why did she do this?

Question

before my gf broke up with me, she wanted to play truth and dare. so i played along. it turned out she just wanted to tell me she slept with one of her ex's. then she said it didnt count as cheating because at that time we had a fight and were broken off but later we got back...she tries to rub it in my face and make me feel really bad by telling me men were hitting on her when she was travelling in my country and i wasnt there for her...my question is i dont understand why is she doing this? do you think she is hurting or angry at me? i treated her very well except there were some fights like every relationship goes through. i know one thing girls like to create as much drama. HELP

Answer 1

Would seems she IS doing what she can to still hurt you. Your only fix is really to ether wait it out, or call her on it..... something like "Hey I know I hurt you, but you keep bring this up, and its not going to do ANYTHING for this relationship but upset me! Do you really think it helps ether one of us when you upset me?" or "Yea I know I wasn't there for you during that time, so why bring it up? It was a simple fight and you descide to go sleep with your ex, and you get onto about this?" Just defend yourself, sometimes people like to get a verb smack down once and awhile and us as there lovers, much.... be willing to do our part! But theres no reason for her to continue to brow beat you, thats not getting over it, thats not moving on, and thats going to make it hard on you guys to relate which WELL eventual destroy this relationship....