Why Do Girls Like Bad Boys??

Question

I've been raised right to be a gentleman when it comes toward talking to women but i just don't get it!!!it seems like girls always want the guy that the exact opposite of a great guy. Is it attractive to be talked to anyway but respectivly by some guy??

Answer 1

HELL YEA i love my boo and he is a very bad boy
he is a BOXER

Answer 2

Not all girls like only the bad boys. Some girls are immature and watch too many adventure movies that glorifies the bad boy and their bimbo girl friends life style. Sooner or later these girls will grow up and find that this fantasy is not realistic but can be one big night mare. In the end the gentleman wins every time. You need to look in the right places to find the right girl for a gentleman.

Answer 3

Alot (not all) women have no or low self-respect. Therefore, they do not EXPECT respect from a man. Now, not all bad boys are disrepectful, they just have that reputation. I think in someways its 'rebellion' really. They have always been taught to be good girls, to date nice looking guys who know how to dress, talk right, eat right with manners, etc.. This is just a way of blaring their independence out for all the world to see. I've done it before, but not because he was a 'bad boy'. I really and truly liked the guy and found him to be very intersting, full of character and life. Some 'nicey nice' guys are boring and don't know how to have fun. And no, disrespect is NEVER attractive.. at least for me!

Answer 4

No I think immature woemen want a bad boy, bad boys are always for a fling. Unless the bad boy is actually a great guy it usually turns out that theyre not marriage material and just fun kindof material. Youll find a girl, youre just probably the kind of guy girls want for a serious relationship and maybe the girls you know are too imature for that right now. Itll all work out, dont worry just relax and dont compromise yourself, keep being respectful and youll get a good girl too. Good luck!:]

Answer 5

see the thing is that many of girls i don't include myself in this think that they can change their bad ways. sometimes you get caught up so much in the idea that u can be the woman to change their behavior and make them a better man. This does happen, but doesn't always occur. Bad boys only hurt girls on their intent to change. I'm not going to say i don't like bad boys because i have, but there's no point to them in the long run. they never aspire high and just live for the today and not tomorrow. in the long run the nice sweet guy always wins.

Answer 6

Girls like Bad Guys because they think they can "tame" them.

So it's just like falling in love,, but it's a charity case also. Double the thrill.

Please don't change,, In the end girls DO want a guy who respects them and are more interested in what's between their ears (their brain) than what's between their legs. And if that isn't the case, then those girls are trash and you don't want to be with them anyway.

You will typically find the girls going after bad guys in younger girls because they are naive and conceded enough to think that they can change a person, but then again,, age doesn't really make a difference.

So, just continue doing what you do, and eventually you find a woman who appreciates the fact that you are respectful.

Answer 7

Real women don't want to settle with bad boys. It's true that women want to feel excited by playing with danger and that's where the desire to be with bad boys comes in. But all in all, women want to be with a decent man. Continue to be the gentleman that you are and the right girl will come along. Good luck.

Answer 8

Honestly you are looking for the wrong girls. Your girls are really shy and you need to teach them how to have sex. You should hit on girls at libraries and two year colleges.
OR if you want a little excitment date a single mom.

I was just like you going after girls I had nothing in common with then I wised up and started going for intelligent girls with little or no sexual experience.

And now im happy. Hope this helps good luck

Answer 9

I think it is the stupidest thing ever. Girls who like the bad boy just like the drama it brings into their life. My boyfriend is the sweetest, most caring guy ever, a complete gentleman, and I wouldnt have it any other way. There are definitely girls looking for guys like you, but remember, those are the girls who are serious about settling down. alot of girls go for the bad boy when they are just dating, but want to settle down with a good guy. I wouldnt put up with a guy who EVER called me names, raised a hand to me, or demeaned me in any way. I dont know, maybe I have my head on better than most girls.

A funny thing, though, there was this girl in my boyfriends group of friends, who all the guys fawned over. He thought she was too full of herself, so he was a dick to her, and guess what? she liked him. (this was before he and I were going out) and lo and behold, she was completely full of drama!

So the girls who like the bad boys usually also like drama, so you dont want those girls anyways!

Answer 10

Bad boys exhibit confidence and they are kinda smooth with the way they deal with girls. Girls like thinking that their bad guy can protect them and make mad passionate love to them. But a gentleman can do the same. All you need is confidence, smoothness, and a little fighter spirit in you.

Answer 11

I think girls are attracted to what's always kind of been "off limits". Most people are attracted to "dangerous beauty", if you will. But i think you'll find that in the long run, the good guys are the ones the girls choose for life.