I lived in both worlds. I've met good girls and everything seems so easy to date'em honest and loving, but I'm always looking for danger, girls testing me is very fun to me, under pressure I don't sweat it with girls guys can't get, I like the challenge so what should I do, I'm single cause I can't make up my mind -_- XD
2007-09-03 13:15:18 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the reason you date. Do you date for sex and danger - or do you date to develop a lifelong relationship? If you're dating to find friends - you're not dating, you're finding friends.
If you date for sex or danger, as you say - the obvious answer is the bad girls.
If you date to find your lifelong partner, which you don't mention - the obvious answer is the good girls.
2007-09-03 13:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by "bad girl".
To you, is a bad girl someone who is always ready for sex? A girl who acts seductive?
If a bad girl is what you prefer, It would be an unwise choice. When it comes down to it, if a girl immediately acts like a bad girl, it means she's been with a ton of guys already, because she has experience with seduction.
A "good girl" will have the makings for a life long relationship. It doesn't mean she won't act "bad" sometimes! Everyone does! So what do you value more? A sturdy relationship, or temporary moments of fun?
2007-09-03 13:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the good girl. Chasing bad girls may give you a trill for a time but the thrill will wear off once you have caught them.
Good girls won't get you into troubble but can challenge you intellectually rather than just the chase and the thrill of the "bad scene".
In the long term, good girls will be there for you and can help you succeed. Bad girls will hinder you since they would rather be out partying and whatever rather than working or studying and that will drag you down in the long term.
2007-09-03 13:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by Will Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, its nice to meet someone so honest! These are feelings that all guys have, but they dont want to admit it. It 's ok to date both types of girls, just so the girls know you are dating around---if they dont mind, then go from there. The testing girls might give you a challenge---you will date them, but you will not want the trouble when it comes to marriage one day...you will pick the nice girl.
2007-09-03 13:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be serious with any of them and I'd let them know that right up front. When you mature and find someone you truly love then you will get sick of the bad girl thing.
Funny, if you are in a long term relationship .. do you want a bad girl? Don't forget.. they're bad... both to you and anyone else.
2007-09-03 13:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! it's true good girls keep you out of trouble. But if it's a challenge you wan't, you should choose a bad girl cuz that's what you'll get. P.S. don't mind that first person to leave an answer, she's obviously ignorant
2007-09-03 13:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by dog lover 032 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmm, appearences can lie, you cann´t know when is good or evil until live with her some time, may be you are a sheep dressed of wolf, but too you can find the same, you are single because you have not been inloved, perhaps ever runaway, but really I feel tht you don´t find the woman of your dreams.
2007-09-03 13:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Graham 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the person, do you want an easy life with a nice girl or do you want to be used and abused by a wild child? If you want to chase a bad girl in the secret hope of taming her you're bound for a rough time, decide what u want most and choose accordingly!
2007-09-03 13:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your last sentence should pretty much settle the question for you; you're single! Don't be in any rush to settle down. While you are young and uncommitted, just stay that way and have fun until you meet someone who makes you want to never be with anyone else.
2007-09-03 13:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you take the bad you take the drama in their life, can you deal with their sh!t , and yes bad girls are fun!! you go with the good, you want the bad and the fun! I know tough, but if you are looking to settle down, you take the good. the bad will cheat lie and manipulate, that's why they are bad. but if you are young enough the bad always wins you over. but just remember the good can be bad! "you know what I mean!!"
that's what you want, the nicely dressed and proper on on side and the naughty behind closed doors!!! if they aren't that way now they will be its fun to teach!
:O) good luck!
2007-09-03 13:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by Bronco Santa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋