my dad says never marry a woman just have sex and a good time even if you have 10 babies never worry just enjoy yourself and forget about love.
he say all love is ..is for fools and if you can fool a woman then go for it.
but I dont think its fair on me women taking advantages of me...
what do you think...?
2007-09-03 12:54:43 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends. If you think you could be truly happy stringing someone along, never really opening up and falling in love then I suppose that scenario could work. Plenty of women as well as men use sex to get what they want so it works both ways.
Personally I think sex is much better when you're in love and opens up a whole new world of trust, possibilities, pleasure and security. Also when you're in love you have a best mate to share everything with (not just sex), which makes life much happier than just looking out for yourself and being selfish.
So that's what I think anyway!
2007-09-03 21:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Badgrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad is WRONG!!!!! He must have been hurt. Thats aterrible way to live your life!! Is your dad a mean unhappy man ? God created a man to love a woman and the two become one. You will reap what you sow, meaning how you treat others will come back on you! Do you want to be an old man and never have loved or been loved?alone with children that hate you because you was not threr for them! What a horrible life! Life is your choice and what you make of it. I am so sorry you have a dad that thinks like that, I pray you make the right choice!
2007-09-03 13:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by debbie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad is a jerk. And if you mimic his behavior, then do the world a favor and get a vas so you don't leave 10 kids in your wake. He says never worry and enjoy yourself but wait until the mothers of those 10 catch up with you. Child support is not going to be fun. If you don't want women taking advantage of you, don't sleep with them. it's that simple.
2007-09-03 12:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, your dad probably wasn't shown much love growing up as a child. That will cause people to have some psychological problems, such as falling in love. It takes a real tough man to commit to true love. Don't allow women to take advantage of you. The best thing for you to do is to not have sex until you marry your true love. That is the kind of advice your father should be giving you instead. Not for you to go out and mess up your life. Which is exactly what you will be doing.
2007-09-03 13:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by rjsass 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For one thing your Dad is wrong. Falling in love is wonderful. When you find someone you love more than yourself you want to get married and spend the rest of your life with them. All children deserve to have a Mom and Dad who loves them and lives with them. Do you really want to have to pay child support for 10 children?Personally how do you know if the woman is taking advantage of you or you are taking advantage of them? If you feel you are being taken advantage of, it isn't love.
2007-09-03 13:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by oldhag 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
?????????????? !!!!!!!! Your dad has obviously been hurt before! That is a shame, but you have the right attitude... it is wrong to just run around having sex. Financially, 10 babies is gonna cost you (lol) and emotionally, you will totally miss out on the gift of love and companionship. You can have great sex all the time when you are in a commited relationship ;)
2007-09-03 12:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Grace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boy doesn't your dad ever mention diaseses? i think that what he's telling you to do is sickening. and that's weird coming from a parent that's supposed to love you. sex is ok if your in love,but going around just sticking your penis in anything could get you something else that you didn't ask for. i would never take his advice and you don't even sound like the kind of person that wants to just have sex anyway. you sound like you just want to meet the right person. and you will
2007-09-03 13:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by bella-d46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want an empty life follow your dad.
If you want a life filled with good things, you need to build a relationship of trust with an honorable woman with integrity.
as far as sex goes. you must come to the realization that sex is all about the woman and for pleasuring your woman. you may get your rocks off. but sex is still all about pleasing her to orgasm. sex is woman. with out woman there is no sex. if you make her happy, you will be happy. that is what makes you a man.
2007-09-03 15:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dad needs to grow up. Sounds as if he got burnt sometime by a woman. If you want to be a real man, don't take advantage of anyone.
2007-09-03 12:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by Laura Z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crazy
2007-09-04 09:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by lisa28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋