Singles & Dating - 3 September 2007

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months and now are going to different schools. Things are going great except for the fact that we can only see each other on the weekends. Therefore, I really miss him. We talk on the phone about every other night.

I've found very recently that my feelings have kind of changed. I went to his house on Saturday night, and he kind of felt like more of my best guy friend than boyfriend. It felt really weird at first. But later on, he felt more like a boyfriend, but still not exactly. Then we went to the lake on Sunday, and he felt like a boyfriend the whole time. It was never like this when we saw each other almost every day at school. I don't like him feeling like only a good friend cause it feels wrong being close.

My thinking is that since I don't see him that often, my feelings about him change in my mind or something or other. What can I do to change this? I really need help. I want him to feel like my boyfriend all the time.

2007-09-03 13:17:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lived in both worlds. I've met good girls and everything seems so easy to date'em honest and loving, but I'm always looking for danger, girls testing me is very fun to me, under pressure I don't sweat it with girls guys can't get, I like the challenge so what should I do, I'm single cause I can't make up my mind -_- XD

2007-09-03 13:15:18 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi all. Okay. So I think i am pregnant. i had unprotected sex 2 weeks ago (he pulled out). I took a preg test just now and it came up neg (it was one of those dollar ones). I am supposed to get my period tomorow (so i havent missed it yet) but i have no signs of getting a period. I have cramps (which i never get b4 periods), im tired, and i get sick to my stomach sometimes lately. Could the preg test be wrong? I took it just now (at night) and havent missed a period yet. what do you think

2007-09-03 13:14:37 · 7 answers · asked by Stephanie 2

And dont try, you know its true for most of you girls.

2007-09-03 13:14:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got a quick question for all of you women. What is the best opening line for a guy who is interested in you or wants to go out with you?

Here are some examples:

1) "Dental Floss...Before or after you brush?"
2) "Can you take a sincere compliment, so can I so you go first"
3) "So whats the worst pick up line you've heard so far"
4) "Hey my mom has the same necklace you're wearing"
5) "So what do you got going for yourself other than your looks"
6) "I need a girls opinion about my necklace"
7) "Hey, my friends got that dress"
8) "I like your short hair but you'd be prettier with longer hair"
9) "You remind me of my grandma.....you have the same energy she has."
10) "Do you beleive in ESP? Think of a number between 1 and 4."
11) "Hi my name is....."(I think this one is really lame because it creeps a lot of girls out)

Would any of these work on you? If not, got anything better or funnier to engage in conversation?

2007-09-03 13:13:10 · 12 answers · asked by g-money 1

i am currently taken, but today i did something wrong with someone other than my boyfriend. what should i do?

2007-09-03 13:07:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it bring to you ?

2007-09-03 13:06:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, my now x-bf of 4.5 years picks stupid fights. Here is an example, tell me if you think it's bs, or if i'm wrong:

My dad's b-day was coming up. Family tradition to go out to eat and have cake. He has never wanted to come with me. Which is sad to me, but have come to accept it. When i told him my dad's b-day was coming up, he said 'good, i'll have a day to myself, i have lots of stuff to do', i said ok.
Then, on that day, he called me and was all upset because i didn't care enough to make plans with him before or after my family gathering. Which i always do, but not this time 'cause he said he wanted to take all day to do his pending stuff. I explained why, but he just repeated that i don't care, and that everything comes before him. What the hell!!, right?

I ask 'cause now he's making me feel like i dumped him for no real reason aside from just not loving him. I feel like he was pushing me to break up with him, but now he says if it were up to him we would be together.

2007-09-03 13:05:59 · 7 answers · asked by jade 2

These can be simple everyday things, not having to do with a boyfriend /girlfriend. Things that would still make you happy even if you're SO was not around

2007-09-03 13:03:19 · 28 answers · asked by Lilly d 1

ok well im 14 and my bf is 17 and i think im in love but im not sure what love is, so i need someone to please explain it to me!
this is what im feeling: i miss him a lot, i think about him all the time, i cant concentrate on anything specially school work because hes always stuck in my mind!, i would do anything to just talk to him! please i need help!!! right now i even feel like crying over him!

2007-09-03 13:00:06 · 11 answers · asked by emo kid 1

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So my guy friend and I spend alot of time with each other. There isn't one second of our free time that we don't spend together. We have been like this for a good four months. Well two months into it, it started to be more than that. We have been messing around for these pass two months and he just recently told me he is not ready for a relationship. ( He had been seeing someone the first two months we were hanging out but is over that past relationship) What I don't understand is he says he isn't ready for a relationship but we are basically dating without the title. I mean he hasn't been pushing the sex card so I know it's not all about hooking up. We hold hands when we are driving in the car. He pays for me when we go places. He shows affection towards me in front of his friends and sometimes blows them off for me. Everyone thinks we are dating or that we should be but he doesn't want to make it official. Is it that he wants to date he just doesn't want to date me? WHAT IS IT? help

2007-09-03 12:59:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bestfriend,and i work together with this HOT GUY at work.she knows i like him,and she said she would never get in the way with me likeing him,but then one day she went over to that guy,and started flirting with him.what should i do??????

2007-09-03 12:58:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think im sooo ugly so... do you?

2007-09-03 12:58:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad says never marry a woman just have sex and a good time even if you have 10 babies never worry just enjoy yourself and forget about love.
he say all love is ..is for fools and if you can fool a woman then go for it.
but I dont think its fair on me women taking advantages of me...
what do you think...?

2007-09-03 12:54:43 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a myspace account. I love keeping in touch with my friends & family. I am single & although I do not have my profile stating anything other than wanting to meet friends, I sometimes have guys pop on an email to chat. Recently, a guy several years younger than me did just this, he sent me an email asking if we could chat sometime & become friends. We have exchanged several emails over the last few weeks. And so far, I really like him. He is different than most guys I've dated or gotten to know... How can i determine if he wants to just be friends or if he is interested in me? I've left subtle hints as to why I'm not seeing anyone. He on the other hand hasn't stepped into this topic at all. In fact, he hasn't asked me any questions other than, "how was your weekend?" But he has spent time writing lengthy letters to describe what he does & what he has acomplished in life... I don't want to be too forward... help me out?

2007-09-03 12:48:10 · 17 answers · asked by T. 6

Well me (female) and my best freind (male) have always flirted around each other, and we always play around. One night we were at his house having dinner, and we were just like touching hands (under the table) and then i started to get more playful by stroking his inner thigh, but not touching his penis, and i thought he liked it, so then i started playing with his zipper, and kinda reaching in, but not touching it, and then i took my hand out when i felt it get hard. About 5 minutes later dinner was over, so we went to his room, and he picked me up and threw me on his bed. and he started to take his pants off untill i told him to stop beacuse thats not what i meant by it. Then he got pissed and called my a tease and made me leave.

AM I A TEASE?

2007-09-03 12:41:10 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met him through an online dating service, we've been dating for a couple of months now and he is Absolutely amazing. Problem is that he wants to go back to Germany to finish off his Architecture degree. This is all so sudden and I haven't had my period yet and I am worried that I might be pregnant; I have a 8 month old son already so I know what I am feeling but I still am unsure what to think say and/or do! What do you guys think he will do and what do you think I should do myself. Thanks

2007-09-03 12:37:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok...so i like this...and he has a girlfriend...they have been dating on and off for about a year now...and i just started talking to him! but i really like...and well he gave his number and told me to call him later tonight...so i did! and most of our conversation was about how his girlfriend was really pissing him off and stuff! so idk...what do i do...go for him, forget about him, or idk? HELP!!!!

2007-09-03 12:31:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated his friend, ughh i know. But i really like him, we flirted alot but now it seems like the flirting has stopped. He told me he likes someone but won't tell me who and i kept annoying him to tell me who but he would, i feel like there is a really small chance he could be talking about me but i dont know. He said he would evenutally tell "her" he likes her but i dont know when!! The thing is though we still flirt a bit, so how can i make him tell me and if its not me...WANT me?

2007-09-03 11:37:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

He calls me Beautiful, pretty lady, baby girl. He says, "I hope you have sweet dreams tonight." He tells me I look beautiful, and says "night night pretty lady." He kinda babies me...he treats me with care and listens to me and respects me. He isn't afraid to tell me things...he trusts me. He tells me I deserve better than the guys I hang around and that they don't deserve me anyway...that if anyone hurts me they don't deserve me. It made him angry when I told him about what this guy did to me. He called him a dirty little bastard. I haven't talked to him in five years because he lives farther away with his dad but his mom and 2 brothers moved down here so we started talking again. I have known him since I was 2 and I am 16. His mother and my mother are good friends. Since we don't know each other that well anymore he said "I hope you write back so I can get to know you a little better, or a lot lol." We write letters back in fourth to each other. So could he like me at all?

2007-09-03 11:35:53 · 28 answers · asked by *My_Oh_My* 2

I understand what it means and all, but before I asked her she had said she liked me.. and if she likes me what is there to think about?

2007-09-03 11:34:04 · 3 answers · asked by Andrew 1

my best friend has a problem and she is typing it here...
(i'm 18)

i dated three guys each once, and now they want me to choose who i will date for a while.

Greg is 18, he has a dark tan, brow hair, brown eyes, he's funny, sexy sexy sexy, and has a great smile

Ryan is 19, he has lightish skin, blond hair, blue eyes, kinda dumb, hot, and short

Aaron is 18, he has light skin, light brown hair, blue eyes, smart, really hot and sexy and has an awsome body, just my size, ok smile, and is very affectionit and romantic.

2007-09-03 11:30:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

like the quesiton said, would you mind if your son dated a woman three years older, if you knew she was a nice, normal woman?

2007-09-03 11:29:04 · 40 answers · asked by Pony Car W/ a 351W 1

before my gf broke up with me, she wanted to play truth and dare. so i played along. it turned out she just wanted to tell me she slept with one of her ex's. then she said it didnt count as cheating because at that time we had a fight and were broken off but later we got back...she tries to rub it in my face and make me feel really bad by telling me men were hitting on her when she was travelling in my country and i wasnt there for her...my question is i dont understand why is she doing this? do you think she is hurting or angry at me? i treated her very well except there were some fights like every relationship goes through. i know one thing girls like to create as much drama. HELP

2007-09-03 11:23:10 · 1 answers · asked by AL 1

say he's single on myspace, when he's in a RL, but blame it on he doenst know how to change it, brag to his friends that he cheats on you, tells you that you smell down below and refuse to go down on you (often), his female friends call you a psycho ***** and say you're stalking him, it's long distance due to him being military, he doesnt call when he says he will, sometimes he doesnt call at all...yet through it all he says he wants to marry you?

2007-09-03 11:22:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok theres this girl that I love with all my heart( also i care about her more then myself, i wanted to ask her out ,but shes always around other people. Also shes a alot more developed then other girls at my school( not trying to be a pervert)
if you know a way i can get her alone and ask her out i would really appreciate it.

2007-09-03 11:18:45 · 6 answers · asked by Many Questions 1

Okay...Long Story: There is this guy in my circle of friends who is very sweet, funny, just a lot of fun to hang out with and makes people laugh. I guess he likes me, he has felt that way for a while now. I think very highly of him, but I don't have feelings like that for him. I only see him as a friend. One time soem friends gave him my number with my permission, but I was trying to go back out with an ex of mine. Well he didn't believe me and got all butt-hurt about it. (this was 2 months ago I guess) Saturday Night at a party he was there and was saying how he got fed up and deleted my # from his phone, and asked for it again, I gave it to him, and I want to hang out with him AS A FRIEND, but I don't know how to tell him, and it'snot like I'm seeing any one else. But it sux because I'm a snob if I don't date him. I'm a bad person if I dump him, but I certainlty can't see myself marrying him so what do I do??? Thanks guys!!! =)

2007-09-03 11:09:11 · 1 answers · asked by fern45 2

I've been raised right to be a gentleman when it comes toward talking to women but i just don't get it!!!it seems like girls always want the guy that the exact opposite of a great guy. Is it attractive to be talked to anyway but respectivly by some guy??

2007-09-03 10:40:04 · 40 answers · asked by donzell89 2

I'm 19 and I usually date guys 18-25. Anytime the subject of sex comes up (a couple of months into the relationship), it's like the relationship has to end. I'm a virgin, and I plan to stay one for sometime. Anytime I tell a guy, three things usually happen. They say "We can work it out" and then they dump me a week later, "we can work it out" and then they cheat on me with a promiscuous female, or they start laughing until I tell them that it's not a joke.

I guess this is my question: Should I be up front and say "Before we start dating u should know that I'm a virgin, and I don't plan on having sex anytime soon," (very awkward) or should I continue this road of rejection anytime sex pops up. It's really starting to bug me.

2007-09-03 10:39:17 · 19 answers · asked by : ) 6

ok well im 14 and my bf is 17 and were like alway joking about sex 4 example once i had told him that i couldnt find my hello kitty pjs and then he was all "well why dont u just sleep naked in my bed?" i know for a fact that he was kidding but is that ok?

2007-09-03 10:38:53 · 24 answers · asked by emo kid 1