but I believe in not contacting her, but I'm the one that waits for her to call and like a DAMN FOOL I always pick up just to see what she wants, nothing more. And everytime I pick up the phone, I always keep it brief. First time she called after our breakup it was for something different. Second time that she called, I mentioned to her that I was in class and that I had a 'date' to prepare for. And she gave me a SURPRISED "Oh.....I'm sorry, I didn't mean to disturb you. I was just checking on you". Was that childish of me to do that, tell her what I'm doing? I realize it was, but I think I did it out of anger, even though I did have a date. Any opinions? Third time, she called called me in the afternoon while I was at work. And again, she said "Hey, what are you doing" (very softly). So I responded, "I'm busy right now, what do you want?". She says "I'm just checking on you, are you ready to be friends?". I didn't give her a straight yes or no answer. I may never give her a straight answer. Tell me if I'm wrong to do that. But anyways, if she does call again, I will just simply say "Listen, I'm busy" or "I've got company over, right now. MAYBE I'll talk to you l8r". That third time, she had asked if I'm ever going to call her, because she said "I thought YOU were going to call me when you are ready?" And this was only 4 weeks after she broke up with me. I'm not ready, but I feel that she is rushing me when she says that. Yes, I did tell her I may call her. Now when I said that and she may have waited, am I playing mind games with her or not? Because it seems like she may be expecting my call at anytime. Now my friend says that he saw on her myspace profile that she feels loved. I am assuming and know this is from her rebound boyfriend. Is that possible to feel love from a rebound boyfriend after only 4 weeks of her breaking up with me? And why would she be trying to call me three times within the last four weeks, just to simply check up on me while she had the nerve to ask if she wanted to be friends w/ me?

2007-09-03 07:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by dem5pinoy 3

my boyfriend dumped me at the beginning of august and i still can't get over him. I miss him so much. he was so good to me and he treated me so great. i just cant get over him. everytime i hear his name or hear his voice or see him, it just breaks my heart. him and i are still good friends but how can i get over him and move on? i really liked him. thanks in advance.

2007-09-03 07:54:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister says that she likes to date guys who are "okay" looking because she wont have to worry about other girls trying to steal him away from her. I dont want to ask her why, but can anyone relate?

2007-09-03 07:51:31 · 35 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1