Singles & Dating - 3 September 2007

I never seem to find the right guy. They always abuse me, hurt me or leave me. What should I do?

2007-09-03 16:29:21 · 12 answers · asked by gcfansara26 3

1) kinda short,kinda pretty girl, that is a tad overweight not much,is dumb,bossy,and has a bad temper,& braces or
2) a tall girl,curvy,smart,gets mad sometimes,mostly nice,glasses

2007-09-03 16:25:35 · 10 answers · asked by dessprett 1

My boyfriend of 5 years has been looking at online porn & I never thought he did ANYTHING like that until someone I work with said he's obsessed with it. When I asked him he denied it and says he rarely masturbates. Recently I saw a show about how online porn addicts eventually engage in casual sex and cheat. My boyfriend is 27 and I always thought he just didn't have a sex drive. He works alot and I thought he never wanted to have sex with me b/c he was too tired. I always got turned down when I asked and we only had sex a couple times a month, which lasted very shortly. I am very open sexually and do everything he wants in bed..so it's not like I can't satisfy him. Plus I'm attractive. He looks at porn sites before work, after work and sometimes after going to bars several times a week. He's doing this before I come over his house. He's been looking at local sex ads of girls in nearby towns and I think he's cheating on me. Am I overreacting? Do all guys look at online porn

2007-09-03 16:25:05 · 14 answers · asked by duclosall 2

I stay at my bf's place with him usually on the weekends. I really like waking up beside him, but I didnt really want to get too into his space, because I was afraid that he would get annoyed or something.

But the other morning when we got up, he was like, "You should get you a toothbrush and stuff to have here if you want." Do you think that this means he's ok with me being in his space?

2007-09-03 16:22:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do to me if we were in a room alone together?

2007-09-03 16:20:12 · 8 answers · asked by hisbabygirl95 2

My boyfriend of 5 years has been looking at online porn & I never thought he did ANYTHING like that until someone I work with said he's obsessed with it. When I asked him he denied it and says he rarely masturbates. Recently I saw a show about how online porn addicts eventually engage in casual sex and cheat. My boyfriend is 27 and I always thought he just didn't have a sex drive. He works alot and I thought he never wanted to have sex with me b/c he was too tired. I always got turned down when I asked and we only had sex a couple times a month, which lasted very shortly. I am very open sexually and do everything he wants in bed..so it's not like I can't satisfy him. Plus I'm attractive. He looks at porn sites before work, after work and sometimes after going to bars several times a week. He's doing this before I come over his house. He's been looking at local sex ads of girls in nearby towns and I think he's cheating on me. Am I overreacting? Do all guys look at online porn

2007-09-03 16:18:32 · 5 answers · asked by duclosall 2

You see a while back I dated this guy who I thought was my world. . Well silly me didnt know until he had these comments on his hi5 that this 15 year old girl was sending him. Well he played me hard and I dont want to get into detail, but it was aweful. The thing is that I dont want this life ruining revenge I want something simple. Also I dont want him to tell that I'm getting revenge. What to do?

2007-09-03 16:16:59 · 46 answers · asked by Lolita 1

If a guy and a girl keep breaking up and getting back together would yousay they probably aren't meant to be? My guy friend is getting back with some girl he keeps breaking up with. I dont think It's good. What do you think? Am I wrong? Why do people do that? I have never been like that.

2007-09-03 16:15:53 · 6 answers · asked by candiceo1o7 2

I texted him, "Can we talk in person? There was miscommunication between our text/emails and its bothering me."

He wrote, " I got back from travelling, I am going to be working late all this week."

I wrote, "It will only be an hour max, don't you have breaks?"

He said, "Not today. You need to give me space. I am very busy, I don't have time for this."

I wrote, "Im sorry I didn't mean to bother you. I dont want you to make assumptions without knowing. I will give you space."

And I wrote again, "we got to have make up sex next time we see each other!"

What is he saying? Does he hate me? Why do I think theres still hope?? What should I do now to help mend this relationship? I am very depressed. Is this relationship DOOMED? Any advice will be appreciated. Thank You

2007-09-03 16:14:05 · 11 answers · asked by confusedz1 1

My boyfriend is acting super weird his not real conversative with me today... his usually always texting me and not today his only texted me about 10 times and if he answers its short answers... what could possibly be going on...

2007-09-03 16:07:09 · 13 answers · asked by ~*~Jess~*~ 2

A couple months ago i met a girl that i REALLY liked & she made it obvious that she REALLY liked me to, when i built up the nerve to ask her out she said she had a lot going on in her life, she said it was a "yes, but not now" then i found out that over summer she got another boyfriend and never told me a word. i also found out that she lied to me about a few other things, when i mentioned it she would act like nothing was wrong. her smile makes me forget why i was mad so i decided to just ignore her and move on but now she acts like a victim and asks me why i barely talk to her. Am i making the right choice by letting go? if i forgive her she'll know that for the future all she has to do is smile and say sorry to get away with something. keep in mind she always talks wierd like hinting me that she wants me to ask her out again

2007-09-03 16:07:07 · 8 answers · asked by Dj Stylez 2

1. question is who are you sleeping with?
2. Are you having sex with anyone?

Mind you these are men that don't really know me and not on that level with me...So please help me and tell why they ask such questions?

2007-09-03 16:04:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like it how they keep secrets or things just to make you wonder about them all day^_^.

2007-09-03 16:04:17 · 14 answers · asked by ForeverLove 1

Where are you now?

2007-09-03 16:03:56 · 7 answers · asked by Chinarose 1

I flew from canada just to be with this person who lives in mexico, i came here and everything is wonderful but he doesn´t seen to care that i am here.

2007-09-03 16:03:32 · 3 answers · asked by enrique c 2

2007-09-03 16:03:10 · 11 answers · asked by amanda h 1

Hard or easy choice for you?

2007-09-03 16:01:36 · 8 answers · asked by ask me a 3

we have been dating over a year now, and i said it to him first at about 6 months, he has said it to me and says it back when i tell him, but we hardly say it. i texts and writes it in myspace messages, but thats the only thing that i really have a problem with him - everything else is going amazing

maybe he is just nervous to say it? anyone with any other insite? I dont want to confront him about it, bc then ill feel like he is just saying it bc i brought it up, not bc he feels it

2007-09-03 15:43:13 · 1 answers · asked by cmj284 1

Hi, I like this girl a lot. I met her in my class. I was wondering what it meant when she randomly threw a conversation to me and my buddy about girls' periods. Does this mean she feels comfortable around us? or in other words, u girls, do u talk about ur periods in front of guys u like or would be potential boyfriend material, or would u be embarrassed? Please I need your answer.

2007-09-03 15:26:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend has this girlfriend. She got sick this weekend at his place. She had to go spend a night in the hospital and 4 units of blood. So when she got out. The doctor told her to rest and go back home today. because she could not get in touch with him. She rode back down to his place. She lives about 2 hours away from him. She has cancer in her female area. The doctor here said she needed to have surgery right away. But she has already put it off twice in last 6 months.

Should my friend be mean and tell her that she is not even thinking about her own health? Because she is to worried about him. He is one of the few good man I know. He is trying to fix his new house. This is keeping him from doing the work he needs to do.

2007-09-03 15:22:13 · 7 answers · asked by Bird Lady 2

yeah Im young but Im really mature.and Ill be 14 in a few months and he just turned 16.I really like him.a lot.weve madeout but ever since then we havent talked.we used to talk everynight and he would make me feel special.my friend josh says hes not a player and when I told him I wasnt having sex with him because I wasnt ready he said okay he wasnt going to push anything.Im kinda worried Im going to get hurt and hes too old but at the same time I just cant stop liking him.how do I get him to like me?

2007-09-03 15:21:15 · 9 answers · asked by britty 1

Ok. I've known this guy named brent for a while now. We are cool friends and everything. A few days ago i was at my friend's house and i saw brent. We started chillin and talking and stuff.
That day he kept telling me how he loved my hair. ( We having seen each other over the summer at all.) He kept touching my hair saying how nice i looked. The a few later he said to me " lets hold hands like we are boyfriend and girlfriend. He had never anything like that to me before. Am i overreacting or is there the possibility that he like me???

2007-09-03 15:19:53 · 6 answers · asked by Jerzigurl 1

I met this boy near the beginning of summer through a mutual friend. I met him (Jake) and his friend (Casey) while I was with my friend (Jen). Me and Jake clicked, Jen and Casey clicked. I really like Jake but don't know how he feels about me. He's nice, funny, and talks about as much as me (which is a lot). But he has a lot of girls as friends. He's not the type to flirt a lot, though. Now school is starting, Me, Jake, Jen and Casey have pretty much been hanging out nonstop for the last week.
I don't have any classes with Jake and hanging out will be hard except on weekends because school for me, Jen and Casey ends 45 min. after it does for Jake, even though we go to the same school.
I want him to think about me even when we don't hang out and don't have classes, how do I get him to think about me and want to make an effort to hang out?
I don't want answers like 'if he's worth liking, he'll like you for you'

2007-09-03 14:59:05 · 1 answers · asked by cambrexia 4

email me so we can wallow in our misery. i need some 1 that understands.

2007-09-03 14:56:01 · 13 answers · asked by theinsaneprofessor 1

If its possible, then how do we know when theyre fake?

2007-09-03 14:55:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know where I stand with my boyfriend.

We've been together about 6 months. Things are good. We are both happy and in love. We've been together a little while now and I want to know if he sees us together more long term. This is important because he is more than likely going to be relocating for his job in the next 6 months. When I bring up the topic of him moving and me missing him he always says that I can move with him, but I'm not sold on how serious he is about that. I'm thinking maybe he is saying that to shut me up.

So how do I start the conversation? I don't want to scare him or upset him because I just want to know where we stand. Please give me some advice!

2007-09-03 14:55:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend are plaining on have sex in the shower tonight any tips. and please help .

2007-09-03 14:55:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So this guy and I lik each other we are not boyfriend and girlfriend...but anyways one message it said he wanted me..what did he mean..like sex or as a girlfriend? or even possibly both?

2007-09-03 14:53:23 · 16 answers · asked by ~*Lucy*~ 3

Ok, when i was with my ex gf she cheated right infront of my face and i got really depressed i mean REALLY depressed. and somehow my grades at school imporved alot?

2007-09-03 14:52:44 · 6 answers · asked by 342515234 3

In any kind of relationship how important do you think trust and honesty is?

2007-09-03 14:50:29 · 15 answers · asked by gizmospita 1