I'm thirteen and this guy that I like is 15.He likes me back,but the prob is people keep telling me he only wants me for sex.We've had sex once. [i know you must think i'm a whore]
and i don't want to make that mistake ever again.I dont know what to do.
we make out
then he gives me a look
and when i ask him what is it he says never mind...
he's had sex with previous gf
2007-08-09 21:54:00 · 9 answers · asked by CUBLIAR 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes we used a condom
2007-08-09 22:00:33 · update #1
he sound kind of sick to be having sex with a 13 year old even if he is 15
2007-08-09 21:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never think you're a whore Sweetie, but you were right to stop having sex. It's just too dangerous at your age. It was a mature decision to stop. As for your boyfriend, only time will tell. Let him know up front that you don't want to have sex again, and see what his reaction is. Slow down with the making out, and don't be talked into going farther than kissing. I think it may be a good idea even to hold off on dating until you're a bit older. Did you use a condom at least?
2007-08-10 04:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, having sex once doesn't make you a whore. Even having sex more times doesn't make you a whore. Don't believe that about yourself. Ever. A whore is someone who sleeps with anyone and everyone without any emotion getting involved. I dont think that is who you are.
Second, the boy is 15. Yes, he wants sex. Most boys that age do. I don't know from what you say if he likes you for more reasons than that, but there is a good chance that his biggest motivation is to have sex. Doesn't mean he doesn't like you, but it does mean that he has a normal desire for sex that most boys have. It also doesn't mean that he wants anything else either. Just be careful here because its hard to tell with guys that age what their motives are.
Next, please reconsider having sex again with anyone for a while. You're very young to be doing that and there are all kinds of dangers to you if you keep doing it. Besides getting pregnant, you could also get a disease from this boy or a future boy, especially if you aren't using protection. ALSO, don't let anyone use you like that. You don't have to have sex with a boy to keep dating him....no matter what others say. If he really likes you, he'll understand that he has to wait. If he doesn't understand, then he is not worth your time.
Please talk to a counselor, teacher or parent or family member about what happened. Get someone to help you get protection before something happens. Babies might seem sweet and nice to have, but they are a lot of really hard work ( I have three kids). You don't want to be a mom before you have a chance to graduate high school and have all the fun that teenagers get to have. It would suck to know there is a really cool party going on down the street, but you can't go because you have to take care of your baby and work. Protect yourself so you don't become a mommy before you're ready...preferably when you're over 18. I know a lot of girls your age are having sex young and having babies, but just because they do something doesn't mean you have to do it too..
Be careful of boys who pressure you into having sex. Most of them will make babies and then leave the girl to figure things out for herself on how she's going to raise the kids. Live your life first and have fun. Babies and sex should come when you are much much older.
Good luck.
2007-08-10 05:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Top Alpha Wolf 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you are asking b/c you actually stated the answer in your question. He is telling you what he wants you for & when he is giving you that look, while making you out, he expects for you to know that he wants to have sex. If you are thinking/hoping he'll change his mind and like you for more then you are wasting your time. Sometimes we girls actually need to listen to what the men say & not hope we can reverse it. Unless you want to just have an intimate relationship and you are too young for such, don't expect much else from this playboy. BTW..You are NOT a whore. You are very young to get involved in such activities though..You deserve better than to be used as a mattress & that goes for all ages!
2007-08-10 05:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by Unique Soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he wants you for sex because you gave it to him and maybe he knows he won't find a girl like you again who have sex with him.... you shouldn't have intercourse at your age anyway, you can play but no more accidents do happen and you may get pregnant....He must bragg to all his fiends about you be carefull act wisely, he doesn't love you he is just an horny 15 years old with hormones kicking in
2007-08-10 06:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, Old guy talking here.
At first we guys all 'only want sex`.
Especially at that age.
You're too young.
Wait till YOU want it.
Then wait a little longer to be sure.
2007-08-10 05:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-08-10 04:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this age all boys see in a girl a possible partner to
have sex...
2007-08-10 04:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Blue_Blur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you don't wanna have sex, then get away from him, now
2007-08-10 04:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋