Singles & Dating - 9 August 2007

there is a girl i told her that i want to date her she is with me in the British council she is taking a course with me but not in the same class ,i told her that i saw her everyday and i want to talk to her but i couldn't ..i dunno why but i couldn't ..then she said :excuse me ..be right back...that's mean NO .. i am confused now i can't think more ..she is in my mind in my dreams .......please what i must to do after she said that..ignore her or what?????????

2007-08-09 23:56:35 · 12 answers · asked by messidona 2

i have a girlfriend that i love, undoubtibly, and we get on gr8 we but i dumped her once for an ex but as it happens that faded for a second time so we started talking more and now where going out again but i had a strange incident last week with a one of my best m8s we made out and she has a b.f(he knows) but at the time i was single and we let it go as a teenage fling(which i have a rather bad rep for) but know we have discovered with our boy/girlfriends on holiday that we have feelings for each other but i dont want to hurt my girlfriend should i tell her?? is it just hormones?? or should it be a matter of wat they don't know cant hurt em(if anything does happen)??

2007-08-09 23:45:18 · 7 answers · asked by cobra360 1

I've met this guy and we have been out on a couple of dates. On the second one, he kept checking out this other girl (who was very pretty). Does that mean he's not really interested in me? I find it quite offensive and hurtful. I am not insecure, I do consider myself reasonably good-looking, I just prefer the guy's attention on me, as I don't oogle other guys when I am with someone.

I know a lot of guys do this, my ex used to do this as well and said it was just eye-candy. But I still find it hurtful and rude and I don't like it. And I also know some guys don't do this (at least not obviously). But why? Do they realise they are doing this? Can they help it??

Also, he is still asking me out for further dates and making arrangements to see me again in the next couple of days. I'm just a bit confused.

2007-08-09 23:42:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

As in the film 9 1/2 weeks!

2007-08-09 23:35:19 · 36 answers · asked by 1919 3

Yesterday I was with the girl that I like and some other friends at the beach. Things were going good, we held hands in the pool, she was looking at me alot and she was following me alot! At the end of th day, we were going home in the same car with some other friends, so she went in first and sat at the back and then my friends told me to sit at the back next to her but she said that I shouldn't because the ones that had the farthest houses and were going home at the end should sit at the back (it's just for organisation)... But I have a feeling that she didn't want me to sit next to her, I dunno why!

And two days ago she told me that she wanted to see me at night with our friends (and she told me that I was very cute in the same conversation), then when I went to dinner with my friends to meet her and her friends, she left with some friends(but not all). Like why didn't she stay if she wanted to see me?

Does she like me? Why is she acting this way? She's really confusing me!

2007-08-09 23:27:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

when u finally get the issues/problems off yourself & let the other person know? Phewww! i did just that & it feels good!

2007-08-09 23:00:11 · 4 answers · asked by Ms. 10 2

me and him have bin going out for 1 year alittle on and off but no1 in between. now he doesn't like me as much as he used to i used to lie alot now i don't he wants me to impress him/ do something to make him like me what should i do seriously??

2007-08-09 22:59:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 22:58:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my bf where out last week in our local pub that we have been going to for the last 3years, We are suppose to go out tomorrow night but last week something very scary happend
We where out in the smoking area and i was chating to a girl that i hadden spoken to in a long time and this bloke was hanging around, and he said to me " Can i hug you" I said " my boyfriend wouldnt like that" my bf was talking to his friends behind me and the bloke says to me " I cdont care im going to hug you anyway" and did and then this is when thinks got scary he then said " im going to bottle your bf now" My bf was looking the other way and had no idia what was going on and the guy lifted up the bottle I daont no what came over me but i grabed another bottle and put it to his face and told him id smash his face in if he touch him,
He then put the bottle downa nd i grabed my bf and got out of the pub, When I told my bf what had happen he was schoked.
I dont want to run out of my pub but shud i go

2007-08-09 22:49:24 · 22 answers · asked by K k 3

okay i feft my home city 2yrs. 9mons. ago now i'm back with my partner and my ex knew i was here 5 min after my parents did and has tryed to contact me my question is should i tell my partener we've had trust isues before on my part not cheating but accused we said we would never keep sercrets but this would also bring problems no i have not talked to him and would really be happy spending the rest of my life not talking to him so do i tell or not

2007-08-09 22:34:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yes or No??

and Why?

2007-08-09 22:27:42 · 14 answers · asked by Alice 2

He lives in a different town about two hours drive. He no more visit like he use to, anytime I comment on his behaviour, he tells me there is nothing wrong with that. For the past six weeks, we have not met but sometimes talk on the phone. He sometimes tells me he forgets to call. I have tried several times to inquire from him if we can still be in a relationship, I called him and told him I wanted to discuss our relationship with him but he told me to call later, I tried again but he refuse to pick my call. Shld. I keep trying or I should wait till he calls. I'm ready for anything. Pls. advice

2007-08-09 22:25:06 · 19 answers · asked by sweet81 1

2007-08-09 22:21:34 · 8 answers · asked by TAN58 1

:(((
there's this guy who's woo-ing me. he's really nice & all.
and he calls me "darling" , says "i love you" and stuff.
but one problem -
i think he's a real flirt! my sources told me that he had like many many girls too! just before me.
so i dont know if i should accept him, cause he might be flirting with other girls behind my back too!
also, i dont really know if i've got feelings for him..
i'm really confused & kinda hurt?
please help me!

2007-08-09 22:21:27 · 11 answers · asked by amber 1

Guys do you care about a girls size?

I am almost 5'2, and I am slender, but I have an hour-glass figure. I am only a 32 A/B. Guys do you think that is too small?

Do you perfer ladies with a bigger size, like a C, or a D?

2007-08-09 22:19:32 · 22 answers · asked by Klava♥ 1

2007-08-09 21:59:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've met a guy with the perfect personality for me but he does nothing for me physically. If i spend more time with him, would I eventually become attracted? Or should I just move on and forget about him?
Has anyone else ever been in this situation and then had it change?

2007-08-09 21:58:03 · 15 answers · asked by Nat R 2

Someone who isw physically fit(muscleman)intelligent about a variety of subject matter,intuitive and a great musician.

2007-08-09 21:57:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am thirty four and wondering about this a lot. I don't really believe there is any girl out there for me. Should I just accept this and try to go on with my life?

2007-08-09 21:56:44 · 10 answers · asked by John D. 7

I'm thirteen and this guy that I like is 15.He likes me back,but the prob is people keep telling me he only wants me for sex.We've had sex once. [i know you must think i'm a whore]
and i don't want to make that mistake ever again.I dont know what to do.

we make out
then he gives me a look
and when i ask him what is it he says never mind...
he's had sex with previous gf

2007-08-09 21:54:00 · 9 answers · asked by CUBLIAR 2

2007-08-09 21:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by deepak j 1

ok why is it that all the girls go for the guys that are assholes
they just pass the nice guy out of there mind why is it that
in school there are guy that think about the girl and they lose there
mind

and start think about kill ppl or himself

but i thing + so im ok

but every now and then i think about it

2007-08-09 21:50:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do? Ive tried and tried. I cant seem to be attracted to any guy. Ive tried looking and liking..but I CANT! Im attracted to girls and I want THAT TO STOP..I try not looking at girls but Im attracted to everyone I see(Hot girls,of course) I want to be attracted to guys but they dont have anything which is good about them.wha should I do?

2007-08-09 21:49:01 · 25 answers · asked by Stacy M 1

This is so typical...im currently with my bf but not been together long and his ex is asking him to give them another go and hes feeling guilty over it and saying he loves me but he doesnt know if hes made the right choice as hew as with her for 7 years. i love him but now MY ex who i finished with in june rang me last night saying he hasnt been able to get over me and loves me and wants me back and i do love him but i know it wont work as he wants to join the marines and will be away alot. then my best guy mate declared his love for me and while i love him to pieces and think he is attractive i cant see a futur and i tried to let him down but hes waiting in the side wings for things to go wrong with my current bf. now im doubting my bf cos hes doubting me and if im the one. i love him and want to grow old with him but hes not filling me with much confidence and yet my ex loves me more then anything...what should i do?

2007-08-09 21:46:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

here's the scenario. a guy sees this girl once a week. he might even be secretly in love with her.she isnt so sure abt this, but kinda suspects it.

he acts kinda weird around her. like,looking at her and then looking away. gazing at her.smiles when he talks to her doesnt talkwhen friends are there.he once change his route on a bus trip after knowing hers.speaks easy to girls but getting tongue-tied when she talks to him.took three months to initiate talk wit her.

well,she texted him. BUT.he was busy studying for a very important exam the next week and hasnt completed anything. (subjects like economics, geography). hereplies her but takes around 1 n a half hours to do so. his messages arent that short. he talks about himself before asking her a qn.ie she asks him about his day,he'll then ask her abt hers. this goes on 4 times n twice e next day,shes slow to reply too

is he
1)just bein polite n replyin?
2)friendly?
3)shy but interested?

y is he askin qns? n taking so long?

2007-08-09 21:43:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's a few people that have mentioned to this girl that i was a bit unstable(making crazyjokes about me(i've been known to be paranoid and blow my lid) in a lighthearted way and this girl wanted to stick around me a little more after that.What's the deal?

2007-08-09 21:41:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 21:40:26 · 13 answers · asked by lucy w 1

My boyfriend & I have been dating for a year now, we have been great except for the fact that he loves girls. He was 20 when he lost his virginity (not to mention I was his first serious girlfriend) so he relied on porn a lot. he always looks at porn in front of me & comment on how sexy the girls are, wants to go to the strip club all the time, & watches videos/movies with hot girls, even brings up bring bringing another girl into bed w/ us. I have taken up pole dancing classes in hopes he will give me more attention. I only get to see him on the weekends and it seems like when we're together its great but when we're apart its sh!t. My self confidence is at a 0 & its gotten me really crabby I tend to snap at him a lot. I have been getting attention from other guys & for a moment it feels good & I wish that my bf would treat me like that again. I am not sure what to do, I love him & want to spend the rest of my life with him so I just don't know if im the one that needs help or he is?

2007-08-09 21:32:26 · 11 answers · asked by shortblondie1120 1

2007-08-09 20:48:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wanted to knw if my everyday ritual had a purpose :)

2007-08-09 20:45:46 · 25 answers · asked by clads 1