For over a year I dated a girl who had walked out on her child (2 & 4) and left them with the father who was very bitter. I gave her the benefit of the doubt when I met her because she was very sweet. She did finally get 50/50 back for her kids. After a long battle. Our relationaship was good for the first 6 months, till I caught her cheating on me one night, when she was drunk. It took about 2 months 2 get over that. Then I discovered she really left her kids to be with her best friends husband whom she had been swinging with. All of this was hard to take. Towards the end it got hard to bring her around my family because I felt weird. Finally, she met some guy, through my cousin whom she broke up with me for and starting talking to him. I still talked to her for a few weeks, because we still had feelings for each other. Then last saturday, she was drunk and called me over for sex , the next day she told me she was still was talking to the new guy. What do I do? Because I still love
2007-08-06 01:41:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run!!! This woman is a disaster.
2007-08-06 01:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Red flags!!!! Bad parent alert!!!
You dont even trust a girl, I mean EVER who walked out on her kids....ever! This girl is no better than Britney Spears with her kids drama
Just let her go because she abandoned her kids and that's wrong! Go find another good women who loves her kids and would even leave them at all. This girl cheated on you and is just using you for sex!! That's it!! You are little toy for her to play with. Leave her sorry ***! You deserve better so much better in life and lifes too short for you to settle on this tragic girl. Don't try and save her. She needs to hit rock bottom before changing her life and fixing it up again. You got mixed up with the wrong girl. You made a big mistake and now you can fix it by leaving her for good. Ignore her phone calls and emails. Good luck to you
2007-08-06 09:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good parent and a good person NEVER leaves their kids. That should set off warning signs that there is something wrong with this woman. She won't be faithful to you and I think that you know that. You seem to have strong feelings for her but she will continue to break your heart.. Imagine how heartbroken her children must be knowing she abandon them. They will grow up knowing Mom left them for sex.
It is time to make a hard decision and not see her anymore. But you already know that. Maybe you just need to hear it from others.
Good Luck!
2007-08-06 08:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, dump that woman. She is bad news. Even to her kids.
A shame she even gets to see them at all. It may sound harsh, but as a mum, it doesn't sound to me that she'll be able to be a good influence on them.
Still, before even reading the end of your story, I knew she was going to do the same to you.
She has serious issues that you can't possibly help her with.
Spend your time and energy on someone who's worth it, she is not. Good luck.xxx
2007-08-06 08:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not love. You are just desperate to be with anybody that you make excuses for this girl. You are around till something better comes along. Stop the excuses and get out.
2007-08-06 08:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woa. What a train wreck! Get off at the next depot and wait for something better to come along...something that will take you to a positive place.
Seriously. Get rid of her. I know it might seem hard b/c you have feelings for her, but you have to think about yourself and your own sanity here.
2007-08-06 09:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over get some goodbye action then walk away. If she can do that to her kids just think of what she can do to you.
How can you still love this person, you cant possibly have any respect for this person.
2007-08-06 08:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by The Lorax 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life.......she has hurt alot people along the way including you......once a cheater always a cheater!!
2007-08-06 08:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she would ditch her CHILDREN and her HUSBAND for ANOTHER MAN what makes YOU any different?
Tell her to take a hike! That woman's insane!!
2007-08-06 08:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by FlowerChild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to let go of her. She's self destructive and loving her is only going to make you dislike yourself...which is self destructive. Point?
2007-08-06 08:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by Jean 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try banging your nuts in a door, it'll have the same end result.
2007-08-06 08:48:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋