I met a guy online over a year ago. We didn't meet in person until a couple months of chatting on the phone due to various reasons. When we met, it was perfect. We weren't like strangers. It was as if we knew eachother for years because of all of the phone calls. Our first date was perfect and it ended with a 20 minute kiss. A week later we got together again, and lets just say that for the 5 hours that we were together, 4 of those hours our faces were pressed against eachothers. Perfect.
but it all went downhill from there. His ex started reading our emails to one another and started some probs. My best friend, whom I don't talk to anymore, started emailing him rudely. These ppl really caused probs for us and we haven't seen eachoter since our 2nd date 7 mths ago. but we still talk now 7 then. he wants to gived it another try, and i did too, but come to find out his 2 best friends of 20 years, whom i've never met, are against us gettin 2gether and talk crap about me. it will never
2007-09-03 09:57:17 · 10 answers · asked by sephia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
work out if his friends dont approve of me. i sent one a email BY Accident (it was to my mom) but it was also sent to his Best bud, and he (his buddy) emailed me back with such a blunt, cold response. and there wasn't any need to be an azz. i just feel like all odds are against us, and i want to tell him no way and here's why....but i don't know how to do it. and oh, even he was upset by his freinds response to me. he apologized for him and gave me excuses for his repsonse back. i think he (my man) was upset at his friend for being so rude. do i tell him that is ONE of the reason why we can't work it out - that his friends clearly dont like me
2007-09-03 10:01:43 · update #1
Don't let his friends stop you. If you really love him go for it. Plus they are his friends, not yours, so its not like you have to stay loyal to them or anything. If this guy you're seeing decides his friends are more important then let him go. Few online relationships work out.
2007-09-03 10:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, WHY are all these other people getting involved? WHAT'S WRONG? I don't see why they would just suddenly appear out of no where and say that you 2 shouldn't hook up.
Is there a reason why? What do your friends think of him? What do his friends think of you? FIX IT. loool. Just ask why why why.
Anyways, if he's crazy about you, and if you're crazy about him, it shouldn't stop you from being together. It's YOUR life. You can do whatever you want. You're probably over 18 (or sound like it...) so........=)
hmmm...... If you really want to be together, don't let stuff like this ruin anything. I mean,.. come on! 1 year! lol If your friends had a reason like.. "oh he called me a *****" or something then that's when you need to start thinking about this situation with the guy. ^_^
<3
2007-09-03 10:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by PaperHeart59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are people being allowed to come between the two of you?
He has to put a stop to other people interfering on his end...and you need to put your old friend in his/her place.
How can other people dictate your relationship?
You both have to decide who is important, and if it's the two of you being together, then close the others out!!!
(btw, I have a long distance relationship. We haven't met yet in person, but that made me sooo happy that you and your bf had such a good time meeting, I can't wait to meet mine!!! No one will come between us!)
2007-09-03 10:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by A G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as a perspective of what your'e going through, i've been through that exactly! My GF's (been dating now for almost 2 years) parents didn't like me, distrusted me and all.. Her ex tried to literally kill me.. But he did'nt get far.. What I do suggest is: Talk to the guy, find out how he feels about you and if he really wants to be in a relationship. If yes, then talk to his friends, ask them what they have against you. Moral of the story is, EARN their respect. If you want something in this life, you have to work ur *** off for it!
2007-09-03 10:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by Jacques18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. well if you both want to give it another try, you have to go with that. who cares about his friends or even his ex or your friends. u have to tell them to back off. its your life ur relationship and the whole point of that is to get through this sort of stuff together ya know?
2007-09-03 10:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~Smile~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are probaly jealous. the arent very good friends to him. they dont know you u probaly are a wonderful person. give it a shot u should b with him no matter what chances. lifes about aking risks if u dont how could anything happen to benifit you
2007-09-03 10:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you wrote a lot (i can't believe i read it)
well...i think you should try, if you really like him who cares about his friends? ... i mean what's the worst thing that can happen...that it doesn't work out??? and if it doesn't at least you'll know that you try!
though that's just me... it is your life and it is YOU who will decide what to do.
2007-09-03 10:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss T D, If you and he found love,nothing is more powerful ! Tell him to be a man and stand up for your love !
2007-09-03 10:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if both of you guys like eachother go for it.
2007-09-03 10:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about it, lord
2007-09-03 10:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋