Singles & Dating - 9 August 2007

I was talking to this guy. Sex came up because he knows I'm a virgin, and he basically said he wouldn't let me sleep with him until he thought I was ready. Since when did it become his choice? Was he saying this to show that he wouldn't take advantage of me? I was kinda taken aback when he said it, because I couldn't understand when it became his choice. What do ya'll think? Please gimme your advice.

2007-08-09 04:10:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys what do you like in a girl? What would be to young and how old are you? Does a girl always have to be skinny or pretty?

2007-08-09 04:09:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a woman I really like. I was with her the other night. She is 5'8" and 300 lbs. I am 6'1" and 200 lbs (I am not fat - muscular). She was fantastic in bed. When we did it missionary and doggie style the sex was great. She wanted to be on top but I was a little scared the weight would be too much. I know her full weight won't be on me but I am still unsure. What do you think?

2007-08-09 03:57:56 · 13 answers · asked by Handsome Stranger 2

When sending text msgs, I rarely select phone #'s from my cell phone book as I type it in if I know the # by heart. I was txting my boyfriend last night telling him that I'd come meet him in an hour and texted my ex-bf on accident not realizing I typed in his number instead of my boyfriend's (their cell #'s start w/ the same prefix). My bf saw his # as I was going through my sent txts and is really upset with me. I can understand where he's coming from in that it looks as though I tried getting in touch w/ him, but it was an honest mistake & I was upfront w/ my boyfriend that I did that on accident w/o even realizing it until I was going through my txts. I haven't spoken to my ex since our break up and have no desire to have him in my life as I'm in love with my boyfriend. I just typed in his number on accident - I typed his # every day for the 6 yrs of our relationship! It was a habit. Any opinions would be appreciated. I feel so bad that I hurt my boyfriend...

2007-08-09 03:53:06 · 4 answers · asked by Rosey45 2

There is this boy I met on camp who is CRAZY about me. He even asked me to the movies, I said yes! :( How do I dump him? Please!

2007-08-09 03:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

and then realize that it was the SPANX and Push Up Bra that made her look so good!? And now your wandering how to get her backout without seeming rude?!

2007-08-09 03:48:49 · 14 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6

2007-08-09 03:45:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't have one but i have a friend who really wants one and i keep saying not too. what do u think??

2007-08-09 03:39:23 · 11 answers · asked by Cherry fiz 2

My general Idea is a strong love is nothing but a disease!
I wish no one would be great on my mind!!! only a week guy fall in a deep love. I do believe in some thing else which is not as strong as love but more than a "like" I don't know the word!

2007-08-09 03:37:59 · 5 answers · asked by ahmad p 2

Describe your perfect man!
What should he wear, how should he behave himself, fisical attributes, what can do it for you in a guy?

2007-08-09 03:37:05 · 11 answers · asked by zooz 2

21 things that girls want guys to know------ 1. Sometimes things are hard to say... so be patient------ 2. Sometimes when we try to say what we mean, but its hard------ 3. Sometimes we want to be held tightly ------ 4. We would like you to answer your phone once in awhile------ 5. Size doesn't matter to most of us- its shallow------ 6. We care about you and the things you do- thats why we ask questions------ 7. we hate being left out of the loop------ 8. Sometimes learning something new thats kinda hard is fun... especially when your helping us learn it------ 9. We usually dont pretend your the strongest guy ever- we really think you are------ 10.Your our hero------ 11. We love to have your picture with us------ 12. The little things mean the most- like walking with us somewhere and talking on the phone for a little bit; it makes us feel special------ 13. We can't understand why your not interested in talking about the stuff we like------ 14. Some of us do not understand the significance of playing video games all the time------ 15. Why are your shows cool and ours dubbed as "stupid crap"? We cant understand that------ 16. We love it when your smiling------ 17. We hate it when you get upset------ 18. We know your going to look at other women... but why say, "she's hot" in front of us?------ 19.Sometimes we like to do things we hate with you because then those things are fun because your there- like cook or play a sport. ------ 20. Even we understand and watch the Superbowl- even if its the only game we acually pay attention to.------ 21. We don't really like it when you tease us or make fun of us just to get our attention, but if you do we get the point.

2007-08-09 03:36:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to try this online dating thing. I have posted a link to show you some pictures I am thinking about using http://photobucket.com/ put my user name in search my user name is Bill3192 you will see 5 pictures I am thinking posting please tell me what you think. Couple out side with a redsox shirt .

Also I have created a profile what do you think of this?
Well, about me I am 36 and live in Oakdale working Cromwell. I enjoy working around the house always seems like there is something to do inside or out. I just completed adding a bathroom downstairs in my house. When I am not working around the house, I am hanging out with friends at a cook out or just for a beer somewhere is great too, I also exercise 3 to 4 times a week and try running 5-7 miles per week as well. I am looking for a girl who is likes to have fun. It doesn’t matter whether we hang out around the house, go out to dinner with friends or swimming at the beach.

thanks

please be honest.

2007-08-09 03:34:55 · 12 answers · asked by Bill C 1

well my GF who lived with her grandma since she was 2 now after her grandma died and she is now 17 she had to move down the street with her nieghbor. b4 all of this we were together for 6 months and we talked to eachother most of the days and after her grandma went into the hospital she didnt call me nearly as much and i let my emotions get the best of me because i wanted to always talk to her while she was there but she never wanted to so then i couldnt control my emotions and sed to her thet she didnt care all she wanted to do was hang out with the neighbor and not talk to me but ive appogized many times but she sed she doesnt think she can get over that and that upset her because i sed those things while her grandma was in the hospital and she broke up with me over the phone a couple days ago and now she wants to talk about things in person 2morro and it doesnt seem like she wants to fix this but we were sooo in love and idk whats going on what do u think will happen or nething

2007-08-09 03:32:41 · 2 answers · asked by Joe518 1

Where i work, 3-4 days ago very accidently i and a girl from another department started smiling and saying Hi-Hi and exchanging emails and sending email to each other about Weather,Music,Movies and all that jazz. Nothing more.

She told me she lives with her boyfriend and her 8 years daughter which was completely fine by me. She is 26 and i am 28.
Here comes the happening. Yesterday in the 20th email (she from home, i from work) she asked me something that when i answered i never got any other email from her . Yes, once i answered that question, she did not send me Any other email. And today at work, everything between us was totally stopped, as like we would never even know each other. 100% Cut off. And all these got stopped after i answered her question. Now i tell you her question and what i answered and you please, tell me what you think, why everything stopped from her side after that.
Her question : Who do you live with ?
My answer : I am married and i live with my wife

2007-08-09 03:27:53 · 3 answers · asked by uighi s 1

this girl that I have been talking to and texting for over 5 months she told me 2 days ago that she lost intrest in me b/c i never asked her on a date :( I still really like her and want to go on a date with her. she still texts me and came and saw me and work yesterday. but today I did not hear from her today. do you think she still likes me? what should I do? Do you think I should ask her on a date? I am think I am going to tell her something like this


That yI were scared and didn't want to have things awkwarder. But really wanted to go on a date. Then ask if you two could start out fresh with a date. If she says yes then give her a hug and thank her and if she says no Just give her a hug and I will not worry so much then. sound good?

I need help starting the convo I really dont know how to bring it up. How would you?

2007-08-09 03:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 03:25:51 · 21 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

Is it possible to love someone after 2 months? I was seeing this other guy for 4 yrs, and after we broke up about a month later, I started dating this other guy which is my new boyfriend. I knew that I loved my ex, but it almost seems like I have the same feelings for this new guy that I had for him. I never went through the stupid, butterflys in the tummy phase, with the new one.. the feelings were just there, and I was comfortable. Could I just be carrying over these feelings from one relationship to the next, or are they real? I am so confused..

2007-08-09 03:25:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys, do you like it when women wear makeup or just look natural, with no makeup...including lipstick...Im a very natural girl, I've got good personal hygiene and I only wear mascara..that's it...Sometimes I don't wear mascara at all...I don't really wear perfume though..I wear like..victoria's secret PURE SEDUCTION lotion on certain areas, like behind my ears, and on my neck...I don't wear jewelry..well most of the time...If "i had to" I would just wear a necklace, but I don't wear earrings....Well, really, my question is that..I know that Im beautiful and i get lots of compliments from guys...But sometimes, I feel like If I wear makeup, I'll get more attention from guys...DO THEY miND IF a girl can't wear earrings and chooses not to wear makeup and strong perfume..I've got a beatiful smile..nice legs, nice mahogany skin (Im black) and nice dark medium length straight hair...Guys..just tell me the truth.. also want to know if there's something wrong with me..Im more attracted to guys

2007-08-09 03:23:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

?Why do you women get soo angry over the smallest things? Example: You say you want to go out to eat, and you show up and we are still sitting in our underwear. Now you know we can get together in less than a minute, but you storm out anyways. It gets kind of annoying and is alil childish.. Who agrees ?

2007-08-09 03:21:29 · 22 answers · asked by James C 1

how do i get her to stop coming between me and my boyfriend, taking her out. she keeps talking about he is her man and to leave him alone and she wants to fight me.

2007-08-09 03:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by mc 2

ok this guy that i went out with a few time asked me out again but my feeling for him have sort of changed but he says his feelings for me will always be the same what do i do he wants an answer soon and its hard for me to tell him no cause i already broke his heart a few too many times please help me thanks

2007-08-09 03:16:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm leaving for basic training at Lackland, AFB, Texas in November.
I've been dating a girl for almost a year and a half. We've had some trust issues before, but who doesn't?
We have our ups and downs, but overall, we're happy.

I need advice on whether I should stay with her or not.
Oh yeah, she's a college student getting ready to start her 2nd year here in about a week. We're the same age, and I was at Marshall with her all last year. She's in a sorority (she likes the frat guys), and that's what has caused the majority of our trust issues.

Anyone have firsthand experience with this?
I've always heard that it's impossible to keep a girlfriend at home while you're in basic/tech school.


I NEED HELP!!!

Thanks.

2007-08-09 03:13:09 · 12 answers · asked by jdotson200 2

how about other body areas, like hairy legs or hairy Armpit

2007-08-09 03:10:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

NOTE: This is serious! This is not a joke!

I have a guy friend that is okay looking but can never seem to get girls, because he has low self-esteem and carries himself poorly...as in, he acts really quiet, stiff, and nervous around people. He is afraid to show his emotions or be assertive, and as a result people often mistake him for being a "slow" person even though he's not(he has a Bachelor's degree!).

I told him about these guys that I recently met that have their own p*rn site. My friend wouldn't fit in on that site, b/c the guys' site is for tattooed alternative-looking guys & my friend just doesn't have the confidence or look. But my friend is considering other kinds of p*rn, so he can make some money but (most importantly) get laid so that his confidence will go up. Good idea or bad idea?

Also, what's a good way to get started? Are there any sites that will take inexperienced guys? For example, videos featuring a seductive school teacher seducing geeky guys? Ideas?

2007-08-09 03:09:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and i broke up. And i have packed up all his things and am ready to send it all back. Im not so sure about him though. I dont know if he's dome the same. I really want my stuff back. Im not sure how to get it back though. We dont talk anymore and if we do, he ends up pissing me off. Should i send an email, call him, or go over to his place?? If i call him, what do i say? Idk what to do, and i want my things back!!!

Any ideas how you guys got your stuff back after a breakup?
Thanks in advance!!!

2007-08-09 03:06:11 · 15 answers · asked by Marie 5

I'm 24 years old women who is tried of being single. I never have a boyfriend and never be on a date. I just tried to see my friend been happy with they boyfriend and going on date. They last time I get noticed from a guy was about two years ago, and they only thing he want from my is sex. I tell the guy "I not that kind of girl". Then he stop talk to me. I have a lot of guy friends, but they have girlfriend, and they are just good friend to me. I never find a guy that is attraction to me. Some of me girl friend say "I'm pretty girl, a good person, very care person, respect and help people, and think of others before me."

I know I'm know I a good person, but I don't feel pretty girl.
The reasons I think that know men don't want is because I'm Black (median dark), over wieght (about 190 pds), short hair (my hair length touch my shoulder), my face don't have clear skin, and I'm virgin.

I just want to know what I'm doing wrong that men don't want to be with me and what can I do?

2007-08-09 02:57:55 · 12 answers · asked by kimbrown34 3

Hey guys, well.. i m gonna be 18 in 58 days.. and I made a promise to myself that i would go on a date and kiss a guy before i was 16, then i pushed it to 18, and now it looks like i m gona have to push it to 21..i ve been on a date .. but havent done nethin...
But... there's this guy, who s my cuzin's friend, n he's really funni and really nice! I would LOVE to go on a date with him and maybe even u know, get a bit close, but i would never hav the guts to ask him out.. i talk 2 him online and went wit a movie wit a group of friends...
What should I do?
And should i be worried that i havent kissed a guy yet??

2007-08-09 02:49:44 · 15 answers · asked by Kittykaren 3

2007-08-09 02:44:45 · 3 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

2007-08-09 02:40:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know masterbatin is a sin but hey its not like i havent done it b4.... anyways well when i masterbate im usually havein a great day so why don't i do something a lil extra special for myself but everytime i seem to pleasure myself it seems like the great day i was havin just turned into the worst day of my life.... ever get the feelin that masterbation is bad luck?

2007-08-09 02:40:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous