A friend has this girlfriend. She got sick this weekend at his place. She had to go spend a night in the hospital and 4 units of blood. So when she got out. The doctor told her to rest and go back home today. because she could not get in touch with him. She rode back down to his place. She lives about 2 hours away from him. She has cancer in her female area. The doctor here said she needed to have surgery right away. But she has already put it off twice in last 6 months.
Should my friend be mean and tell her that she is not even thinking about her own health? Because she is to worried about him. He is one of the few good man I know. He is trying to fix his new house. This is keeping him from doing the work he needs to do.
2007-09-03 15:22:13 · 7 answers · asked by Bird Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They have only know each other for a month. I believe she acting very irresponisble about her on health.
2007-09-04 08:44:01 · update #1
I f you are asking about talking to a friends friend about her health, I think that would be very wise...Don't feel like you are being mean as you are concerned for your friends girlfriend and thats what good friends are all about..just tell you that you care about her as well as your friend...maybe your friend could be there with the girlfriend when you casually bring the subject up that way you both can explain how much you care for her well being and it would probably work better for thei relationship if she did what DR told her---stress very openly but honestly how important it is for her to be in good health in order to have a relationship with "anyone" in general if she got really sick how does she feel she could keep on seeing this nice guy....be patient and show your maturity nature to her-------------------if she cares enough for your friend she will at least think about it and hopefully act on it..If she doesn't tell your friend to break up with her then----she is not thinking straight enough about her health and at same time she is not thinking what it can do to her relationship not looking after her health---------SHE DOES NEED AN EYE OPENER------SO BY ALL MEANS TALK TO HER SOON....GOOD LUCK
2007-09-03 15:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by lorr1941 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think your friend should have a talk with her, and let her know that if she jeopardizes her health in such a manner, there won't be much of a future for the two of them together. If she really cares about him, she will take care of herself. If not, then she is being very selfish and risking her life. She should know this without being told. What in the world is she thinking?
2007-09-03 22:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he cares enough about her, maybe he can suggest going to some of the appointments with her and supporting her durring this difficult time. A lot of people will put problems off when they are worried about the outcome, and basically ignore them. There will still be plenty of time for him to work on his house, especially while she is in recovery. It is a bit of a sacrifice, but it is to help someone extend their life.
2007-09-03 22:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to let her know what the outcome of her life can be if she prolongs her surgery, and let her know that she needs to think of her life more then a man,what if she chooses him what good will they be together if shes dead you must be hard on her in order for her to see the light
2007-09-04 18:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sudnt me mean but he sud try to convince her to hab a surgery.
2007-09-03 22:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by GalNextDoor 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
her life...her choice.
2007-09-03 22:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Slide♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok
2007-09-03 22:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋