You see a while back I dated this guy who I thought was my world. . Well silly me didnt know until he had these comments on his hi5 that this 15 year old girl was sending him. Well he played me hard and I dont want to get into detail, but it was aweful. The thing is that I dont want this life ruining revenge I want something simple. Also I dont want him to tell that I'm getting revenge. What to do?
2007-09-03 16:16:59 · 46 answers · asked by Lolita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having survived my share of bad relationships, my best advice is to live well. Most people bring about their own ruin, and when he's done that to himself then you can just know you're above all of that.
2007-09-03 16:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by Dominus 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The only being that is allowed to have revenge in the Lord.
If you try and get revenge on someone, you are showing your immaturity and setting yourself up for a lot of bad Karma in your life.
2007-09-03 16:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like eggs cold? Burgers? Pizza cold? How about the Thanksgiving Turkey cold? Because revenge is the only dish best served cold. Let it go or you'll find yourself tasting the most bitter of cold dishes. You don't want to go down that avenue. Trust me ...
Instead try this, write what you think of him, everything you hate about him, what you want to do to him. Put it in an envelope with all the pictures you have of him. Then burn it all.
Forget him and be better than this.
2007-09-03 16:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by mechbasket 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go girl ... move on. Focus on overcoming your Seven Deadly Sins
1. vanity or pride
2. sloth
3. wrath or revenge
4. jealousy or envy
5. greed
6. gluttony
7. lust
with some particular attention to that 'wrath/revenge' one. It seems like it will feel great to get back at someone, but it just keeps you stuck in your past. You'll come out looking better and being better off by just moving forward.
Or you could put an ad in the classifieds that says he wants to sell his car for the best offer with his home and cell numbers in it.
This 7ds quiz is just for fun, but it gives you a general idea ...
2007-09-03 16:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Janette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to find someone better than him. The world has this force in it called Karma. He will get his, and the best thing for you to do is stay out of the way when it comes!
2007-09-03 16:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Whynot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't really much revenge you could do. I think that it is best for you to just leave him alone. It drives a dude crazy when he knows he went from something to nothing. And remember that even with revenge there is still karma.
2007-09-03 16:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to go on with your life and be happy/happier without him! Don't go out of you way to do something terrible to him because in the long run, you probably won't feel too good about it.
2007-09-03 16:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by meme1972 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's silly little girl games. Move on, get over it. I've been there before revenge SO NOT WORTH IT... Grow up and find yourself a man. Or just be by yourself because that's OK too.
Yea sure... F**k up his car...sure do something stupid.and then you'll have a pretty little record.
and yes that girl is right, it's girls like you that give us a bad name!
2007-09-03 16:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to move on with your life - like you had never met him.
To make him nothing in your life, to not waste another minute on hating him, and plotting revenge. You are letting what he did alter who you are, so take your power back from him, and let it go.
2007-09-03 16:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got dumped. Plain and simple. Move on. Why do you need revenge? It's women like you who give the rest of us a bad name.
2007-09-03 16:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by Cindy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear Young Lady: This guy is a player forget him and no revenge you'll be in the wrong if you pull this off.
2007-09-03 16:25:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋