Singles & Dating - 6 August 2007

Guys please help me. My relationship with my current bf is to me going down the tubes. He has done things throughout our relationship which really hurt me etc. however whenever i get enough bottle to leave, i always crumble at the last minute and end up staying.

i know that for my own health i have to get out of this relationship as its making me ill with the things he is doing. he doesnt spare a thought for me, and on many occassions he says he doesnt care so why do i find it so hard to make that final jump and leave for good? he doesnt work, doesnt look for work, and would rather try and con money out of people. its making me ill and so confused i dont know what to do. right now im thinking that when i leave work, im going straight home, grab a few things and then go to my mums, but im scared that by the time work finishes, i will have relented and changed my mind. then i start to feel bad that i've left him with no money. i then feel guilty. help!!!

2007-08-06 03:20:05 · 16 answers · asked by nc 3

M and i were very close for e 2 weeks we worked together. often he would call me late at night after everyone else had slept to chat with him and have meals with me. am i reading too much into all these? does it mean anything? i dunnoe whether he likes me, or maybe its just coz im e only girl working there. help.....

2007-08-06 03:18:50 · 9 answers · asked by Lorewater 2

i had a one night thing with an ex girlfriend after my current girlfriend broke up with me. she told me i was free to do whatever i wanted and that we were done. now she is devistated and is saying i cheated even though we were broke up. i do want to get back with her and i know i screwed up by having meaningless sex. now what do i do

2007-08-06 03:14:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

we should have a scrap book with pictures of their genitalia and a55es and a picture of you and that person together happy in the honeymoon stage.

It would be such a nice book to flip through and reminisce

Agree or disagree?

2007-08-06 03:14:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I moved in with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. Since then most nights we have had sex. Is this too much?

Love Keely

2007-08-06 03:11:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-06 03:07:16 · 23 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

2007-08-06 03:06:28 · 12 answers · asked by Ify B 1

I am a single male here in Chicago and I am very shy I find it strange that people on publc transportation do noot talk much. People are usually listening to head phone, playing games on their phone or just talking on their phones. I think as a people we need to talk more to each other just say hi at least.

2007-08-06 03:06:22 · 8 answers · asked by xavior c 1

2007-08-06 03:06:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What things make you lust after someone the most? And what fantasy of yours turns you on the most?

Mine involves a woman in very sexy/elegant lingerie and stiletto heels......I might tell you more later ;)

2007-08-06 03:05:59 · 4 answers · asked by ....... 1

I'm in love with this guy and he knows I have feelings for him but not to what extent. (we aren't dating) I'm starting school soon so I will be moving away, not too far, but far enough I won't see him everyday and I know it's going to kill me. I see him almost everyday and talk to him everyday so I'm afraid us not seeing each other all the time is going to change things for the worse. It's apparant that he has feelings for me too, he pretty much told my friend, but he still has feelings for his ex too. I want to talk to him about it but I don't know what to say and I wish I could tell him how I truely feel but I don't want to push him away or scare him. What should I do? Please help!

2007-08-06 03:05:00 · 6 answers · asked by *A* 3

...I used to date a guy..At the begining I didn't had feeling for him. But after a while I started to like him. He was afraid of commitment. So I stop seeing him.

Every time we bump to each other we stare to each other and say nothing. In fact he wants to talk with me...but I never do...what's the point. He didn't choose me, he choose his freedom.

The thing is that I haven't seen him quite some time. But I miss him terribly. Beside of his childish nature he used to be very pure and innocent guy.

My question is? How to overcome this feeling?This is killing me.

Serious answers please .Thank you.

2007-08-06 03:02:23 · 7 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5

When we love we get romantic. We are at our best when we are in front of our loved ones. How often do you express your love? Are you good in words? If you are, have you written a love letter? For whom? Kindly share. If you want you can post the love letter or the love letter you've received. What is the best quotable lines in your love letter?

2007-08-06 03:01:55 · 13 answers · asked by RuSSian Empress 2

some guy wants me to meet him and I do not want to meet him yet, until next year because I am a BIG BIG girl and I want to lose weight, do you have a GOOD excuse I can give to him so I can't meet him until next year?? I told him my Mom said I can't meet him until next year and he said If It gets that bad that she won't let me meet him until next year he will come over my house. so do you people have a good excuse I can tell my friend Owen??? thank you........

2007-08-06 03:00:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean women are having sex for sex nowdays,,will it be safe to say that sex should be sex allready ? i mean i can go thinking about what she will or will not think about,,, think about it,,, if they like it then its love,,if they dont then its sex,,if we like it then its still sex,,if we dont like it and move in then we are a player,,,,..... shouldnt sex be sex allready ? just a physical pleasure ? i know there is some women out there still think of sex of intimacy thing, but i cant go and figure out what she wants because their feelings changes in seconds, no point investing my feelings in something that she will either take as sex or love or just a pleasure, get what i mean ? well as for me got hurt thinking it was love, yup, i think in a way its women that makes a guy that way,,,I dont know but i know one thing that is i will only love the women 100% if im married to her before that its just testing the water,, you can argue but even women treat it this way nowdays

2007-08-06 02:52:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can I tell a guy that I love him, in a joking way, so he doesn't get scared because i've known him for only a month, but still get the message?

2007-08-06 02:51:28 · 27 answers · asked by The Universal Brain System 1

2007-08-06 02:47:51 · 1 answers · asked by instructror2006 1

im 20 been with partner for two years and just not fussed bout sx!! thing is he doesnt even try any more because he knows im not interested. he is well endowed but i jus dont enjoy it and dont care if we dont for months!is this weird, any other girls feel like this?

2007-08-06 02:41:59 · 30 answers · asked by georgina d 1

Been with a girl a few weeks, Ive always been nothing but honest with her because she talks about how much she hates being lied to, yet, I found out a week ago that she has dated a girl before. She talks about this girl everytime her name is mentioned saying how much she hates her, but she lied to me about the reasons why she hates her.

2007-08-06 02:34:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

They say you can relate to a song. May it be in the past, now or for hopes in the future, What song can represent it? Kindly cite examples and details. Does music elevate your soul? for me, it does.


Me? As of now, I listen to My Chemical Romance's I DON'T LOVE YOU.

It portrays my feelings for my x. He is my first true love. Well I thought it was until I found out nothing will be right until two people wants to work it out. I gave him my all and attended to his needs but the heart tends to give in to exhaustion. It loves without boundaries but it can reach a point where it's stop beating for someone. Falling out of love.

What is your song and story?

2007-08-06 02:21:24 · 5 answers · asked by RuSSian Empress 2

Knowing that he left you without any explanation, months later he calls you asking to see you once again, would you go? Lets say that you do. But then he calls you telling you how he misses you n **** how he “matured“, take you more “seriously” - yet, he doesn’t show up? And when you guys finally meet, he’s cold and tells you that he’s no longer into public affection but he has the guts to kiss you passionately during the movie anyways? A week later he calls you asking about the “future” then next thing you know he calls you once again, telling you that he’s “sorry” but it’s better for us to be friends???? HUH???? What?!?!? The only explanation he gave me was: I don’t feel the same way, it’s all because of you, I only missed you as a frd, plus it was your mistake that things ended the way they did… I’m never going to get over it! Why do I have to take all the blame? Just for hanging out with my frds at some public place when he told me not 2? It’s not like if I cheated on him! Or maybe I should have. Now that we’re “frds” he can’t accept the fact that I took it serious?

Therefore, my question is: Why would he still want to be my frd? What’s so good about it? What is he trying to get out of this? What game is he playing?

2007-08-06 02:18:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I work at the same job. We have a baby together. We even have the same baby picutres on our desks! (very cute!) Sometimes I like it, sometimes I don't.

Pros: I get to see him around the clock, we take breaks and lunches together, we take our vacations together, I never have to worry about if he's cheating on the job, because I physically see him... he sits across the aisle from me. Birthdays and Valentine's Day is really special, especially on the job.

Cons: When we are not getting along, everybody knows about it, other women talking to him about non-work related things to make me mad, females lying and telling him things that I susposedly said that's not even true (he has trust issues), men scared to speak to me because of what he might say or do, I get too many phone calls (in his opinion). (It's calls from school and daycare and other affairs of the home.)

Is anybody going through the same thing? What is it like for you?

2007-08-06 02:06:19 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-08-06 02:01:19 · 45 answers · asked by suzie 3

Girls which guy would you choose and why??

1 --Muscualr ,bulit guy with angular facial featueres ,defined jaw line,high cheek bones,chissled face ,great personallity

2--Muscular bulit guy,soft facial features, rounded not very defined jaw line,high cheek bones,Fuller face.great persoannality.

which guy would you choose and why please only choose one?

2007-08-06 01:55:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

M bf said we can talk whenever i want but i don't want to call him if he really doesn't want me to... idk if he's just being polite of what but sometimes i get the feeling tht he doesn't want to talk unless i call him.. he use to call me but i feel tht i've been the only one calling now.

2007-08-06 01:49:36 · 11 answers · asked by shortnloud162@sbcglobal.net 2

im 14 and my mom thinks im anoerixic

my typical eating day

-for breakfast I have a cup of green tea
-some fruit for a snack
-and a salad for dinner

She tells me i eat way to little and she thinks im anoerixic. I just eat a little cause I dont want to get fat

im 14, 5'9, 130 pounds, and a size 3 in jeans. I look average but she thinks im anoerxic.

2007-08-06 01:47:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

For over a year I dated a girl who had walked out on her child (2 & 4) and left them with the father who was very bitter. I gave her the benefit of the doubt when I met her because she was very sweet. She did finally get 50/50 back for her kids. After a long battle. Our relationaship was good for the first 6 months, till I caught her cheating on me one night, when she was drunk. It took about 2 months 2 get over that. Then I discovered she really left her kids to be with her best friends husband whom she had been swinging with. All of this was hard to take. Towards the end it got hard to bring her around my family because I felt weird. Finally, she met some guy, through my cousin whom she broke up with me for and starting talking to him. I still talked to her for a few weeks, because we still had feelings for each other. Then last saturday, she was drunk and called me over for sex , the next day she told me she was still was talking to the new guy. What do I do? Because I still love

2007-08-06 01:41:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy in question is:
20 years old
Born in the year of the rabbit
A leo

2007-08-06 01:34:59 · 7 answers · asked by Lilith 1

my friend marie, 17 wants to have sex with this college kid, Luke 19. They were talking and stuff and then marie came to me and asked me if she should have sex with him, this other kid Fred, 15, said that you have to wait to get married. I was like why, If i have to get married in order to have sex, then i wanna get married now.


I checked on the internet and i came a across something on premarital sex.

Couples who have premarital sex, have higher sex drives and higher sex pleasure. (Teenagers have twice as much sex pleasure, than the adult premarital couples). While married couples have an extremely low sex drive, so I wanna know. I asked my parents but they got pissed if i brought up premarital sex.

I'm 15 so i shoud have a high sex drive.

If your gunna have a low sex drive, why get married to have sex?

2007-08-06 01:34:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

the more you want a bf/gf, the more you cannot find one.

10 points to the most interesting answer =D

2007-08-06 01:04:49 · 20 answers · asked by nobodyknowsme™ 5