:(((
there's this guy who's woo-ing me. he's really nice & all.
and he calls me "darling" , says "i love you" and stuff.
but one problem -
i think he's a real flirt! my sources told me that he had like many many girls too! just before me.
so i dont know if i should accept him, cause he might be flirting with other girls behind my back too!
also, i dont really know if i've got feelings for him..
i'm really confused & kinda hurt?
please help me!
2007-08-09 22:21:27 · 11 answers · asked by amber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is always confusing when you know that the guy who is trying to woo you flirts around before. You really need to consider properly before you made the decision if you are willing to accept him.
If you have no confidenece in him, my suggestion is that you don't start a relationship with him until you know the facts about him
2007-08-09 23:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta let him know you want a serious and commited relationship from the start. You don't even like him flirting with other girls. You would never accept him dating other girls before you guys "go steady". He will either appreciate your concern and submit or realize he can't be tied down and leave you alone.
2007-08-09 22:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by Eddie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a loser that is playing on your feelings. You may look vulnerable to him. Like a easy lay. If he's not asking you out to dinner or any other date. He just wants a shot of pootang. This is his game and how he plays it.
He is so transparent. There's no problem here.
2007-08-09 22:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cool. Just take care of your business. See if this guy can step up his game. Find out if he brings anything to the table. If not charge him to the game and move on. Never under value yourself. Always trade up.
2007-08-09 22:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by SuperKdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another! There are many nice, sweet men in the world, that will treat you like a goddess, with the utmost respect!!
2007-08-09 22:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by Klava♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be hurt? One date doesn't mean you have to marry the guy. Go have fun for an evening.
2007-08-09 22:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure if you have feelings for him why take that chance that you might be hurt. Find someone else.
2007-08-09 22:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sources are probably right.also you already know that he's not the one,so take for what it's worth,and just have fun.live life with just a little bit of spark.don't trip we all know men are p.i.g.s......keep smiling.
2007-08-09 22:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by willthe thrill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep your distance for some time and be friends with him no matter what he is telling you to make sure whats on his mind :)
2007-08-09 22:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by janet m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he kinda sounds like a loser to me... I say find another.
2007-08-09 22:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋