my friend marie, 17 wants to have sex with this college kid, Luke 19. They were talking and stuff and then marie came to me and asked me if she should have sex with him, this other kid Fred, 15, said that you have to wait to get married. I was like why, If i have to get married in order to have sex, then i wanna get married now.
I checked on the internet and i came a across something on premarital sex.
Couples who have premarital sex, have higher sex drives and higher sex pleasure. (Teenagers have twice as much sex pleasure, than the adult premarital couples). While married couples have an extremely low sex drive, so I wanna know. I asked my parents but they got pissed if i brought up premarital sex.
I'm 15 so i shoud have a high sex drive.
If your gunna have a low sex drive, why get married to have sex?
2007-08-06 01:34:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a personal choice & up to you to make it but I wouldn't hurry. Just remember the first time you have sex you will be much more emotionally tied to that person than you would believe right now, choose well & play safe.
2007-08-13 19:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're even asking this question tells me that you're too young to be playing around with sex. It's your harmones - they're flowing all over you and you just plain don't know what to do with all of these feelings that are inside you.
As for the research - I know people that have better sex now within marriage than
they did prior to their marriage.
Having sex brings a large amount of responsibility. For example: baby's, sexual transmitted diseases etc. Take some time and "think" about all of this before you take the leap in sex. There's far more to it than just the immediate safisfaction.
2007-08-13 19:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by skeeosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all there is SIDS? have you heard of this? its venereal disease. there are some that don't' have cure and they are horrible and leave horrible stuff with you and people that do that well have that mess. Also there is chance of having baby and then the guy leaving and most of the time they leave or the marriage is rushed and they stay together only little time and the baby suffers no one else. of coarse you do because you have to raise it by yourself. you are not old enough to support a baby and have to ask parents that is not fair. its great when you both wait. i can assure you sure you have high sex drive so what? its the glory of being not touched and with he man you love at the one period in time and life.
2007-08-13 16:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEX IS AN ACT OF INTIMACY BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE WHO HAVE VOUCHED TO BE TOGETHER .ITS A VERY SPECIAL THING THAT YOU SHOULD WAIT TO EXPLORE AND EMBRACE WITH THE PERSON YOU TRULY LOVE.IF YOU HAVE A HIGH SEX DRIVE WHY NOT TRY MASTURBATING ,ITS SAFE AND HARMLESS.IN THIS TIME & AGE OF HIV,S.T.I & CANCERS YOU SHOULD REALLY BE CAREFUL.THERE IS NO HARM IN WAITING UNTIL YOU ARE MATURE ENOUGH & READY MENTALLY & PHYSICALLY TAKE IT EASY NOW!!!
2007-08-06 01:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by QTEE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is clear to me is never be in a hurry to have sex, when it comes it comes and if you are in a hurry then it takes longer to get there.
2007-08-13 16:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jesús Ernesto Miguel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK NOW WHO TOLD YOU THAT BS!!?! YOU DON'T HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL YOUR MARRIED OR HAVE TO BE MARRIED BEFORE YOU HAVE SEX........ANYBODY CAN HAVE SEX WHENEVER THEY FEEL LIKE HAVING SEX THERES NO CERTAIN TIMES THAT YOU CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT ALL AND I KNOW THAT FOR A FACT CUZ I'M NOT MARRIED AND I HAVE SEX WHENEVER WITH WHOMEVER I WANT TO HAVE IT WITH WHOMEVER I WANT TO AND ITS BEEN THAT WAY WITH ME SINCE I WAS ONLY 14yrs Old.AND I'M 26yrs Old NOW.
2007-08-13 16:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by crsport24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur 15 id wait a cple more years then ... but having sex before marriage is good but bad... it means more to u if u wait.. but i mean its ur life have fun...
2007-08-13 15:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is not the sole reason te get married
2007-08-13 23:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by daydream13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all based on your beliefs really. thats it. as far as sex drive that all depends on the person. statistics cant be realiable so dont listen to that.
2007-08-13 17:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by AO 4 Yayo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you get pregnant. than you would have the father.add catherineelainelynch@yahoo.com to your contacts list
2007-08-06 01:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by i love tony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋