2007-09-03 10:10:53 · 23 answers · asked by lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him so he can break up with you as soon as possible. He deserves better.
2007-09-03 10:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by RDSS396 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well lala I have two different opinions on this.If you love your boyfriend and you're never gonna do this again cause you figured out what a huge mistake this was than I say do not tell him.Thats if you didnt use one of his friends or someone he knows to cheat with.If however you did it as a way to get out of this relationship than tell him.I mean the truth is I agree with the answer that says this is your punishment.I mean why hurt him if you dont have to I mean you're the one who gave it up not him.You live with it.Why does he have to picture it all the time in his head.If you love him than just make it up to him in your own way and keep sex between the two of you not you, him and someone else.Good luck.I hope you've realized this was a mistake cause I hate for anyone to get hurt.I feel like if you tell its just to let the guilt go from you and put burden on him.Or even better if you did it cause your loose or not happy than just do the guy a favor and leave him alone.Just say Im not good for you or anyone and let it be.Good luck
2007-09-03 17:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by jt 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well break it to him gently,, if that is even possible.
And expect the worst,, aka he will break up with you.
And learn your lesson if he doesn't, and be grateful. Also expect him ot never trust you again and know that your relationship is now doomed, because you didn't have the decency to remain loyal, and most likely he will no longer feel a need to remain loyal to you, for you betrayed him.
So if and when you tell him, try to convince him that you were very foolish, and it was a spur of the moment thing (Which i'm assuming it was?), and that you feel terrible and will never do it again, and that you understand that this hurts him, but you feel the need to be truthful to him and you are sorry and will never do it again. You made a mistake and it is only human to do so, but you will rise abouve this and learn from your mistake and never betray his trust again.
Basically make sure that he understand you feel terrible, and that you will never do it again. I wouldn't suggest saying that you love him when you are trying to tell him, because it will make him think the opposite. ONly after he has accepted your apology, and done what he will do should you say that you love him.... if in fact you even do.
Other than that... I can only tell you to think before you do something like this again.
Good Luck
2007-09-03 17:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Way to go !!!! How is your relationship with your boyfriend. You promised to be honest with each other and always tell each other the truth ... You´ve done it now. Not tell him and he finds out could be the end of you and him.... Telling him probable do the same,,, How would you feel if the tables were turned., or he does not care????
My motto: `What you do not want to happen to you, you do not do unto others.´ This is one of those things....
2007-09-03 17:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Alma of Avalon Grailguard 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok why would you cheat on your boyfriend thats is the most lowest thing anybody can do to someone they care about if you tell him he will probly leave you and that is what you deserve I cant stand people who like that you are going to find someone that you really care about and he is going to do that very same thing have you heard the saying what goes around comes around ? your gonna get it if you tell him and want to try and make it work --GOOD LUCK TRYING TO KEEP HIM I hope that you have the heart to change and have respect for yourself
2007-09-03 17:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by miimmii_llynnn 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the same way you cheated on him, without caring for the relationship. tell him your relationship isnt a big deal so thats why you cheated on him. i would tell him ASAP because sooner or later you will need to admit it. its only going to get worse. dont even say sorry, just admit, and break up. why would he try to forgive you? i for sure wouldnt
2007-09-03 17:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell him anything...but the question would be why you cheated him on him to begin with, and that it might be time to move on. When he does find out (and he will somehow) your relationship will come to an end, it's just the way it is.
2007-09-03 17:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be prepared to be dumped.
If you tell him in person, he could really blow up.
Maybe a letter, that way it will give him time to cool off.
Cheating is NEVER acceptable, and very few times tolerated.
Always put yourself in the other person's place and you will be apt to not do things like cheating.
Good Luck
2007-09-03 17:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth, dont beat around the bush. Hey why give me the thumbs down. I didnt cheat she did.
2007-09-03 17:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Honey, remember how you thought I was a wholesome honest understanding righteous woman? I have something I have to tell you...
If you can’t do it give me his E-mail and I’ll let him know. Either way if he has any kind of moral values he’ll dump you.
2007-09-03 17:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Fixguy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If it was me I wouldn't want to know because that would destroy my manhood. I'd rather end the relationship and go on with my life. But if you decide to tell him be ready
to hear him out.
2007-09-03 17:16:12 · answer #11 · answered by Meecho 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋