i met this guy but since then we have only talked on myspace, i kno he likes me because i told him and he told me he liked me too, but afterwards i had no idea what to say that i completely changed the subject and hes shy with the girls he likes, which is me is there anything i can do to make him talk more or so he can express his feelings for me...any tips
2007-09-03 09:46:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes my friends cousin, and i met him a week after i started talking to him,
2007-09-03 09:47:22 · update #1
i already met him face to face
2007-09-03 09:50:24 · update #2
i met him in person
2007-09-03 09:50:39 · update #3
i haven't seen him since then
thats why me and my friend are making plans to go to the movies so we can see each other again
2007-09-03 09:54:06 · update #4
you could meet him face to face that way he has to talk back
2007-09-03 09:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by theplayeroutthereallyongnamedog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the main thing is for YOU to get over your shyness. This is crucial, because as a shy boy, I am scared of rejection and even talking to girls I like. You need to meet him AGAIN and progress the conversation, he will get into a groove and start talking and then you should set up a date at the movies or something simple so that you will both be relaxed, and it is a make-out healthy environment if you go that far on the first date with your friend's cousin. (talking on myspace and facebook is not the answer, get up your courage and go to this guy!)
2007-09-03 16:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its really hard when a guy is super shy. But you just have to somehow let him know that he can be comfortable around you. He is probably just shy because its a new relationship. So instead of him asking you to do something ask him. Just be like "want to go to a move sometime" or something like that. I'm sure he wont be so shy after a little while. ~Hope i was helpful~
2007-09-03 16:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first u need to make sure his this boy is someone u know like really know
not just talk on myspace.
ok like i had the same problem once
the guy had other people talk for him
if hes shy and nervous it just means that he really likes u
to make so hes not so shy is to be open with urself
(but not to open)
try to make him fell happy and comfortable when u talk to him
let him know that he can trust you!
good luck.
:D
2007-09-03 16:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by Cierra W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easier to talk to a person face to face. or maybe just on the phone. find out more of his intrests and make a conversation about that. make him feel safe talking to you so he wont be shy. then it will be easier to have a conversation and open up.
2007-09-03 16:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by ►B r i t t a n yL a r a◄ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k just ask open ended questions talk on the phone ! see each other show him you want to get to know him that how much you like him emailing saying how much you care about him just ask questions make him comfortable around you good luck
2007-09-03 16:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by miimmii_llynnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what his interests are...sports, music, vacation spots, etc. Do some research and talk to him about those things that he likes.
2007-09-03 16:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by anne b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should meet him in person, somewhere semi-private, and give him a nice peck on the cheek, maybe you can help him get over his shyness.
2007-09-03 16:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mike T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to feel comfortable with you and that you won't go blabbing things to others that he says in confidence
2007-09-03 16:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same problem...you should say to him on MS like..."Lets say hi to each other tomorrow!" and he'll start to get used to it and then you should talk to him and hel'll get more used to it!
2007-09-03 16:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by E Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋