yeah Im young but Im really mature.and Ill be 14 in a few months and he just turned 16.I really like him.a lot.weve madeout but ever since then we havent talked.we used to talk everynight and he would make me feel special.my friend josh says hes not a player and when I told him I wasnt having sex with him because I wasnt ready he said okay he wasnt going to push anything.Im kinda worried Im going to get hurt and hes too old but at the same time I just cant stop liking him.how do I get him to like me?
2007-09-03 15:21:15 · 9 answers · asked by britty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you don't want to hear this, but...
You are WAY too young for this kind of thing! You should be going on chaperoned, innocent "dates", not making out with 16 year olds with no one around. Trust me. You have YEARS and YEARS to worry about guys and the headaches they cause. Don't rush in. It is totally OK to have a crush but you are way too young to have ANY involvement sexually. That includes making out.
This guy could get in serious trouble for doing this with you. Since his buddy says he is not a player (his buddy might by lying for him, you know), he probably has realized how incredibly young you are and backed off.
Please... be his friend and no more. Be young while you can. You don't want to end up 15 and pregnant, or with an STD... which you CAN get without actually having sex, you should know.
2007-09-03 15:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by gobigms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to be involved in any relationship. You can be mature for your age, but that does not make you mature enough for a boyfriend girlfriend relationship.
He is older, he will be pressuring you for sex, he could be considered to be a pedophile or child molester.
You are not old enough to legally give him permission to have sex with you, you have to be eighteen.
There is too big of an age difference, which tells me that he will try to get you to go too far.
You cannot and should not try to get him to like you.
Would your parents approve of this guy? I doubt it.
I would not approve of a sixteen year old with my thirteen year old daughter.
This is puppy love Hun, it will happen a few times while you are growing up. Please be careful.
2007-09-03 16:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait 5 years then do what comes naturally.
If not visiting your young friend in jail is not so much fun. Just think he could spend the rest of his life as a sexual predator and have to file as a pedophile because of your choices.
Stop fooling around. His life may depend on it.
2007-09-03 15:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by noyoungun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play hard to get.. usually guys like a challenge. If he really likes you, then he'll come out of his shell. I'm glad you didn't have sex with him because he'll be gone already.. The only reason why he's sticking around is because he's waiting
2007-09-03 15:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by JuDyLicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
M0ST 0F THE TiME B0Yz THAT AGE JUST WANT SEX..i THiNK Y0U SH0ULD LEAVE HiM AL0NE BECAUSE Y0UR UNDERAGE TO HAVE SEX ANYWAYz [DEPENDiNG 0N WHERE Y0U LiVE]. WHEN HE TURNz 17 DEFiNETELY CUT iT 0FF!
2007-09-03 15:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should, text/call him and set somthing up, like a movie/ bowling stuff like that. mabye even somthing that he likes doing if not those. just try to hang out more
2007-09-03 15:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't force free will. i mean just grow up a little before you date someone three years older than you.
2007-09-03 15:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by Mason S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend is always getting into things with older men. she usually gets hurt and she just bounces back. if u trust him enough than go fr it.
2007-09-03 15:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can like him, but a relationship would be illegal
2007-09-03 15:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋